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How do I stop being jealous over the fact that I was a virgin before dating my girlfriend while she had multiple lovers before me
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Every successive relationship destroys your ability to pair bond so she's probably going to break up with you
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Don't focus your anger on her or women in general. Instead realize what the (((real problem))) is.
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>>83520966
Maybe but I think we're very bonded but my virgin brain's strong bonding my be clouding my judgement on that
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>>83520864
>get a new girlfriend
>never ask her body count like a retard
>profit
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>>83520864
Dump her for a younger gf.
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>>83520864
Either get over it you pussy, break up with her, or cheat on her and never tell her so that now she won't be the only person you would have slept with.
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>>83520864
you should've hired an escort before
you'll just have to deal with it lil bro
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>>83520864
You will never over it and it will destroy your relationship
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start cheating on her desu
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>>83520864
>How do I stop being jealous over the fact that I was a virgin before dating my girlfriend while she had multiple lovers before me
lol cuck.
imagine losing your virginity to a whore
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>>83521013
>my virgin brain's strong bonding my be clouding my judgement on that
It is.
I'm not saying she doesn't love you or that she's going to end up leaving, but it is undeniable fact that the first time was a more powerful experience for you than it was for her.
Whether or not that is something you can live with is up to you.

Keep in mind that you yourself are also used goods at this point, so there's no perfect solution.
If you break up and manage to find a virgin girl, that girl could end up having the same doubts as you're having now.
Ideally, you should be able to talk about it with your gf and gauge how she feels.
It could be that she values the fact that she was your first and appreciates you for it, in which case you two are probably good together.
If she's dismissive of your feelings or gets mad at you for caring about virginity, then you're dating a retarded hoebag and you're better off finding someone who shares your outlook.



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