>>83494724
IDK but I really didn't realize how special it was that my first gf actually liked talking about other people we found attractive. My last gf screeched autistically at me even acknowledging the existence of other women. I think it's pretty retarded to have an expectation that one must pretend that only their partner is attractive. All I care about is that she doesn't actually fuck them, it's fine if she finds them hot.

>>83494724
Grow the fuck up. I tell my wife anytime I see a hot/slutty chick. I'll even point out outfits they wear that I'd like to see her in and vice-versa. You can appreciate good looking individuals.

Experience: Married 13 years

>>83494751
>>83494754
ok so i am just little bitch ok then i got that noted it still makes me really sad

>>83494765
maybe you should talk to him about it
not everyone is the same and if you have a problem with this behavior, it's going to be hard to build a strong relationship as long as it persists

>>83494788
i send him :(((((( when he mentions those girls is that enough

>>83494765
No actually being like you is kind of normal, I just think it's stupid.

>>83494754
You know what you're doing lol.

>>83494808
oh you kinda sound like an asshole idk if i should take advice from you

>>83494802
it would be better to just have a conversation about it to get your point across rather than leaving it up to interpretation like that

>>83494817
I'm not trying to be a dick about it, I just think it's stupid to have a weird taboo about mentioning other attractive people to your partner.

>>83494818
this is my first relationship ever idk how to have those conversations

>>83494765
Have you considered participating? Pointing out individuals you find attractive, both male and female?

>A. Opens dialog for what you like/dislike. Offers insights into how his mind works
>B. He starts to feel like you and insecure. He asks you the same way you asked him to stop. (Sounds like a win win)
>C. You continue doing what your doing and nothing changes (You are here)

>>83494837
well yeah in my first relationship i had a pretty similar scenario, ex-girlfriend would talk about "attractive" celebrities, i never said anything but in my mind i was like wtf, why are you talking about that, just wasn't mature enough to say anything about it

>>83494724
I think less of any woman I date that talks about other men she finds attractive. It serves no purpose other than to show she is a disloyal whore.

>>83494852
why? big gamble for no reason, when you could instead just talk about it and see if the relationship is even feasible with the person in question

>>83494724
No, it's not and more likely than not he's using your insecurity as a weapon to keep you in check and not realize you're more attractive and desirable than he is, or at the very least more attractive than he thinks he is.
>>83494754
Don't listen to this incel and his fake "I'm married lie. Dude, if you've been married for over a decade and still tell your wife about every hot woman you see she's either cheating on you or you're openly a cuck. Women don't tolerate that shit long term, even the ones that are deeply insecure enough to marry someone like you.
source: married 11 years in February

>>83494869
i like your words anon

>"hurrdurr she's hot"
>"Talk to her...get her number"
>He pussies out
>Don't mention anything about it

If he EVER pull this shit again to you laugh at his face, only then mock him of how he pussied out from the last one.

His ego will be humbled with every burst of your laughter.

>>83494879
Not really much of a gamble. Discussing stuff such as likes and dislikes is something grown-ups discuss in their relationship. If your not secure enough in yourself and your relationship to talk about topics like that, are you even mentally ready for a serious relationship. He's gonna continue to think the way he does irregardless of how you feel. You might be able to get him to stop discussing out loud, but those thoughts will still exist. So why not listen?

>>83494903
Dont listen to this faggot who has advice from being married which means that he does not know shit about running through hoes. If you dont tell your partner about seeing someone else attractive you are in an immature childish relationship not two functioning adults

>>83494903
Neither are accurate. Our relationship has never been stronger. We have very open lines of communication. I want to know what she likes and dislikes. I want to know what she finds attractive. I want to hear about every little detail of her day, because that gives me reassurance that she's not going anywhere. Plus she's a stay-at-home with our kids. Got cameras outside, we share pins/passwords/accounts. I can go on but I'll leave it there

>>83494916
Foids have the shittiest taste when it comes to relationship partners. We don't know what man-child level she's dealing with. He might hurdle a chair at her for doing something like that lmao

start telling him when you see a hot guy then and see what happens. or dump him. or stay together. why is half this board this shit when there is a literal advice board

>>83494724
Have some self respect dumbass foid bitch, jesus

>>83494724
Your boyfriend is an asshole