Why is it so rare for women to want a younger bf given how common it is for men to want a younger gf? Wouldn't a bf who's a few years younger be a net positive?
Women are attracted to wealth and status, which young men tend to lack
>>83500498This, and women want to feel protected, and they usually don't if the man is younger.
>>83500494women always want to date up relative to themselves so even if the young guy is hot he's not a good provider and she needs that in case she gets preggers
>>83500494Because men and women value different things.
>>83500494Women are attracted to men who remind them of their dads
>>83500498Not necessarily, you can predict how successful a younger guy will be reasonably well. A guy studying something like finance, eng, pre-med, etc. at a good college is pretty likely to have wealth and status in a few years.
>>83500503Disagree. See this >>83500526
>>83500535what are you disagreeing about? women dating a DOCTOR (premed) that's practically unheard of women would NEVER DATE UP like that.
>>83500550You said they always want to date up so I'm pointing out that dating someone like that would count as dating up.
>>83500526>you can predict how successful a younger guy will be reasonably wellthis is a hard disagree for me too, i know many guys with degrees you'd consider successful, and they just decided it was better to just neet afterwardsyoung generations are doomed
>>83500566>women want to date up, which I disagree with and my evidence is that women would LOVE to date a hot doctor in premedok? I don't think you're really getting it.OP said why don't women go for a YOUNGER bfa hot guy in pre-med has tons of options to date hot women younger than him, why would HE date the older woman...he wouldn't in 99% of cases.
>>83500572It's not foolproof but generally you can predict how successful someone will be based on college performance.>>83500587I wasn't saying it's common, I was simply pointing out that if a younger guy like that was interested in them it'd be considered dating up. Would they still prefer someone older in such a scenario?
>>83500494Id like to have an older gf but i dont want a mommy dom like most guys who want an older gf, i want to be the caretaker and dom in the relationship. like op pointed out though, its hard to find women into younger guys
>>83500494Because women mature faster than men so a 30yo man dating a 21yo woman are the same in terms of mental age, yet a 30yo woman dating a 21yo man is literal pedophilia.>>83500526>you can predictWhat fucking planet are you on lmao Women don't notice you until you make it.
Men mature slower than women. I'm 31 my male equivalent is still larping he can get a teen goth baddie. Watch how many scrotes I trigger
>>83500494Women infantilize anyone younger than themselves
>>83500830really you're just telling on your own failures, babe. you shoulda locked down a guy by 25 at the absolute latest. why did you fail at that?
>>83500846I have a bf he's 33Tut tut tut anon haven't you heard what happens when you assume
>>83500599>generally you can predict how successful someone will be based on college performance.after getting through college i can also hard disagree with this one. if you wanted to get a prediction then think about the networking abilities of a person. people that do bad in college can easily get jobs because of nepotism, over performers can experience burn outs.
>>83500850a bf huh? wow that's a guaranteed sure thing. 31 you said? ...tick tock tick tock clock is ticking. why didn't you lock down a good guy when you were younger like you should have?
>>83500846NTA but>I have a bf he's 33>>83500846>you shoulda locked down a guy by 25some people are so bad at reading it's actually hilarious>Watch how many scrotes I triggeri see better baitposters on reddit
>>83500866We live together and talking about rings for when he proposes next year>>83500867I had a guy back then but I upgraded because he got too fat lol
>>83500858>based on college performanceWasn't just talking about grades, meant general performance. If someone has good connections you can tell by the quality of their internships.
>>83500494younger men don't satisfy their daddy issues
>>83500878>>We live together and talking about rings for when he proposes next yearphew and then you can get fat
>>83500494My wife is a decade older, but yeah it's rare
>>83500912>get fatMy bf is an /out/fag and with him I did my first 5k not gonna happen
>>83500903can we stop calling it "daddy issues" and be real every woman has "daddy lust"
>>83500494because women want a man that has things and younger men are less likely to have as many things as an older man.
>>83500494>Wouldn't a bf who's a few years younger be a net positive?Not really no, youth is one thing men are attracted to most and women are well aware of it When women date men who are older even by a little it feels like they at least have something to valued for by the man
>>83500494i wish a younger ethnic bf for obvious reasons
>>83501463>for obvious reasonsExplain. It's not obvious
>>83500830Actually women stop developing at 19-20 and never evolve from that stage. Men learn and develop a wide array of skills from 20-40, women just scroll social media and grow fat.
>>83500494the only time ive considered dating a younger guy was if he was totally submissive and i wore the pants in the relationship and took care of him. so i guess the material and providing stuff others have said above is true
>>83501635You wouldn't want a dom younger bf who took care of you?
>>83501463im so lost, what obvious reason could you have for wanting a younger ethnic guy? do you mean black?
If any femanons want a younger bf I'm here. I'm not a sub though, I'm a dom and would want to take care of you
