My (33F) friend (29M) is in love with me and really obsessed BUT HE'S EXTREMELY FAT and I told him to lose weight by summer 2026 or I am going to download Tinder and finally experience dating.He basically ended up in a psych ward and wants to kill me. (He took it back when I pressured him to apologize)Why are moids like this?Ps he is really grossly fat. 100 lbs overweight. We're both autistic virgins with social anxiety too.
>>83507174Just block his number bitch
>>83507174i'm tired of you posting this but i still support you and he deserves that for chasing thin stacies instead of settling for a nice girl of his own bmi who would have been happy to be with him (like me)
You are an old hag. Just feel lucky you have him at all.
>>83507192I like him and I'd be angry if he dated a fat girl. He owes me becoming thin so I can finally date someone. I'm autistic and he's literally my only friend so why can't he just stop being so damn fat.
>>83507197if you liked him then you would be fine with him being like that, there are many guys that would take you that are already thin
>>83507205No he has to stop being this way he smells bad because the fat makes him sweat a lot. I can't get close to him and I want a skinny bf.
>>83507197You are a picky bitch princess he should dump you. I hate you more every word I read from you on here.>>83507213Bitch. He isn't your cattle.
>>83507213you don't like him. even if you like him as a person, if you don't like his appearance then you don't like him in the way that he should be your boyfriend. you should find another boyfriend, again, there are many other autistic guys who are skinny already and would go for you
>>83507226She did nothing wrong. He did.
>>83507233I like him in his old photos when he was less of a fat hog.
>>83507250You heartless selfish bitch
>>83507174This fat nigga has a foid waiting for him and encouraging him to be better and he reacts by trying to kill her? Am I reading this right? How is this guy more successful with women than me? This is bait, right guys? R-right?
>>83507174You probably should have approached the subject with a bit more kindness. If you really are friends with him, you should have know it would have pushed him over the edge. But I do support the reasoning, being fat is really unhealthy and if you care about someone a lot it's hard to watch them eat themselves to death. Maybe offer to work out with him, if a girl did that for me it would be one hell of a motivator.
>>83507278He said sorry didn't you read that part
>>83507278>This is bait, right guys? R-right?Given that this exact thread gets posted every single day for guaranteed replies, what do you reckon?
>>83507278Women are fucking weird so who knows
>>83507295I wasn't mean I was just honest. His current appearance is nothing I could ever love. Or even look at for too long. He snapped and it's sad but I did nothing wrong.
Just forget the existence of this retard and let him locked before he kills you
>>83507543You are a self absorbed piece of shit. Everything men hate about life.
>>83507549Fuck off he deserves love too. Faggot.
>>83507553I was literally just being honest and real
>>83507269>You heartless selfish bitchThis>>83507174>We're both autistic virgins with social anxiety too.Hahahahaha wtf
Imagine being unable to diet even though that's the only thing separating you from the best possible ascension path. I'm glad my aspie neetwife likes husky guys but I would definitely have dieted to lock her down.
>>83507688Fat men are disgusting dirt I'm better than them and IM A TRUECEL>>83507584Ikr
That book is trash (why men love bitches)
>>83507773It's a feminist book. Total shit and full of man-hate womansplaining.
>>83507553What the hell did she do
>>83507818She was born a foid which makes her evil
>>83507838You are a fucking moron btw
Why does this board have so many autistic freaks
>>83507295>being fat is really unhealthyNot always normie
>>83507246They're both bad people. She has handled this whole thing wrong, and his reaction made it even worse
>>83508169Not all women are like this cunt
>>83507976It's 4chan not just the board
>>83508230Uhh I never said that
>>83508244I actually like women like her. But only because I'm stupid. I like women who treat me like their personal pet puppy.Why am I like this
>>83508260Women are the real reason the world has evil
>>83507269She isn't heartless it's just that men suck nowadays
OP what would you do if your friend lost weight and rejected you because of this toxic dynamic you have with him? Wouldn't he have more confidence and options after that weight loss?
>>83508326I'd be angry but it wouldn't make me lose him as a friend. We've been friends for almost a decade. I wouldn't just let him go like that. I want to date him just not a gross fat version of him. His skinny pics look really hot.
>>83508326>Wouldn't he have more confidence and options after that weight loss?She's going to be pissed lol
>>83508148Yes always retard.
>>83507174What a fakecel SIMP lmfao you won't catch any bitches talking about me like this. I'm truecel.
>>83508340Just saying I wouldn't date you with that attitude. Imagine getting married and then you go through a rough patch and put on some weight, then instead of getting support from your spouse, you get disgust and contempt.The man deserves better than a fairweather partner like you. Just accept his feelings and help him lose weight instead of dangling your affection like a carrot on a stick. You're treating him like shit and I'm rooting for him to move on from you while he's put up in the psych ward.
>>83508359You are completely delusional if you think fat people can't be hot or healthy
>>83508391He already promised me if we get married I can make him eat healthy and make sure he doesn't ever get fat again.
>>83508391I'd kill to be in his position. I'm a truecel with no options and he gets to lose weight and get laid. Fuck him.
>>83508419You could get laid if you weren't such an angry little man and hit the gym.
>>83508361Is that supposed to make me feel sorry for you
>>83508419It's a matter of self respect. OP isn't so much better than me that she can withhold affection until I jump through her hoops. She can support me and help me improve as my gf, or she can close the door on romance between us, but I wouldn't let her live in this halfway state where she's teasing at being my gf but only when all these conditions are met.>>83508411Then just acknowledge him as your partner and start supporting him now! Why the fuck are you torturing him like this and threatening to cuck him on tinder?
>>83508468I gave him my requirements to date me. If he complies I will date him but if he can't I'll be forced to move on. I'm just being honest. He is disgusting looking because of the fat on his body.
>>83508468The tinder thing was me giving him extra motivation to make sure he loses weight faster.
>>83508495Right, we're talking in circles, if it were me I'd tell you to take your conditions and sit and spin on em. Then I'd work on my glow up and reject you again once you were actually interested, while asking where were you when I needed support overcoming my health problem.
>>83508529He might reject me if I want him when he's skinny. But if he does he's an asshole because IM LITERALLY NOT DATING UNTIL SUMMER SO HE HAS TIME TO GET THIN FOR ME... I'm helping him
>>83508536If he does that, I'd high five him and say he's based on hell. He can do better than a woman who would abandon him and leave him to figure out problems on his own instead of walking through life with him, thick and thin.You're a parasite, unwilling to build anything with a partner, and just wanting to live in a life already built and ready.
>>83508563It would be extremely mean if he did that. I'm actually really wanting to date someone. I'm basically desperate and kind of lonely and I am forcing myself to wait How am I the bad one here?He threatened to beat me up over textHe threatened to kill himself to manipulate meYes he apologized but come on
>>83508505Motivation..? Sounds more like torture.
>>83508588>he apologized That's all that matters
>>83508588I'm not defending what he has done. I think you're both terrible people, but he's not ITT for me to criticize.You could just accept his feelings and help him through his weight loss. The result is the same, you're together and he's eating your healthy meals and he's losing his weight, just without this toxic dynamic of you saying you won't love him unless he's hot. That's why you're the bad one. Honestly I don't even think you care about him that much as a person, you just want a hot bf and don't have better options at the moment.
>>83508632He only apologized after I threatened to block him
>>83508658He is my best option because he is the only friend I have ever had. I hate normies and most people.
>>83508689Have you told him that..? You are a fucking cunt
>>83508689Then be as invested in him and his health as you ought to be. If you want him as a partner, then his weight is your problem too. Just saying "lol you figure it out, and I'll leave you if you don't" is disloyal bullshit.
>>83508724I'm a great friend. I helped him pay his water bill last month. But he has to accept it if I date someone else if he can't look better for me. That's it.
>>83508747>I'm a great friendYou're a disloyal woman.
>>83508402You're delusional if you think there are any fat people that wouldn't be more healthy at a normal weight.
>>83508774Did you read what a fucking wrote. You are wrong.
>>83508789You helped him pay a bill, big whoop.
>>83508791It was 70 dollars
>>83508789To elaborate, doing good things for someone doesn't matter as much as not doing awful things to them. It's like if I beat you and then took you for ice cream, that doesn't make me a good guy. You're teasing this man and putting him through hell, who cares if you're friendly to him and give him a couple hundred bucks when he's in a bind?
>>83508813He needed me to help his water not get shut off while he's in the hospital I am a good friend and helped out
>>83508835You aren't a good person unless you give him a hand job
