>be me a 30yo inkwel>hang out with a coworker at her place>start acting whimsical and flirty to test the waters>she warns that if I get too comfortable she might put up boundaries>get up from the couch and make us coffee >bring the coffee and sit on the stool in front of the couch>she says "c'mon sit closer anon, let me show you something on my phone">*shows me funny memes and pics of her cat*>lean really close and roll onto her her lap placing my head on her thighs>start caressing her hair and face while looking at her lustfully>"I'm not getting involved with a coworker ya know" she warns me>immediately ask her if she's uncomfortable and wants me to stop>"n-no it feels good anon, keep going" she says while grinning >she places her hand on my pec and caresses it gently the whole time>she adjusts a pillow underneath my head as I keep caressing her face, lips...>we interlace fingers and she opens up about her past trauma>the next day she says she was just being friendly
>>83498854Wow how confusing. She wants comfy intimacy and physical connection without spreading her legs? Almost as if she's getting everything women want out of a relationship while not giving you what men want.
femanon here,she sounds attracted, but emotionally unavailable for anything more. Imo I'd never let a guy who I wasn't attracted to behave like this, even if I didn't want anything more.
>>83498854Seems like she was taking you for the 7-day free trial. How long ago did this happen?
>>83499162happened like 2 weeks ago.
>>83499195Has ANYTHING happened since?
>>83499195I could've sworn I saw you tell this story like 2 months ago, but imageboard time moves differently than IRL time.
>>83499200I stopped texting her, never chased. She reached out, but she wanted to keep things friendly. But we saw each other in some gothic club and she came close and said that I smell good and traced the fingers on my hand. She is a bit insane tho, she keeps framing everything as platonic and has been celibate for 2 years after a really painful breakup.
>>83499218She doesn't seem like she's interested in a relationship, yet. It seems she may be testing the waters first before determining whether or not to move forward. Unless you have something else going on, maybe entertain the idea or even start chatting with other women. She MIGHT start to feel anxious and move or Maybe you could ask her point blank if she wants to go on a date.
>>83499432she is not interested in any relationship and as far as I got to know her she isn't even hooking up with anyone. I was just testing whether she sees me as the hot guy friend who hits on her, or the cringey nice guy she merely tolerates. I'd stay friends with her if she at least finds me attractive.
>>83499570Sounds like your have your answer. Just let it go and move on. Enjoy what you had
>>83498854nigga, don't waste time with psychos
>>83499633Unfortunately, that's most women
>>83499603did she found me attractive or the cringy nice guy zone?
>>83498854People now a days don't have conversation or enjoy joking around.It's why everyone is a shallow soul less husk and everyone is crashing out on tiktok because everything feels fake and gay.Also think of it this way, women do shit for a retarded story cause they think the star of a shitty reality show people are watching. She is purposely playing hot and cold so she can either brag about bagging you or play victim for you making a move on her.>>83498880This is kinda a lost art amongst gen Z and Alpha. I genuinely am not gonna be with another gf that I don't slowly get close to. >>83499037Listen to her OP shes right
>>83499738She probably doesn't categorize you, sounds like she might just be lacking physical attention and goes a little overboard. Without knowing both parties, thats my best assumption
>>83498880kek, yeah this is the true knowledge. My gf started pulling the same shit after she got comfortable which is why I'm shopping around for a newer year model.
>>83499037>she sounds attracted, but emotionally unavailable for anything moreShe'd be available for Chad.
>>83498854Fenananon hereI'm just as confused
>>83500743would you allow this kind of touch from a guy you weren't attracted to, even if you didn't want anything with him at the moment?
>>83500851NoI guess if i was fooling around i would no strings attached but if i wasn't attracted to him at all I'd just feel repulsed or feel awkward about it, not beg him to carry on
