I still hope he returns, it doesn't even have to be romantically, I just enjoyed to have him in my life and listen to his autistic passion rambling

>>83511360
I just want a her, that's all I want :(

>>83511483
why did he go away forever

But the world moves on and maybe so must I

>>83511483
so sorry about that anon, I know how painful it is
>>83511491
sometimes I wish I had never met her, I wouldn't be suffering like I am right now if it weren't for her

>>83511506
Did you learn anything from it though? Even if it's knowledge about yourself, thats worth while

>>83511505
I want to move on but whenever things don't go the way I planned them I get depressed then I start thinking about her and get suicidal
>inb4 lol you're crying over a woman

>>83511520
hmm apparently I'm not as ugly as I thought but honestly she was probably lying so no I didn't really learn anything

>>83511523
just remember why it ended in the first place
if they ghosted you that says everything about them more than any "nice" stuff they did to you
i've only had 1 person really just up and leave without and explanation after we made what i thought was a connection after a few months
if its not even a few months of a relationship then they weren't really bonded with you in the way you think it was
it's nice to have people that you can have a connection with. you'll find more of them just keep looking and look in new places and try new things that you actually enjoy.

>>83511501
idk if he actually left forever, he just stopped replying

>>83511533
I'm not her but I don't think she lied. Men always undervalue their looks. It's easier to deny that she told the truth rather than to accept that she left regardless. I'm sorry for you though, I hope the pain lessens soon.

>>83511483
>tfw to gf to be el autismo with
shit sucks, I miss sharing rambles...

>>83511556
I mean I try telling myself that she was evil for ghosting me I mean if that's how she treats someone who she claimed to be so in love with and obsessed (her words) then she is a shitty person but I can't make myself hate her I just can't
>>83511559
>I'm not her but I don't think she lied. Men always undervalue their looks. It's easier to deny that she told the truth rather than to accept that she left regardless. I'm sorry for you though, I hope the pain lessens soon.
well it's good to know that at least, still have negative self-confidence but I guess knowing that might help a bit.
>I hope the pain lessens soon.
thanks!

>>83511605
nta, how long has it been since she stopped replying? How long have you been texting each other?

>>83511641
we had been texting for 3 months we texted almost 24/7 (we met on valentine's day btw) and it's been 8 months since she stopped talking to me...yeah that's right, because it happened shortly before 4chan went down for 2 weeks

>>83511605
there was someone who broke it off with me that was basically my whole world but i came to realizations about them a year or 2 later but i do miss how it was when they still liked me and i do think about it the most when im at my lowest. i've even had dreams that they made their way back into my life somehow and they realized that there's something about me they had realized was why they wanted me in the first place and they want me back now. i haven't changed enough. i've pretty much only gotten worse i think. if i did meet up with them they would speedrun through to the exact same moment when they decided to leave me again.
let yourself feel bad but once you are ready enough try again with someone else

>>83511651
it sucks but most women reach out around v-day and during winter holidays and pretty much anytime there's a lull in work attitude like when summer starts or when summer ends.
they don't really mean much by it but it's kind of like a bear that's too hungry and wanders into town to find food. try to find a bear in its natural habitat for a more stable relationship.

>>83511672
oh god the dreams are the worst part, I do dream about her and the dreams are so real, I get so suicidal when I wake up, I wish I could erase all memories of this past year and go back to the way things used to be, I was at a point where I wasn't happy but I wasn't unhappy I was just comfortable with being alone, just living day to day playing videogames watching anime reading working (when I had a job) but now that I've experienced this I can't go back.
>>83511687
there's a girl I met (kinda) irl and I think she's cute would love to talk to her but man who am I kidding she's way out of my league
>try to find a bear in it's natural habitat
where is that? teach me anon! please!

>>83511719
>where is that? teach me anon! please!
bro i don't fucking know
go ask to meet people on /soc/. get a hinge/tinder/bumble profile set up. go to bars and clubs. actually talk to women. you need to figure out your own way that works for you. i don't know you and i don't want to tell you what to do. most people that think they know how to get you a girl are normies that just get attention from them as matter of course. the best thing you can probably do is become as normie as possible. as cookie cutter and normie as possible.

>>83511751
>the best thing you can probably do is become as normie as possible. as cookie cutter and normie as possible.

nta but I heavily disagree with this. Becoming normie just means widening your net. If you don't care whatever kind of person you attract then that's the way to go I guess. You'll just quickly become boring though since there isn't anything special to like about you anymore.
Having niche interests will catch the exact counterpart who will love you for exactly that. It's just there's way less women to catch.

Be aware of what kind of person you're looking for and cater to that demographic, if you actually search for something meaningful and worthwhile.

>>83511799
I like your advice better, I will follow your advice, even if it makes finding women harder