pretty rough

I had a string of gfs in the 2010s, I even batted out of my league a few times because back in the day online dating was not inundated with normal fags and there were a lot of weird good looking women looking for a slutty thrill


nowadays I go weeks without a match and when I finally do match upon closer inspection its a non passing tranny


and before you ask no I have not gotten significantly fatter, I still have a full head of hair and people say I look very young for my age

basically its over

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i read reddit and they say 30+ dating is utter shite
turning 33 this year and ive never dated in my life
first time i felt some kind of panic
this is probably what women who want kids feel like when they reach their late 20s
ive never approached women, on the other hand, they approach me
but i always turn them down one way or another and i can blame autism or my perceived self worth but ultimately, im just making excuses
i want kids and i am feeling the pressure to date and look for my person

hello 30+
i have nothing interesting to talk about

>>83628297
My choices have been
>women on SSRIs with zero sex drive and sexual dysfunction
>Single mothers (blown out pussy and niglet included)
>alcoholic women working dead end jobs
>sometimes you can get a younger woman who is into older guys but they are fucked up too

Idk I am currently just banging the alcoholic for shits and giggles

>>83628297
It's terrible no matter what you do really I gave up a few years ago. Even if you're rich chad that can travel anywhere your options suck and you have to find a way to date women way younger than you and even then she'll probably fuck you over and bail. Best to just let it go and find the best ways to cope alone. Worthwhile relationships are for young people that get lucky in circumstances. We should have more threads about coping and how to make the best of this dystopia we have to live through. Talking about women is a waste of time at this point.

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>>83629357
what sucks about coping is that the copes start getting really fucking stale and are getting too damned expensive to boot. I've never found a good way to permanently fill that hole, these days I just wake up in despair and then try to make it thru the day as best I can. Turning 50 this year, and I really dunno how many more I can slog through

>>83629434
remember even your life is worth much more than a normie's
be strong
live long
die hard

>>83628297
I used to look at these threads with shrill and remorse now I just look at them with regret. I wish I had a dating experience to speak of, living with your grandmother isn't going to get you laid often

>>83629474
thanks man, I will

Does not exist, I get on dating apps and I get one like a month from obese low IQ unemployed women.
At this point I'd take any woman who isn't fat but I guess my standards are too high
Right now I just focus on making money

>>83629250
>turning 33 this year and ive never dated in my life
>first time i felt some kind of panic
>this is probably what women who want kids feel like when they reach their late 20s
I turned 33 last Summer and am going through the same crap. What the hell, I was doing just fine on my own. To make matters worse I lived in isolation in my 20s and now am completely socially retarded. How am I supposed to get a gf now?

>>83629434
At 50 maybe a heart-attack will set you free soon. I have no idea how you endured for so long. I don't know how I will

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>>83629542
jfc we're all in the same box
nature or biology poking at us more often for not having someone

>>83628297
Dating over 30 is only good if you were sexually successful in your teens and 20s, also still need to be 6ft+ chad with a good career, the looks requirement doesn't go away or get easier
The whole "men age like wine" thing is only true for men who were already at the top. Most men age like shit and have shit dating prospects after 30, just like women

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I've hit peak delusion and it feels pretty good.
>yeah, but you're lying to yourself
And? There's billions of religious people doing the same shit. Go bother them.

You know that Pepe meme: Have problem? Don't care. No longer have problem.
I'm doing that now and it's pretty good. Life was not meant to be taken seriously, bros. You're an organism guided by brain glands, all this other stuff is abstraction and storytelling invented by society. You don't meet any neurotic hunter-gatherers, those people just exist on a basic level. If they don't focus on getting food they die.

Chill out.

Welp since i'm about to age out of this one. I'm not sure how you're suppose to ricipriocate a hot chic doing an agaego face showing off her tits

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>>83628297
non-existent so far just like the 20s
hell yeah. but i'm 32, gunna be 33 this year, dont plan on dating anything till im close to 40, with hopes that I have a nice job and able to fund things I like

>anti trans bigot

I hope they learn to respect themselves and reject someone like you

>>83629317
>>alcoholic women working dead end jobs
I'd probably go for this myself in all honesty

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>>83629434
u will be fine bro
god be with u

>>83628297
>What has the dating experience been like for anons over the age of thirty?
I found a woman to marry and am now married.
I hope not to try dating again, though I enjoyed the small amount of success the chase is a bit shit.

>>83629948
>dont plan on dating anything till im close to 40, with hopes that I have a nice job and able to fund things I like
This is going to be a disaster for you

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>>83628297
dang im also 33, lots of 33 anons posted this thread, freaky
i never dated, the effort seems annoying, your thread btw is borderline almost asking for sex havers to come and take a shit on it
anyway, ima just do my own thing, dedication and focus on something you can work hard on and be fulfilled and proud about, and if some woman ever takes interest in me i will give it a shot, very unlikely tho

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>>83628297
Its fucked. Originally

>>83628338
>>83629250
>>83629279
These posts comprehensively explain intimacy for me now. I am reasonably happy and content otherwise but I don't have much of an end goal. I'm considering picking up smoking just to have something to look forward to.

>>83630192
Lot's of 33 year olds have been posting lately.
So, you managed to be immune to male babyfever as described here >>83629250 >>83629542 ?

>>83629948
nigga you gonna fuck up, start now!

>>83629667
>"Hey when are you getting a wyy..."
>"SHUT THE FUCK UP! If it was gonna happen, it would've happened."
Women are more insufferable married.
Like idk Shirley, I can't just spread my legs and pop out the money ticket. I get it's a wild idea, but maybe hard work doesn't work?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onRdW6kDrIE&list=RDonRdW6kDrIE&start_radio=1
Thread theme

>>83629250
your person was spawn camped by spiteful spinsters financially backed by powerful men that want access to every woman but never want to touch most of them. Just like the women that want every man's attention but only let certain men's attention go unpunished.

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>>83630260
>So, you managed to be immune to male babyfever
i didnt even know that was a thing for dudes, the 'mfw no gf' be real tho, if that was also not a thing i would not even think about women aside from when i fap

>>83629852
Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.

>>83630331
It's not the sex or less social judgement I miss
It's all the little comfy stuff
Cheating bitch
One gf and it was her

>>83629852
> babbles solipsistically
>includes AI image
Amazing

>>83628297
it sucks, i find every single women i talked very boring, the sole idea of picking her up, going to a place, paying for everything, making convo, be interesting, whatevs feels like a fucking hassle i rather jerk off, invest in crypto and save money, even playing games feels better,im thinking of trying hookers but it feels like a bore aswell

>>83630392
and you can go to jail for a woman accepting the transaction depending where you're at

fucking prison planet

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>>83629542
>was doing just fine on my own
>lived in isolation in my 20s
this was me too
i know what triggered it for me: i found a person i could see myself having kids with
but alas as i have done to the other girls before her, i rejected her advances but only realised my mistake later on when all i could think about was caring for my hypothetical daughter with her
keeping her warm in my arms
singing her to sleep
feeding my ladies delicious nutritious food i cooked myself
... yeah

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>went to an all boys school
>every job I've had has been in an all male workplace

Women are like aliens to me. I don't think I've spoken to a girl informally since my late teens.

>>83629948
>i plan on waiting until im balding and prob have a chronic illness or two before dating
Anon...

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>>83628297
Non-existent. In fact, the closest I've come to actually 'dating' at this point (been single since 2005) was getting flaked at an anime convention by a woman whom I met through a high school friend and had been talking with for a few days prior. She just straight up didn't show, and I was left standing there in a "I love humanity" shirt (from the anime, "No Game No Life"). Then I've been ghosted by women I tried meeting through reddit after exchanging face/body pics. So, I remain single, and women generally don't even look at or talk to me, including cashiers.
>t. 37 before the end of March

they are all obese and have kids
i just put the age filter to way younger and hope a girl is into older guys
i dont want to raise some cunts kid

>>83630331
>the 'mfw no gf' be real tho
Yeah, that's what I meant, the male version of females getting the urge to have babies. We reach 30 and suddenly tfwnogf comes back stronger than ever. I wasn't aware this would happen, I thought I would be ok on my own forever just like in my 20s

>>83630980
It was a girl being nice to me for the first time in who knows how long that triggered it for me. That was almost 3 years ago. I haven't grown out of it and I don't think I will.

>>83630392
>it sucks, i find every single women i talked very boring,
I'm the boring one. I don't even know how to keep a conversation going.

>the sole idea of picking her up, going to a place,
And I would have no idea where to take her, how to present myself, how to behave.

>im thinking of trying hookers but it feels like a bore aswell
Me too. Can one be too socially retarded to go to a prostitute? Would she be able to handle an autistic fucktard?

>>83630577
>i know what triggered it for me: i found a person i could see myself having kids with
Damn. With me it was a new coworker. Late 20's, 5' tall and the cutest smile activated my neuron. Until then I thought I would never see a woman in my life ever again.

The best it's ever been. I've been getting laid every other week minimum for the past year and a half. I've dated up to 3 women at the same time. I'm not saying they're models or even attractive, most of them are single moms and/or overweight (but not obese). But it's never been easier

>>83631131
you use dating apps or what?

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All but one of my friends are married and/or have kids. I've found that you don't get invited to certain things when you're single.

>>83631142
Yeah, mostly hinge and okcupid.

Single moms are so starved for meaningful attention. If you're an active listener they'll do wild things to try and keep you.

>>83629250
>my person
You're a fag

>>83631131
And I'm sure men are easy to find too, but I'm not interested in those either.

Not a single woman near my age has talked to me outside a profession since I was 23, and even that was a couple sentences of small talk. I'm not even bad looking.

>>83631011
>I'm the boring one. I don't even know how to keep a conversation going.
what do you mean, just say random shit

>And I would have no idea where to take her, how to present myself, how to behave.
women are stupid as fuck just suggest a few rests something cheap, wings, pizza, burguers, pick your normie food

>Me too. Can one be too socially retarded to go to a prostitute? Would she be able to handle an autistic fucktard?
its just sex and trust me, prostitutes deal with way worse shit than the average autist robot, im talking dudes in their 50's that want to be shat on, pissed on, i heard some weird shit from a girl i know from college that went on the ewhore road

>>83628297
>m32
only gf i ever had was in high school. been single all this time. met some nice girls though dating apps but it went no where. last year a girl sucked my dick though. that was pretty nice lol

>>83629948
Yeah this is incredibly dumb as people pointed out, I thought the same about my 20s and I learned how wrong that was the hard way. If you can't make it in your 30s you surely won't in your 40s. Life getting better as you age was true for boomers, it isn't for us.

>>83631230
The person you replied to literally said they don't even know where they would go on a date or how to solve that problem.
Your advice is like teaching a deaf person a musical instrument.

>>83631340
>The person you replied to literally said they don't even know where they would go on a date or how to solve that problem.
>Your advice is like teaching a deaf person a musical instrument.
i tried to keep it simple because there is no use in trying to teach him to be someone different than who he is, what he CAN learn is to not give a fuck, women fuck dogs, hobos, criminals, drug addicts, obese, the disabled, their siblings, old men, etc., if you give a fuck then you already lost

>>83628297
35 here and I can get by with daddymaxxing thanks to daddy issues zoomettes, but hoeflation has definitely made it more difficult. Tough to see any woman as serious dating potential when you know they're all talking to 10+ guys they'd drop you for in a moment for some stupid reason and have a million orbiters constantly gassing them up.

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I've only ever dated women who were literally next door, or otherwise very convenient in my life.
right now, i don't know a single white woman my age (or younger) who isn't my professional subordinate.
i really just hate dating and being around people, AND i feel little to no desire at all in my life.
I could be married, as I can handle responsibility and obligation; but i can't handle passion or fancy

>Landwhale
>Drug addict
>Single mother
>Green hair, septum ring, yakuza tattoos
>AWFL
>Man in a dress

Pick one (or more) of the above.

I wanna ask out a girl 12 years younger than me (23, I'm 35). It'd also be the first time I've ever done this.

>>83631707
>AWFL
Easily this. It implies she's capable of looking after herself, has her own income, is willing to standup for herself. She could also have a nice bush.
basically what I already have minus the A and some of the L

>>83631821
are you fat and or bald?
are they really skinny/attractive or kinda normal

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I went out on my bike to do deliveries for a few hours like I used to. In the rain. I figured I would like $80 instead of wallowing at home. Still probably doing bankruptcy though, because this won't make a dent.

Guess location if you feel like.

Considering I'm a woman into young men it's safe to say it's probably over. Not that I've made many attempts, just can't deal with social interactions

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>>83628297
First year being 30, slept with another guy for the first time and loved it.
If that's a blackpill to you, like, okay, I don't care anymore.

>>83631230
>im talking dudes in their 50's that want to be shat on, pissed on
Well, I just need a hug. Maybe I'm not so disgusting.

>>83628297
>33
Haven't been on one in many years
some ppl still think im in my 20s for some reason
no matches on dating apps

>>83631131
I want companionship and a meaningful relationship with someone who I can build a family with. Doesn't scraping the bottom of the barrel and using others for casual sex weigh on you after a while? It just seems so empty to me. Not knocking you for getting laid but ugh man

>>83632000
>Considering I'm a woman
Are you though?
I'm 36 and adore milfs, though now this means 45-55 year olds lmao

>dating
I've only heard about that thing. Don't see much of a point in engaging with it.

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>>83628297

I'm nearly 41. M.

Had a handful of dates over the past decade. Most of them were a bust. We get coffee or drinks and have awkward conversation for two hours and don't speak with each other again.
I did end up staying friends with one person who introduced me to a whole bunch of others that make up a big current friend group.

It would still be nice to have a gf. Being lonely sucks.

Never been in one in 33 years of my life. Even if I'd manage to get in one - I have no clue what to do. I cannot flirt, nor do anything physical in sexual way. Not to mention that Im turbo khv. I wish I could just find bravery to kill myself and end this pathetic existance.

>>83633905
>nor do anything physical in sexual way.
Do you have no body?

>>83634237

what a fucking awful response

>last 30+ threads had dating as main topic
It's over for robots

>>83634383
What a fucking awful thread

>>83632011
did you take or give?

>>83630648
He's fat ugly bastard maxxing.
Major respect.

I have sinusitis plz help

>>83631707
AWFL?

>>83634934
Actually... Wait, Fuck Life

>>83634934
Always Wrestling, Forever Listening

>>83634991
Awooo! Wolves Find Love

>>83634934
Average Whiskey? Fucking Lichtenstein!

>>83628297
it consists of married women, or single moms trying to normie talk flirt and hit on you IRL.
then they're baffled as to why a wizard with high internal standards and principles is rejecting them on the basis of being married and/or having children.
they do not undertsand as they're normies.

>>83634732
Give but I could've done either.

Something I realized when I awoke today following a romantic dream is that the part of my life where I can experience heart fluttering love is simply over. Not only am I older and more jaded but so are all of my potential mates, and that's not even accounting for whether or not those potential partners were ever as naively optimistic as I was, which I don't believe most were, at least not since their mid-teens. I think I'm lightly on the spectrum; I have a tendency to select a 'favorite person' and I don't have much natural regard for social hierarchy, so in those ways I've always been in it for more than just pussy. Partly because of this, and probably because I've been brainwashed by classic Disney-type media and am simply inclined to hopeless romanticism, I think I honestly feel "love" much more intensely than most normalfags, which has unfortunately lead to exploitation for me in the past, leading to even more jadedness. Romance without love, or love without romance--however you want to look at it--just doesn't seem worth it to me, so my level of motivation seems to have a really low ceiling now. The idea of settling for someone is almost worse on balance than just being foreveralone with a good pet for me. I do want more in theory, but what I want doesn't even seem to exist in practice, to say nothing for its attainability in this modern hellscape. I can't even psyop myself into it anymore like I could when I was younger--what am I supposed to do, get down on one knee and give an expensive shiny rock to some run through 31-year-old who has taken more nuts in and around her mouth than a squirrel? Smile at the altar when I see her for the first time in a white dress that's supposed to symbolize purity? It is what it is.

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>>83628297
>What has the dating experience been like for anons over the age of thirty?
I haven't approached or tried it, my life hasn't started yet even, I don't have the basic building blocks to be funcitoning adult male yet
as time goes on I even wonder if I even want that, I have zero real need for human interaction on that level
becoming a boomer soon posting in 40+ you have to date two decades younger if you wanna familymaxx too, increasing difficulty if you arent moneystatuslooksmaxxed in old age
plus need to become financially independent at the same time too, so many stressors
all this will reduced and dead killed libido along with zero dopamine circulating in my brain low test I have zero fucking spark of will or ambition but must continue living on this bitch of an earth
idk, will seek solutions some how, maybe medical intervention is the final cope
these threads always dying early, no boomers left to post here
anyway, that's about it, seeya

>>83635880
>Romance without love, or love without romance
what do you understand by romance?

>>83635903
That's just poorly written. I could appreciate "love" without much romance, whatever it means--the real issue is just that I don't believe in love and I was talking around that fact. Even my capacity for the temporary infatuation which people think of as love is gone.

>>83635898
>all this will reduced and dead killed libido along with zero dopamine circulating in my brain low test I have zero fucking spark of will or ambition but must continue living on this bitch of an earth
Lmao, this
>these threads always dying early, no boomers left to post here
anyway, that's about it, seeya
And this
Where did the oldfags go?

>>83634237
I dont get it. I cannot do anything, its mental thing.

>>83635880
I met a single mom who was 31, we had a kind of cutesy romance and she was really good looking. One thing that really annoyed me however was how casually rude she was (showing up late without apology, getting angry over stupid shit - including just walking away when her kid was upset about something and I stopped to see what was wrong), how utterly incurious she was (rarely asked questions and even then just listened and nodded or said nothing) and ultimately how she basically expected me to be a "hunter" and a provider like a man "should be" while she was saving no money and taking out loans to buy a car she really wanted etc. It was fun, she was hot, the sex was great, but I felt like I was getting too deep into something that wasn't worthwhile ultimately.

34 now and worrying a bit about meeting someone else, but I'll never seriously date a single mom again.

>>83636347
>single mom
>cutesy romance
>literally everything you typed after this
Oh no no no...

>>83628297
E-dating trannies in their early 20s

>>83636945
Anon... "e-dating" when you're above 30 is fucking sad. Why not try getting into a real relationship?

I never even tried dating until I was over 30. desu I've just gone on dates with people much younger than me and it's fun, but nothing meaningful comes out of it.

>>83636980
NTA but women do not want autistic manchildren such as me so e-dating is my only option

>>83636980
I have autism and I can barely interact irl
With the pause between texts I can fake being normal and flirty
Legit nuked by autism because I'm handsome and people are attracted to me but in person I immediately drive people away
My strat is to close the distance of an internet relationship eventually when they already like me and I've unpeeled the 'tism a bit but so far they fell apart before the meetup

>>83636980
>>83636987
>>83637026
I wish people would just be more open minded about the tism, but Mormons are genuinely impatient, angry, aggressive people. I've found that whenever anyone can indeed be patient we will often have very productive interactions, but the people who can or are willing to do this are few and far between. Even just getting into a conversation where someone can drop the normalfag social hierarchy shucking and jiving is rare, even when the other party has little reason to pretend (i.e. they're a loser). Does anyone else know what I mean?

>>83637054
>but Mormons are genuinely impatient, angry, aggressive people
normies*

>>83636843
It genuinely was quite cutesy. She was quite young in her ways, loved romance and little innocent displays of affection. When we first met it was like being a teenager or something.

I just found it frustrating that I learned so much about her life, beliefs, family etc by asking questions while she rarely asked anything back. I remember after ~8 months of knowing each other she asked me what my last job (a pretty impressive job in a big city) had been and I found it so shocking that she had asked me something like that. When we first met she texted me that she was looking forward to learning more about me, but it kind of cooled off really quickly.

Recently I went for a meal with some people including a girl I had crushed on a little last year, and this girl quietly asked me a couple of questions about my life etc and I felt so touched by that, and realized I needed that in a partner. This girl asked me and I felt that she was genuinely curious but not prying, just trying to have a pleasant conversation and treat me like a person. I miss the sex but I'm glad the relationship is over pretty much.

The "market" is getting better but the weigh of real life burdens and expectations takes away your silly romantic view of the magic of it all.

At one point it becomes more about getting a supportive roomie and then see what happens than anything about your hopes and dreams and the future because that time of your life already passed for both of you anyway

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>>83628297
>dating experience
???
My life has been waking up, go to work, go to gym, come home, cook/shower/vidya, sleep. Every day. Until burnout. Now Im spiraling into insanity as I chug down the pills the psych gives me.

I do ok but I'm tall and handsome and understand my experience wasn't typical. I couldn't really date when I was younger because life was hard. Got into a relationship in my mid later 20s, that didn't work out, then COVID happened and I didn't touch grass for a while. Then I found myself single in my early 30s.

I could probably sleep with a new girl every week off a dating app but I want marriage and kids but haven't found girls suitable for that.

>>83637208
>Until burnout
How did it happen? Just one day everything went crashing down?

>>83628297
I'm a wizard and my only dating options are now women with years, almost a decade of experience give or take. I don't want to bother at this point because of that. It won't be special, and to act as if it were would be pathetic. I couldn't even believe it myself and it would just eat away at me because it would be me saying I can't have the relationship I want so I need to kill my dreams and put my romantic energy into a girl who did everything with other men.
Nah.
So even though I have never dated, never kissed and obviously never had sex. I'm done.
I am now moving my life around other things because romance will never bring me happiness. Like hey you werent there for me in my late teens to early 20s when I was really, really struggling. Yeah you were absent for the other rough parts of my life, but now as we both near middle age, now you want to talk about building a life together? When you wouldn't date me if I were totally broke and did nothing to help me avoid that fate, so essentially I did it myself and you're just here for good times, having been fucking other men when I went through bad times?

It's just not for me. Especially when you know women IRL who bitch about shit like their BF cheating on them, but stay with him anyway. Nah fuck that. I can't change how other people view me and dislike me, but I still have my pride and I'm gonna cling to it becuase it's all I have left. All I work towards now is building a life I respect while romance is absent.

i left it too late
im a khhv but i dont mind a woman whos had experience, though obviously someone closer to my own experience is preferred
i will put my foot down on no casual sex of any form thoughever
only love and pursuits of love
as i get older i know finding this type of woman will only get harder

>>83638552
>Yeah you were absent for the other rough parts of my life, but now as we both near middle age, now you want to talk about building a life together? When you wouldn't date me if I were totally broke and did nothing to help me avoid that fate, so essentially I did it myself and you're just here for good times, having been fucking other men when I went through bad times?
This mindset might help me get over my current crush.

>>83639400
that is a good point
and i notice its something whores dont understand
>you wouldnt even look in my direction back then but now after im at a better place in life im good enough for settling down with?
how can you not feel like youre being used and being taken for a fool after a whore "is done with having fun and is now looking for something serious"