I tried making friends on the /lgbt/ frengen, but basically everyone I added ghosted me.What am I doing wrong?
/tttt/ is insane and full of normies, that's the problem
Are you a tranny? Are you only looking for tranny friends? I want a gf, there was one here that expressed interest last night but she didn't reply.
>>83498364most posters are regulars, and most of them are still posting instead of chatting for a reason. i for example hate DMs because people get upset if you dont respond and i dont know how to exit conversations if im tired or need to do something without upsetting people. so i just dont add anybody. because if i did then i would ghost them. this just means you need to keep adding people until you find someone like yourself who is NOT a regular...which could take a while. its really not that different from real life. i realized this effect on soc a long time ago when i noticed that the same people would be posting their contacts for literal years...like if they just wanted someoneto talk to im sure they found it hundreds of times already. so thats not really what theyre after...they more like to imagine that some magic perfect friend will appear if they just post often enough for long enough. and hey, maybe it will happen, who knows.
>>83498438>Are you a tranny?I'm a mtf repper>>83498413There are some nice people
>>83498364They probably all ACKed themselves
>>83498364general regulars on any board and topic all know eachother like >>83498451 says, so it makes getting to know any of them difficult. imo the best way to befriend anons is add them in the wild, in non general threads.
>>83498689>imo the best way to befriend anons is add them in the wild, in non general threads.I did that once and I'm still in contact with that person to this day. Although I still find it hard to make conversation which is weird since it used to come so naturally before with my previous friend group.
>>83498710i think, the odds of "connecting" with an anon enough to be truly comfortable enough with them to make conversation easy and without any tensions are maybe 1/15 from my experience. you gotta roll alot
>>83498725Guess I just have to keep trying
>>83499405unfortunately how it is :(
>Only looking for women>Why can't I find anyone?
>>83498725It's a lot more than that for me, at least for the first conversation.
>>83499555what's your experience with meeting people on 4chan?