I need outsiders perspective on this. heres my little drama situation going on now>be 35 year old NEET>Best friend bought his first house>he throws a little house warming party>kinda shocked me that hes a home owner but i was genuinely happy for him>we are both 35 years old>im still living with mommy and daddy>mommy finds out that my best friend is married and bought a house>starts comparing me to him>suddenly other people ask me "why don't you have a house yet anon" And heres the thing thats bothering me.I genuinely don't have any excuse or rebuttal towards these people, and i want to make this one thing very clear i am not jealous or envious of my friend owning a home.if theres any kind of jealousy on my part is that im actually jealous in a good way, i mean im like "damn i wish that was me" but im glad its my best friend whos successful.if that makes any sense, im just happy to see someone make it. i know i am entitled to my own feelings and thoughts about this ordeal, but i think people are trying to make me feel bad for not being like my friend. My friend then tried to use his social status as leverage over our friendship, in a healthy competitive kind of way he was shit talking me to try and motivate me into succeeding as well.
>>83489782>go get a 30 year mortgage and have some kids so they can have their own one day!
how are you two even friends at this point? jfc. anyway, try to get a job, that will almost certainly shut your parents up.
>>83489782I am an unc like you. I own a home and have no kids. I have friends ranging from very well off with multiple homes with children, NEETcels, and everything in between. Its nobodies business why you arent owning a home. Ignore them.
>>83489809>>83489782stop being a worthless failure anons.
>>83489782>i want to make this one thing very clear i am not jealous or envious of my friend owning a homeDid someone actually imply that you were jealous at all? You say that people (including the friend) are comparing you to each other, which is natural given that you're both 35 and owning a place by that age is an expected milestone.In any case, you're not changing what people think. Competitive people always see everything as a competition, even when they're not involved themselves. It's pretty odd to begin with that you're so concerned with not being seen as a resentful asshole in the situation, rather that not being seen as unsuccessful.
