>give people what they want>they no longer want anything from you>they leave >repeat until someone wants something from youIf no one wants anything from you, you get nothing. Relationships are transactional. This is the mating, dating, and even marriage game.
>>83609091Is this a bad thing? If someone wanted to date me even if I brought nothing to the table, I'd be hurt, and I'd wonder why she chose me over anyone else.
>>83609117Nope its not a bad thing that its like this. Its just how it is.
>>83609091Kek I told you you only have one card to play. Your butt hurt because The only reason you want transactional relationships is the ability to manipulate others into giving you what you want. A true relationship is not transactional, it's love with no bounds of who owes who. It's given freely FUCK OFF NARC
The best part is you are the one missing out because you're trapped in your own transactional relationships hell You've created for yourself attempting to drag others into it where they will be unhappy, miserable and constantly looking for a way out. Good fucking luck with that bro
I think the best part of this is I just give you a shovel and you dig yourself into a fucking hole and die
>>83609370Mike. Who hurt you?
>>83609091not always but mostly yea. i'd suggest you meditate
>>83610548There's a history to OP and the reason they made this thread. Just trust me, garbage person Who just made the thread because they wanted manipulate others because they feel that transactional relationships are the only way they can force others to give them what they want and judge them as such
>>83609091I need the type of transactional relationship where I receive cuddles in exchange for headpats
>>83609091>if you go to sleep, that means you are in a transactional relationship with yourself because you wanted sleepYou are mentally retarded.The distinction of a "transactional relationship" is that there is an explicit exchange of money or material gifts for time spent together. When you both enjoy being together and share a common lifestyle, that's literally by definition the opposite of a transactional relationship even if you give each other money or gifts as part of it. There is a long list of lessons why transactional relationships don't work, and why you should have a relationship built on love and trust. At the rate that you're going, you're going to say that all women are actually men because they have an X chromosome (i.e. you are fucking stupid and ESL)
>>83611816In actual love, true love You just naturally give each other cuddles and head pads and there doesn't have to be a transaction that takes place. It's just naturally happens.
>>83611825I know I had one relationship like that, except it ended
>>83611823You know you could have said all that but in a nice way.
