I hate having social anxiety so much, especially with women. I am scared of talking with them despite being 6'3.Being bullied as a child and nobody coming to your help all the time destroys everything inside you and nobody cares, nobody will ever take their time to get to know me especially no girl.
you are a black nigger and a pussy what do you even have to fear and whine about? you have a natural advantage
>>83506940I pale not black, you don't get it years of trauma can't just be removed like that. I need a sensitive, caring gf but women don't want me
>>83506955you need to start neurotypicalmaxxing or build up social skills by hanging out with other autists like yourself. Gradual exposure is best. Otherwise you are just a lazy retard that came here just to whine.
>>83506931I don't have a lot of advice to give, but I'm a tallfag who was bullied and had almost abusive parents growing up. It sucks and get what you mean.
>>83507008>neurotypicalmaxxingI can't, don't even know where to start, I am not like them and I don't like most stuff they like, it is a bit easier now that a lot of them like nerd stuff but they only like it superficially.>hanging out with other autists like yourselfWhere online is pointless I don't want online friendships.
>>83506931Is this board filled with Chadcels? Stop being a fucking pussy, do some exercise, get on a dating app, write 6'3 and they will come to you.
>>83507031Yep same my father was very abusive, my mother not very motherly perfect recipe to create an incel. I just wish one girl would care and stay with me, every single woman have hurt me all my life. You need to be perfect and have zero mental problems or else you are trash that can be thrown away. I try to be more social but it is so exhausting it feels like everyone around me is so different.
>>83507049I am getting fit atm the thing is I don't want most of the women on there, they are not caring or sensitive and just want a a funny chad. I need an shy nerdy preferably autistic girl.
Take pregabalin, 1 pill will make your anxiety go away and turn you into a social butterfly. Zoloft also works for me
>>83507049tallcels are typically mentalcels due to autism and being too low iq to mask. This combination leads to a constant yearning for women as you can observe here from these two fags. Low inhibition autists (the types that get bullied) have a tendency to obsess over women while putting in minimal work.
>>83507085>pregabalinI can only get that with a prescription I don't know if a doc would give me one I can try but I think he will just say I don't need it.
>>83507102Anon pregabalin is one of the most popular meds against social anxiety. but it can be abused (druggies take 10 times the dose to get an alcoholic effect) so some psychiatrists may force you to try ssri's like zoloft first. But pls try pregabalin, it worked wonders for me.
>>83507138I try to go my normal doctor, psychiatrists for social anxiety are not paid by the health insurance here. I just don't know what to tell them, I have a normal job just have social problems.
>>83506931First rule of anxiety club is that everyone gets anxiety wrongThe cause is chemical not mentalEverything but the worst mental illnesses are treatable simply by topping up on what your body is missing Now what are the common causes of deficiencies? One is diet and this is common and easy so must be tackled first - dont forget to check your absorption of vitamins and mineralsThe other is genetic causes like ADHD which will cause natural lowering of certain chemicalsYou will never think your way out of this situation and therapy is only useful if you are incapable of self reflection to identify your problemsFind your deficiencies
>>83507313I take vitamins every single day and I don't have adhd. It changes nothing it is a mental thing and has ruined my life.
>>83506931Idk man talk to themI tried on discord server and like a few like me igBut I had to like, first get rid of my social anixiety, did it in games and suchThe one I could reccomend is Foxhole, very social plus people are chill and constantly talk about stuff needed in game, so it's great to learn and aquire social skills
>>83507087It's usually why the short ugly incels that are high IQ and the tall, average looking "incels" that are low IQ and just somehow retarded.
>>83507357Online is not the real thing I have no problems there if I play games, even talking with women via vc is fine if I know them for some time. It is more irl. I don't want another failed e-relationship I want something in the real world touch the other person etc.
It's weird being tall and a bit isolated. I was super short and skinny and shy my whole teenage years until I shot up and now I'm a lanklet and everyone looks at me differently
>>83507323>I take vitamins every dayClassic retard moveDo you even know your deficiencies? Have you even done a test?And so you know you dont have adhdYou must know your key genetic problems then rightRight?
>>83507397I don't know what to do really, I mean people don't bully me anymore at least not irl because of my height but they still do online since I am not that talkative. I just don't know what to do irl, I like nerd stuff and most of this is online.
>>83506931what does being 6'3 have to do with anything? it's like you've never spoken to someone before or understand how life works. all of you lanky retards are all the same, always relying on your height for shit
>>83507414lol retard. you absolutely would still get bullied around people who don't buy your height bullshit, aka any real man. do you think like every single person in the world isn't going to do anything to you just because of your height? that's so naive and zoomer tier thinking. get a job literally anywhere in person and you'll be tested eventually and exposed for having no mental toughness due to identifying with your height your entire adult life
>>83507357>>83507380how do you even find places to socialize with women online, i dont even know how to find a discord server anymore. 4chan is genuinely my only social outlet for the last five years. Please give tips.
>>83507456tinder you jackass. ask them to hang out, show up, and fuck them
>>83507380>Online is not the real thingBook a flight, meet them, ect ectIf you have some kind of autims that prevents you from feeling stuff through the screen you gotta hang out in bars idk>I don't want another failed e-relationshipSuccess rate is 50% always, in both types>>83507456>how do you even find places to socialize with women onlineI found mine on a meme discord server, thought she was a dude at first untill she said she wasn'tBut really most who want to find a partner but too shy for it sit either in chill theme-related servers like all people, minding their buisiness or in some uhhh erp discord serversGirls really like text for some reason, hence why all that obsession with books, which I see just as entertainment and toolsIn short - chat and get to know em, you always start off as friends
>>83507601>tranny dating retard is giving advice again
>>83507617That tranny is a 6'3 woman with massive honkers
>>83507419I mean people stopped bullying me, I am physically strong and the height helps.>>83507447No people just leave me alone desu.>>83507456Discord honestly or you try /soc/ but I would not recommend it.>>83507601>Book a flight, meet them, ect ectThat is not a real relationship please stop promoting this stuff, it is just harmfull for you and others. How will you even have a future togheter? Tbh the women I have connect with the most were all from outside my country but that just means I have to try to find someone close to me. Every single ldr I have ever tried failed from the fact that the women on the other end simply ghosted me. Spend all my 20s like that, I can't anymore I just want to do cute couple things irl, cuddle and have a life togheter. I want to just say "let's go somewhere" and we do that, like holding hands and eating a ice cream in the park or going to a museum togheter. E-dating without a real goal in mind is just burned away life energy wasted for nothing to show for.
Imagine being over 6 foot and still a virgin lmfao. Women only date tall men now, it's impossible to lose.Fellow 5'9-6 foot manlets know our pain.
>>83507676I get nearly no matches on dating apps and they all ghost me. Just want a normal nerdy gf.
