you cant even fathom how werid you are to never have a GF. there are reasons why you were avoided. you just think nothing is wrong with you because its biological.
>>83508998a guy can do absolutely everything right and just be average looking and not tall and end up an older virgin. a lot of it is luck, but normalfags and sex havers are too stubborn and proud to admit it.
>>83509012There could also be nothing physically wrong with you, but get abused by your parents long enough as a kid you end up too fucked in the head to be likable.
>>83508998>Be too dense to realise when girls were flirting with me, think to myself they're just being friendly >Make zero effort to try and get a girlfriend either>Prefer being aloneMy reason is I literally never tried and has such low esteem I'd convince myself they're just being friendly lol, I also really can't be bothered with the effort a relationship requires.
>>83508998I wasn't avoided, I actively pushed women away, but in some ways that makes me just as defective as those who didn't choose this.
>volcel mentalcels come pouring into the thread asappathetic.
>>83509033sameI wish I knew I had autism earliernow I do its a bit easier to know when women are interested now I learned the signs to catchbut now im in my 30s it really is slim pickings and they are normies never autistic or whatever
>>83508998Despite being damaged goods I've managed to get girlfriends. Like it usually takes just having them sleep over two times for them to deal with my quirks or decide I'm not for them
>>83509048What do you want from us?We also don't have gfs, we also get lonely sometimes, we're more alike than we are different.
>>83509079Huh, we're in the exact same situation. I keep getting 19-21 year olds hitting in me and I'm 32, I want a girl who's like 23-26 personally.
>>83509042i would be scared if i was you. its like you are teetering on being gay.>>83509033being alone is boring and caused me to be a drug addict. i need some stimulation and i know drugs are bad.
>>83509079age does not matterenvironment does
>>83509105>23-26 Personally I'd never date anyone under 25 but that's because I just couldn't stand the immature shit people still do in their early 20s
>>83509079>>83509105I work in a a correctional facility for teenage girls. I gained the reputation as the guy who girls fall in love with. Its crazy how everyone either thinks I'm a player or a closeted homo. I'm a 32 year old virgin. I tried to sleep with a 40 year old and she rejected me. I don't know what exactly I'm doing wrong and is driving me nuts.
>>83508998As a woman you can do nothing, be kinda ugly and still lose your virginity because guys will approach you no matter what. If youre a guy and dont actively approach women and are not super attractive you will stay a virgin even if there is nothing wrong with you in particular.
>>83509189why don't you just approach the women you want? You already got your ego boost from teenage girls. What is holding you back?
>>83509231im 37 and never seen a guy approach a woman in my lifewhere does this shit even happen at ?
>>83509463it happens at festivals, clubs and bars. Where inkwels don't wander. t. regularly attended a goth club in my city
>>83509231i friendzoned an autistic "femcel" who wanted me to take her virginity and she quickly moved onto another guy to plow.
>>83508998Girls were friendly to me during high school, but I was a sperg back then so nothing ever happened, or maybe they were just friendly.I also was sheltered and kinda isolated my whole childhood, so I never really learned how to really interact to people and started to dislike people in general. Outside of job and grocceries, I never go out, I just don't like it. 90% of my social interactions are with my close family.
>>83508998i hhave mommy and daddy issues so im an avoidant retard and im scared of others even though im 6'4 i dont know why people say they find me intimidating im more scared of themwomen want you to provide and shit like that but i cant providei dont know what to say when people are nice to me or take an interest in me, because i have nothing going on. im used to people in high school paying attention to texting on their phone or whatever and me prying teeth trying to get any social interaction at allim a volcel pussy faggoti want a dad that takes me on fishing, hunting, and other trips and other shit like that and a mom thats present way more than i want a gf but thats just retarded fantasy im a grown manwell anywaysyou have to play your hand
>>83508998>there are reasons why you were avoidedbut what if i was the one doing the avoiding?
>>83508998I've had a few chances in my life and managed to fuck it all up. I think deep down, I've always known I'm a complete genetic failure. I guess I'm too afraid of keeping people around long enough to for them to find out.
>>83509033Very relatable except the low self-esteem thing. I kinda like myself and it's obvious from my achievements that I'm pretty good at almost everything I try. But I simply lack interest in wanting to know more people and the commitment of a relationship kind of looks like a prison to me. I enjoy my freedom and solitude way too much. I really like going home after work and just doing whatever the fuck I want, without a fixed schedule. When I hear my coworkers complaining about having to do shit and spend money for their gfs/wives, I realize that life just isn't for me.I could only really function in a relationship with a woman who is schizoid and understands I need alone time sometimes and she can't expect me to be dependable and always available for her. Of course no marriage and no kids, because those things really are prisons. Obviously women like those are rare to non-existant so there is no point in even trying.
>>83508998You're so obsessed about the status that it's not about the person. I've had girlfriends, good and bad. Trust me, it's not about the status
>>83510600go back to discord faggotfuck you
>>83509141Teetering on being gay?Save your retarded groomer speak for the zoomers, I'm just autistic and suffer from anxiety-fueled spergouts.Women are scary and I'm tired of pretending they're not.
>>83508998My GF tells me it's because I just didn't try, which is true, because she vonsiders me a catch.
>>83508998I had my chance many times, if I was so ''avoided'' why was I the one doing the rejecting?
