I gave a guy friend a chance after he told me he had a crush on me because everyone always says you should "give the nice guy a shot." He was sweet and average looking and did everything right, but I was honestly grossed out by him physically and I felt horrible about it. Kissing him felt awkward, being touched made my skin crawl, and I kept waiting for attraction to show up like it's supposed to when you're being mature and fair. It never did. I felt like I was forcing myself the whole time and pretending I was okay with it because I didn't want to be shallow or cruel.When I finally broke it off he did the whole "I'll wait for you, I don't mind" thing and it just made me feel more detached instead of sad. I didn't want him to wait, I didn't want to grow into liking him, and I didn't care enough to feel guilty about it. I know this is the kind of story guys hate, but I can't fake attraction just because someone is nice or patient. I mostly felt relieved when it was over, and that probably says everything.
>>83525432Damn man, it's new year and you have to write a larp like this?
>>83525432Did you get wet during sex
>>83525438I'm not larping at all>>83525440We never had sex or did anything sexual
>>83525454>I'm not larping at allSure buddy. Now post penis.
>>83525432Broski maybe you should ragebait him so maybe he'll become hotter when he is mad. Tell him he got a peggable bussy or something
>>83525529why would i say that i'm not a man
>>83525432All your post does is show what a narcissistic manipulative piece of shit you are Maria is very attracted to me, that is a fact
>>83525557>schizo using that same screenshot from 2021Holy shit
>>83525432Fine, I'll hire you as my night service maid if you're at least 8/10 and willing to cosplay.
>>83525565With true love time and distance do not matter. You recognize this and that's why you made this LARP in an attempt to hurt us
>>83525583>With true love time and distance do not matter.not op but your oneitis is getting dicked down by another guy and has completely forgotten about you
>>83525432Yea you definitely cant force attraction. So now what?
>>83525547I didn't say that you were, you don't need to be a dude to peg bussies, who knows maybe you both find some yourselves each. It was a joke at first but more I think about this more it makes sense act go for it what's the worst that can happen he is a wuss anyways
>>83525432I think you might just be asexual
>>83525432oh yes my daily dose of womenhatefuel
>>83525432You don't need to fake attraction, you don't need to pick a guy you don't like because of what internet people say. This nice guy in particular doesn't have to be right for you. If you're attracted to a guy who is a huge asshole, maybe hold out for a guy you're attracted to who is less of an asshole. Dating isn't politics though, it's a personal thing, you don't have to make a statement with the person you pick.
>>83525655Thats not true I feel sexual attraction
>>83525454>We never had sex or did anything sexual>being touched made my skin crawl>Kissing him felt awkwardAnyway maybe try dating me instead?
>>83525432It would have been nice to know this kind of things before putting in so much time and patience.
>>83525710Kissing without tongues is not sexual
>>83525728I didn't know it was a peck on the lips. You are correct that there is nothing sexual about that.
>>83525432A lot of the guys here are bitter and lack empathy, but I've been approached by a woman (and a faggot) that I didn't care about before.You can't force attraction or intimacy. I would argue it's crueller, both to yourself and the other party, to feign it and hope it "just works" when you know damn well that it won't than it is to just be honest.The only thing you did wrong was lying about being attracted to him when you went into it. I understand that you did that to spare his feelings but that was still a mistake. None of this means that you're cruel, unlovable, whatever. It means you're human and you're honest to yourself. Don't let the sour grapes assholes here get to you. This place is full of veiled cruelty trying to hide behind facsimiles of fairness or justice or what have you.
>>83525432The world would be a much nicer place if all women could simply admit this, instead of constantly gaslighting men and each other.
>>83525557>narcissistic manipulative piece of shit you areNot saying she isn't but also, you.
>>83525776>The only thing you did wrong was lying about being attracted to him when you went into it. I understand that you did that to spare his feelings but that was still a mistake. None of this means that you're cruel, unlovable, whatever. It means you're human and you're honest to yourself. Don't let the sour grapes assholes here get to you. This place is full of veiled cruelty trying to hide behind facsimiles of fairness or justice or what have you.Well I heard that you can build attraction to someone but yeah it didn't work>>83525778maybe but I probably shouldn't have even started the relationship
>>83525819>complains about possibly being a femcel forever>doesn't reply to my saying we should dateIt's your own fault that you'll be alone.
>>83525432Nah thats fine. Shouldnt have done it to begin with thoAt least you didnt do typical foid shit (gaslight, cheat, etc)
>>83525819I know Maria is attracted to me so I'm going to ignore whatever you say because it's just further showing your hand and bringing her home to me
>>83525845I don't know anything about you why would I date you?>>83525862Yeah I would never cheat
>>83525432where you from femanon? wanna play vidya together
>>83525557>you need to pump it
>>83525871>I don't know anything about you why would I date you?TOTAL VOLCEL DEATH
>>83525819>heard that you can build attraction to someoneNot really. That shit fails at least half the time. In general a relationship starts with a baseline physical attraction that piques an interest.You don't need to be drooling over someone but there are things you won't even consciously notice that affect how you feel about someone; quirks in their speech pattern, the way they walk, subtle facial expressions, etc...It's why photos and videos don't really do justice to the way you can feel about someone. And of course along side this you need to be compatible emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, yadda yadda. But you can't ignore a core part of the relationship and hope things will still turn out well.
It's how desperate you are to larp because you know she's attracted to me. That's how I know I'm close to it to her being home with me again
>>83525904you can't expect anyone to date you that way
>>83526360You don't know anything about anyone, if you don't try to know someone then you'll never know anyone and will stay a volcel.
>we never did anything sexualAlso explains. If he had balls enough to choke you and rape you then you'd start feeling attracted.Female sexuality is extremely disgusting and dark. The best way for a woman to gain attraction is to ignore her, pretend you're way above her in every way, belittle her in smart ways and so on. Dark triad always wins. Being "sweet' to a foid is like being sweet to a demon. She will just use it against you. Most women, especially during ovulation, just want to be choked, slapped and fucked like whores. Especially given that vast majority of men are simps and it's nothing special. They think they are owed kindness and favors from men.
>>83526418>If he had balls enough to choke you and rape you then you'd start feeling attracted.Real life isn't a hentai anon
>>83526442Yeah, in hentai the girl secretly liked the loser guy all along and the "rape" is actually consensual.
>>83525432If you never developed attraction he didn't do everything right. Feeling grossed out by touching someone means you have zero trust in that person so he was probably a boring piece of shit.
>>83526723there are a billion boring pieces of shit who are in happy relationships.
>>83525432Boo hoo, I want kiwis but I only have mangos. I will never eat fruit or know the taste of fruit. Shut up faggot.
>>83526723>Feeling grossed out by touching someone means you have zero trust in that person that's not the case I just felt no physical attraction to him
5th troon LARP today
