>be a bifag male obsessed with bondage ever since I discovered bdsm porn in my teens>first thing I came to and it becomes a core integral part of my sexual identity>as integral as getting off to women is for a straight woman>can't get off without it. can't even jerk without looking at it>girlfriend of 6 years will tie my wrists up sometimes but it's never enough>just really, really want to be in something that completely restrains me and is impossible to escape>something like picrel>gf isn't in to doing that for me>she even tells me she's willing to let me sleep around with other women/men who will fulfill that need>been looking but no luck>professional dommes are too expensive>try self bondage but knowing there's a way for me to get out of I want to kills it for me>need to be at the mercy of someone else>eventually bdsm porn even depresses me because I'm just watching enjoying the stuff I really want to doLife is hell for submissive men who are regular hairy dudes instead of twinks
>>83498379I was about to suggest hooking up with men because it's easy for me but then I read your last line and maybe thad just because I'm a twink I didn't realize it would be so much harder for other guys because I feel like a lot of men have pics of hairy and sometimes even older guys in bondage on their profiles. good luck tho because bondage is great I really hope you can find someone to do it with you
>>83498464Thanks brotha. Idk what it is. I wouldn't say I'm unattractive or anything. I've got a bit of a stomach but I'm fairly muscular. I've lost about 35 pounds last year and I feel like Im at least a 7.5/10. Maybe I'm just not trying hard enough
>>83498464How do you find people to play with? I've tried FET and FetLife but neither really seem to go anywhere. Im thinking of going to a munch but I'm nervous
>>83498379Are women even into to doing this to a man
>>83498812Some are. But they're rare.
>>83498702recon is the best if you're shy but if you post pics of yourself then twitter is great too>>83498504where are you looking? because that really does effect it
>>83498379these Final Fantasy characters are getting out of hand
>>83498879Both of those were me. I'll check out recon and give that a shot and see what happens
>>83498702I can definitely recommend FetLife, as someone who has been going to events for the past three or so years, it is the best way to meet people who are into kink.My best advice I can give to you is just go to one. You're going to be super nervous and anxious the first time, especially if you're socially awkward like I am. But after you've gone to one, the next one gets easier and you will meet people that you get along with. In my experience, everyone at those types of events are normally very friendly and welcoming to new people, so you should be fine.
>>83498935I'll just have to work through the jitters then. Thank you friend
>>83498379haha what if a foid did this to you then sat on your face for a few hours
>>83499100That'd fucking suck so much. I'd fucking hate it if a foid did this
>>83498379That webm where the bodysuit is placed in a cage going down a hole in the floor is terrifying. I don't get the appeal. Is it not about the bondage at all but the huge trust involved? she get off to trust?
>>83499124To be honest, it depends on the person. Some people just like being tied up in the feeling of the constriction and being unable to move. Some people get off on the lack of control. Other people like to be genuinely scared.
>>83498379>girlfriend of 6 years will tie my wrists up sometimes but it's never enoughFaganon wants to ruin 6 year reltionship over some loser porn addict sexual fantasy. I hope you get lonely and your gf cucks you for a real man.
>>83499117it would especially suck if you had to earn your freedom by making her cum with your mouth
>>83499279She's into being tied up too. Don't be pissy just cause you can't get your dick wet.
>>83498379>>83499279I was kind of like this growing up where i consumed way too much femdom bondage type porn as a teen/young manWhen i finally got a gf I sucked it up and did vanilla sex for awhile until something clicked and i realized i could "invert" the fantasyLike it wasn't specifically me or the man in the video that had to be the submissive partner, as it was really more the act of domination+submission and restraint that turned me on.Newsflash: most straight women really like it when you restrain and dominate them during sex, and decades of kink porn (even though the genders were reversed) meant I knew exactly what to say, what buttons to press, etc. and now my sex life is great and my now wife cums buckets. She doesn't know i'm secretly acting out porn fantasies from my youth kek
>>83499124>>83499176Basically what this anon said. For me, the appeal is primarily the constriction and the stripping of control. It's kinda like a free pass to just exist without having to worry about anything
>>83499556I understand that, just the extreme example where no one can here you scream terrifies me.
>>83499550That's such a beautiful pussy.Also I'm kind of the same and vanilla sex doesn't excite me at all. The few times I had sex, I couldn't cum most of the times because I was bored. Even though the girl was attractive.
>>83498379>>she even tells me she's willing to let me sleep around with other women/men who will fulfill that needYour relationship will fall apart from this
>>83500148Eh. Whatever. I guess. What'd be the point in staying in a relationship where I'm not sexually fulfilled anyways? She fulfills me emotionally and I get that sex isn't everything but there's still a massive part of me that feels unfulfilled because of this
>>83500575Why even bother with a relationship then? Go full gay and be free
>>83500609Gay people are in committed relationships. Also, rent is expensive and it's nice to have a room mate I can cuddle with
>>83498379>be straight>also discover bondage porn early>hot!>try for years to get a girl to tie me up>FINALLY realize and accept girls aren't into that type of thing>still really want to be tied up>accept the only way it'll probably ever happen is finding a guy to do it>maybe it'd be worth it...>don't really do anything about it for quite a while>one day stumble across a photographer/rope artist who's tied up a few femboy types alongside women>horny, so I message and ask if he'd tie up a guy>he says no, the only males he plays with are cute femboy bottoms >pout for a few weeks till I get horny again>browsing his pics again>think "man I'd do anything to get tied up like that">realization sweeps over me>I must feminize myself in order to live my dream of being tied up>message him again, ask what about a photo set of a normal guy becoming a femboy just so he could be tied up??>he says no, you must already be fem or he's not interested BUT he can put me in touch with a gay friend of his who loves turning straight boys into submissive girly faggots and he could help me if this is what I truly wanted>still horny, decide fuck it, I'm doing it I don't care if I have to wear a dress>photographer puts us in touch>talk with gay guy over discord>if you do this you have to commit, it's a lot of effort a lot of work to be fem, you have to diet, shave, learn about girly fashion etc>he says I have to obey or there's no point in training you to be girly>I say ok fine as LONG as you're just making me girly and don't want me to do gay stuff I don't want to suck cocks and whatever>he says lol, of course not anon, a boy who wants to be tied up so badly he'll feminize himself would never want to do gay things>errr...haha yeah ok when you say it like that but still I don't want to do gay stuff>sure sure anon>he tells me to send him my fav photos of girls in bondage>we discuss how submisive, girly and cute they areso that's how you solve this specific problem
>>83501497Damn. That's hot. Good idea anon
>>83501497You know you can pay a woman to do that right? The effort it'd take to earn enough money surely wouldn't be more than this. And you have less risk of getting raped too
>>83501545it's really not so bad wearing panties and a bra every day...we're going to meet up soon and do a small little rope tie just to be sure I want to continue.>>83501626yeah a woman pretending for money I mean zzzz most of them are awful actresses and can't sell it. I guess if this fails then whatever maybe I'll just hire some dumb hooker for a night and make do with her cheap fuzzy handcuffs but that's not what I want.
>>83501497nigga I just hope you know you're definitely gonna be doing some gay shit for sure. but good for that guy, every gay guy wants a straightoid like you to corrupt
>>83501497>be straightAbout that
>>83501646Yeah that sounds nice but you're agreeing to let a dude tie you up and make you completely vulnerable and he's expressed interest in making you do things. Legit anon, be careful
