Have you ever thought that yes we might be unloved losers, 25 or even 35+ friendless virgins.. but at least we're not single parents? I mean sure girls usually get all the sex they want when they're young, but young people (us included) are really fucking stupid. Imagine Having to take care of a kid for the next 20+ years, alone, all your free time dedicated to this little shit that you may or may not have wanted, but never the less you're still now single and have to raise, somehow, sacrificing everything? Do you think 20+ yo girls don't have dreams? Sure, stupid dreams (I want to be famous/play guitar/go out and party), but a kid is gonna royally fuck that up. They aren't FREE anymore.I don't know about you, but I wouldn't trade my life for theirs, even if they got the things I wanted
>>83506939>people choose the life they liveyeah that's kind of the point. do you think people make fun of virgins because they are jealous? lol
>>83506947Do you think all those single moms chose to be single moms? lol
Sounds like you're coping pretty hard. I am 30 and starting a family is my life goal. I can't imagine living alone the rest of my life, especially after my dog eventually passes away. I need some motivator and no cope is going to make do.
>>83506959>do you think people have to face the consequences of their own bad choices?ye. most "single moms" are part of the same kinds of communities and lifestyles where it's either normalized or predictable. it's extremely rare to be a single mom due to the dad suddenly dying or being wrongfully convicted and taken away, beyond that it's just a choice to separate.
>>83506965Obviously I'm coping, but the comparison isn't between "being loser us" and "having a family", but between us and the masses of 20 something broken single moms that are now prisoners to their "little mistakes".I'm saying that there is something under us in loserdom, and that the pretty girls that had all that sex and social validation we didn't are in their own kind of hell, and they can't get out. I'm saying the next time you see a cute group of girls out partying and you feel you never had or will have that, to not be so quick as to wish for it, to wish you were anyone but you.>>83506973Deluded, and missed the point to boot. Let's take the simple example of the chads they seek, do you not think they get pregnant and then abandoned by the bad boys they chase?>no matter they'll get a beta buxDo you think they'll be happy with the beta? Do you think they don't feel regret?For some reason you don't seem to understand that they suffer a lot, too, especially because their suffering came as a result of the idiocy of youth.
>>83506939comfy and lonely or stressed and loved? the grass is always greener
