My boyfriend didn't marry me after 6 years of relationship because of his family, he is my highschool sweetheart. His family hates me and thats why we didn't get married yet and I can't help but feel resentment towards my boyfriend for choosing them over me. Should I just leave?(Not a tranny or a faggot)
marriage and monogamy is not natural to the human species and is civilization enforced. you should only marry, as a woman, to get money. if go on bumble and find a fat but well paid beta bux and marry him. if you dont need money you should just fuck random guys. you can start with me since i gave you the advice in the first place it is only fair.
haha my highschool sweetheart cheated on me and my family loved herI should just get off this fucking board and ask the chubby barista for her number, none of you egirls are worth it
>>83495780Why do you want to get married? I assume you have some reason
>>83495780dont listen to these other retardstell him that a real man chooses his woman over family, and that he should put his family in his place, he should become a real man and not allow others to bully him, then marry you.
>>83495780There's a lot of missing information here. Why do you think his family hates you? Were you engaged or did you assume you would marry after being together for so long?
>>83495780how much resentment op?does he say he'll marry you in the future or nah?
>>83495798Because I want to be close to the man I love but he apparently doesn't want the same thing or >>83495804 is too much of a coward to stand up for me He insists his family is always right and that I just have to suck it up >>83495815They hate me because I refuse to be a doormat, mind you I'm a very patient person >>83495817I have resentment often but I don't let it show
>>83495780I know you are a faggot pretending to be a woman. But in the hypothetical case you were an actual women, Just tell him how you feel, you absolute fucking retard, lack of communication is the death of any relationship.
>>83495851what race are you and what race is he?
>>83495780Your boyfriend's family shouldn't be getting between you and him, he's a big boy now that can make his own decisions without parental consent. You should tell him to stand up to them.
>>83495780The average person marries 12 to 18 months after the first date. You're an idiot for staying with someone that doesn't love you.
>>83495851>He insists his family is always right and that I just have to suck it upthats subhuman behaviora man that never grew up and still acts like a 5 year old "muh mummy/daddy is always right!"he must learn to be independent
>>83495854>>83495864When I bring this up it always ends in a terrible argument and it goes with him going off on me >>83495870I'm starting to think as well that maybe my purpose for him is just companionship and sex, I mean its not like he can fuck his mom we are not in alabama >>83495873I don't know how he could learn.. there was enough time to learn. I'm thinking of just quiet quitting till I figured something out
>>83495965>quiet quitting till I figure something outI get where you're coming from but in the business we call this monkey-branching and it makes you look awfulJust fucking leave him now unless you live with him and figure something out later
>>83495851>They hate me because I refuse to be a doormatCan you give a concrete example of something they dislike about you?The fact you're choosing to be vague makes me think you know you're wrong and you don't want people pointing it out.
>>83495981I can't leave just like that we have a apartment lease together Its a terrible inbetween void >>83495990I can't because I'm pretty paranoid about this, for good reasons that I also can't state here
>>83496040how much longer on that lease?
>>834960476 months Mind you he is not physically abusive so I'm in no rush to leave I also honestly hope things do get better
>>83495965>my purpose for him is just companionship and sexYou make me disgusted for being attracted to your sex. Women are fucking pathetic.
>>83496117nah, it's fair for a woman to want to marry her high school sweetheart after six years and to be upset if it looks likes that's not happening
>>83495965>I'm starting to think as well that maybe my purpose for him is just companionship and sex,Funny, I'm starting to think the only thing my boss wants out of me is my labor for his own profit. We must be soul mates, dump that loser and come get with me babe.
>>83496131I have a female friend who's in a LDR with this guy who barely talks to her, but when they are together he's all over her. She talked to him about how she feels unloved and insecure when they are apart, but he's gonna move closer to her in a year from now. He admitted to neglecting her and told her to talk to other men until he can move to her. She's willing to put up with another year of neglect for him. What bothers me isn't the expectation they have, it's completely valid to be in love with your first and wanting to make it work, but you're also teaching these men that this type of behavior is okay. OP will never know what a good relationship feels like and will get stuck in the cock carousel (Known many women that dated their high school sweetheart and did that) and her bf will keep stringing along insecure broads for sex until he can't do it anymore.>>83496137Kek'd so hard. Great post.
>>83496040>I can't because I'm pretty paranoid about thisYeah okay. But you must understand that coming to strangers with a one-sided story and dramatic accusations, like "they hate me for not being a doormat", screams mental instability.Guys will come out of the woodwork to take your side but no one here has any idea what's really going on, so all you're getting is mindless validation.Are you really going to take advice from people who tell you to make life-altering choices based on a couple of vague, short statements?Your complaints might be valid, if your bf's family were religious extremists who want to convert you, or they insist that you work in the family business or something.But for all we know, it could just be that you're a walking red flag with an attitude and you're simply annoyed that his family doesn't want that for their son.
>>83495780Sounds like you are the problem for making such a big deal out of it.You should be more agreeable and improve your relationship with his family so that marriage becomes a favourable option in the future.Putting pressure on him and trying to guilt trip him like this is unhealthy behaviour and might be the exact reason his family dislikes you and he's hesitant to marry you.>>83495851>Because I want to be close to the man I love but he apparently doesn't want the same thingHe's been dating you, been loyal to you and loved you for the past 6 years. He takes you out on dates, thinks about what gifts to get you, accommodates and takes care of you for the past 6 years.You're immature and toxic for saying he doesn't want you because he's acting like a responsible adult and avoids making hasty decisions his family advices him against. The fact that you made this thread proves that you're the issue to me. Of course I don't know the full situation but I strongly advice you to do some introspection and consider your bf as an individual with his own ideas, thoughs, feelings and hopes for the future instead of a fantasy man who has to do X and Y or he doesn't love you. I know women aren't wired to think of men with empathy but try using your brain here.A woman telling a man to chose her or his family as a prove of love is kinda like a man telling his woman to have sex with him or she doesn't love him. Toxic as fuck.So yeah try to be a sensible adult. You can't do anything about how you feel riht but you can choose how to react to those emotions. And I advice you to consider and understand them and try and learn to act better.
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>>83495780I told my gf I think marriage only makes sense if/when she gets pregnant.Marriage isn't a real bond anymore. Divorce is trivial (especially for the woman). Only having a kid together is a truly unbreakable bond.
>>83495851You're overthinking this. Just leave and he'll make up his mind. It's very simple. Just "I'm looking to get married and you're not into it, it seems. Bye". Do not speak for a long time (a week or two does not count, it needs to hurt). Do not be the one to reach out. Make him come to the conclusion himself that he wants to marry you, and that he can't imagine a life without you. He'll spam you and what not, I'm honestly pretty sadistic, I'd just spend my time berating him before ghosting for another 2 months.>did you ask your mom for permission before messaging me?Keep a backdoor login on some of his emails or social media and check occasionally to see if he's looking at other girls. He likely isn't since he sounds like a wimp but still good to have.>>83495965>ends in a terrible argument and it goes with him going off on meNevermind.Just break up with him. Cannot believe some stupid normalnigger didn't get a high school marriage gf, and has the audacity to be angry at her, genuinely enrages me
>>83495780It's time to shit or get off the pot if marrige is something you really want. If he doesn't want to get married, don't force it. It will just end badly
>>83495780I hope you didn't waste your pair bonding ability by fornicating.you probably did
>being a woman who's in a relationship but still posts on /r9k/Yeah I wouldn't marry you either lmao.
