Things I want in a gf>nerdy and not just "I have watched the latest tv show or marvel movie" I mean a real nerd who likes playing games, reads books, is interested in various topics like history or natural science and is able to talk about things for hours and loved learning new things>not fat>european like me>virgin>introverted >sweet and gentle personality >not a gold digger>does not use social media outside of maybe pinterest or tumblr and does not post herself online >not a feminist >is able to love and wants a life long relationship and later marriage This are my minum standards and they are impossible in the year 2025. I do not see any point in being with a woman who is not like this.
>>83489014you will probably stay single for life with these standards but i think you should keep them instead of leading someone who you dislike on
>>83489026I know I once met a woman like this but she left me. Was very happy with her. Yes I am still a virgin. I just don't like women who are not like this they bring me no joy.
>>83489014>Things I want in a gfThat's why you're gonna be single for the rest of your life. Chase fiction, and you get nothing.
>>83489040Women like this exist but they are rare. What is the point in being with someone if I am not happy with them?
>>83489014u lost me at doesnt use social media
so it sounds like you want to date a teenager, is that the entire joke behind these threads?
>>83489048How do you know you won't be happy with someone that doesn't meet these standards?
>>83489051Why would someone use social media it is pointless and harmful. Pinterest is fine because it is just pictures and videos. >>83489061I am not joking she can be older.>>83489062Tried it, there was no compatibility. If you can't be friends as well then it is pointless.
>>83489085>One woman didn't click with me, therefore the others won't eitherYou're just handing yourself Ls at this point.
>>83489085theres a lot of bad habits that dont need to be deal breakers though. like yeah social media is pointless and harmful but if you like her regardless why should it matter? its not THAT big of a deal
>>83489096Again why would I be with someone I can not be friends with as well and I have nothing in common with. I don't want to here her talk about some trash TV she watched or what other stuff non nerdy women talk about. If you don't even read any books then you are most likely not very smart to begin with making it hard to even have a conversation.
>>83489120I think I'm starting to see the problem.It's not them. It's you. And until you find out why, you're gonna keep sabotaging yourself.
>>83489102Because women who use social media tend to be vapid and get a wrong sense of reality from it. I talked with a girl who mostly scrolled tiktok all day, never again. You can waste your time on other things. Also posting yourself on there is a huge red flag.
>>83489132You don't seem to get me. My only requirement look wise is not being fat, I focus on the character. What is even a relationship, wanting to have sex with each other and nothing more for you?
>>83489152I didn't say anything about looks or sex, but you just did. Projection, maybe?
>>83489224No need to gaslight me I will never change my standards.
>>83489242Then enjoy being single forever, anon.
>>83489261I don't enjoy it but it is better than being with someone I don't like. My standards are not even outrageous no idea why you act like this, not my fault women are so bad in 2025.
>>83489014i found someone almost exactly like that, except i don't think she is a virgin and she also has feminist views, both are things i don't really care about
>>83489317I would be maybe okay with one past parnter if she is truly sorry for it and thinks it was a big mistake. But I no feminist their entire core belief is hating men and wanting revenge for something that happened in the past and I don't want to be with someone who hates me simply for my gender.
>>83489337I don't see why she would need to be sorry for being with someone she loved before. And feminism has a very broad spectrum. Sure, there are some women that genuinely hate men, but most are not like that. And we share very similar views so it's all good for me.
>>83489371>I don't see why she would need to be sorry for being with someone she loved beforeI guess we don't hav the same values and world view so no point in even trying to argue about this, I get what you mean but the first time is something special.If she does not hate men then she is not a feminist.
