Many women say that they are lonely but what does it actually mean? I get that men are lonely because they are judged for the smallest mistakes but women should have no problems making friends.
>>83493779> women should have no problems making friends.i wish, i havent had a friend since middle school and im 21 now, have never went to a party, did not go to prom or any grad activities, i attempted to make friends at work but it was honestly just too draining fake emotions and fake interest, and i have almost nk sensebof humor and constantly just stuck on awkward scilence or stupid small talk, it just feels so empty all of the time. i just genuinely dont know how to interact and socialize correctly and im getting to a point where im accepting myself as just how i am and its not so bad, being alone isnt the worst ever when i have games and money coming in, its kinda peaceful i dont like feeling like i have to hang out with soemone or text them constantly to keep a friendship. im thinking of going to a therapist or something also because im gonna need to not be this way if i wanna make it farther in life :/
I'm an autistic woman and I haven't had "friends" since 10thish grade, I haven't had friends that liked me since I was verrryyy young and I've never had a best friend or boyfriend.I definitely consider myself to be pretty lonely, when I go out and see other women my age out with their friends or boyfriends I feel really sad and inferior because I don't have either.>Men are lonely because they are judged for small mistakes, women shouldn't have that problemWomen are especially socially aware and can easily tell if you're nerodivergent. I'm sure this is much worse for nd men because women are going to be more selective when it comes to dating. Still women have ostracized, mocked and ignored me for the way I am so after a while I completely stopped trying with them.As for getting a boyfriend, I of course really want a long term relationship but I very rarely talk to men outside of my family and overtime I developed a strong fear of them. I have no anxiety talking to just about any other woman but I get horrible social anxiety talking to men, I know it's irrational but it can't be helped. Sorry for all the privileged foid whining, it's 3 am and I've had a weird day.
>>83494102If you would go outside, and socialize, you would have 0 problem to have a normal men, or have female friends. Last one is unironically harder to getting a normal bf. It is much more harder for men-.
>>83493979>>83494102This seems so bizarre because society as large is just one giant safety net for womenMust be a powerful aura of autism
>>83494238How is it bizarre? This tracks very well. They have all the opportunities to socialize, but they just don't want to because it's tiring for them. They could get a bf within a week. But they don't because it's tiring for them. They could work on themselves to get a higher tolerance for socializing. But they won't because they know they can get social interaction and a boyfriend without doing so.The only meaningful difference between a guy and a girl in this situation is that, as a guy, you know you have no other option than to work on yourself, so at least some of us become worthwhile people.
>>83493779I live too isolated for friends
why would ANYONE want friends after spending time around people for ten minutes?
>>83494238>one giant safety net for womenThat only means that they're more likely to get people to pity them so they don't end up homeless. If they're annoying then no one will want to be friends with them, unless they're hot and even then it will only be a shallow kind of friendship from people who want to fuck them.
>>83494238> Must be a powerful aura of autismmost likely but ive never been diagnosed with anything and i feel like i might have autism but i dont wanna say i do cus that will just officialy debilitate me and i wont ever change, but i still have hope i can progress and better myself it just sucks
>>83493779Of course I get lonely, I haven't left my house or spoken to another person outside my family in 16 years.
>>83493779When I got rlly lonely I spent my day drawing pomni naked and fat and ragebatig on here it was a pretty weird time of my life bc I was hated in uni and my friends thought i was going into an alt right pipline
>>83494648Why haven't you left your house?
>>83494846Because I have social anxiety so I try to stay away from other people the most I can
>>83495065So if you can't socialize or leave your home how do you live with the loneliness?
>>83495119Escapism I guess. I keep my mind occupied by playing games, reading manga or browsing this website so I don't think about how lonely I feel.
