she goes on her period and suddenly she's really mad at me but i didn't do anything so I'm apologizing for some strange overarching relationship meta crap that I don't actually understand
that girl can period all over my face. nom nom nom
>>83633379yeah that part is pretty good but she'll get really mad I'm telling you
The question is does your woman come to her senses and apologize for being nuts if you stay cool? or does she look for something to justify her emotions and double down on it
>>83633371>I'm apologizingYou're failing the shit test
>>83633514NTA but what are you supposed to do in this situation?
hard to believe this isn't bait
>>83633514you don't even want to know what happens if you don't apologize to this woman. to her, it's all about her ego
>>83633514this. dont engage with her BS. remain calm like the rock she wants to lean on
>>83633523Simple. Escalate and blow up at her. The rule of thumb is - if she's antagonizing you, you should throw that shit back at her at 3x-10x intensity. Hours later you won't even have to apologize. She will do it herself, because she will feel responsible for getting that reaction out of you. It's the only accountability women will respond to.Now you can imagine why women stay with men who beat them silly. They blame themselves for their man beating them. Ever wonder why? lol. Well now you know.
>>83633523leave her nonny
>>83633371okay but who is this asian semen demon?
>>83633371I got my first gf at 27 years old and she was like this. Started driving me insane and I had to dump her. There's no reasoning with them and they don't apologise after.
>>83634229That sounds way more exhausting than just apologizing, I'd rather keep the peace
>>83634229i used to apologize like op when my bpde ons mask off moment happened 3mos inthen, 6mos in, i lost my patiencei used to blow up (it does make the crazy bitches stay longer, as you say)eventually i stopped responding and treated her like a petulant child and just made her soup and choclates and flowers for her periodyoud never guess it, but the relationship happiness chart spiked, she was having her needs met and i had regulated the conflict away.then shortly it all ceased - if you meet a womans needs she will just leave youthey crave either dominating or being dominated most women are subconscious animals in that sensea true partner is rare, very rare, i hope to find a girl who can be with me a true ride or die
>>83633371Anon, repeat after me.'How did that make you feel?''Why did it make you feel that way?'All you gotta do is get her thinking instead of reacting to some vague ass feeling she got, and as soon as you make her question it she'll realize what she's doing.Also draw reasonable boundaries and don't be afraid to make her leave if she crosses them. Think of this shit like a negotiation. You gotta show you're willing to walk away if they won't do it at the price you want.>>83633450Also this. If she doubles down just dump her. Life is too short to date a womanchild.
>>83635282She will lose respect for you. The worst thing that can happen in a relationship is for her to lose respect towards you. Its even worse than losing attraction which losing respect often leads to too.
>>83635664I just need to do that till I find a foid who is satisfied with an apology as a response
>>83635785You will be looking for a while...
>>83634197>remain calm like the rockI agree with this guy. Being calm and stoic but also not taking her shit whatsoever is the best way.Pushback but don't lose your cool.>>83635664Me losing my cool whenever my last girl shit tested me made her lose respect for me, then she stopped wanting sex shortly after. But it was a cocktail of reasons her sex drive got dumpstered (meds, weight gain). But she definitely lost respect for me every time I lost my temper. Anger issues are a huge turn off for most women.
>>83635282Whatever you say bro. I practice what I preach and my current gf bought me a house. I don't work and vidya 50% of my day. Either use the rule or get fucked. No inbetween
>>83635917>Me losing my cool whenever my last girl shit tested me made her lose respect for me, then she stopped wanting sex shortly afterIt depends. If she is purposely antagonizing you you shouldn't get angry but if she is having an emotional woman moment you should respond with emotion. I hate women so much.
>>83635917You don't have to lose temper in every case. She is being cold? Leave for 24-48 hours, no contact don't say a word. See how she reacts when you come back. She'll shower you with love and affection.>>83635971This
>>83635513>All you gotta do is get her thinking instead of reacting to some vague ass feeling she gotClose but no cigar. Women don't intellectualize things, they feel them. The key is to get her to acknowledge her feelings and let her know that you acknowledge them as well, and this is less about asking arm chair psychology questions but letting the feelings sit. As in, "I know you're upset right now..." or "I understand why you're feeling this way..." But you're right about boundaries, the second they sniff out the fact that they can shit all over you with impunity when they're having one of their period fits it's pretty much gg for your sanity. >Also this. If she doubles down just dump her. Life is too short to date a womanchild.You haven't dated enough women to know that they're all basically womanchilds. Ah to be young.
>>83633371this is who demon semen?
>>83634229this is ridiculously fucking shitty advice lmao
>>83636097>asking for sauce on a generic looking naked asian womanbrother, you are addicted
>>83636133yep. I'm not even ashamed. she's got a perfect body and a great face.
>>83636145>she's got a perfect body and a great face.the absolute state of coombrains lmfao
>>83635976>You don't have to lose temper in every case. She is being cold? Leave for 24-48 hours, no contact don't say a word. See how she reacts when you come back. She'll shower you with love and affection.if I leave like that then she'll choose that as the justification for her anger and she'll say that I leave her all the time
>>83636133Uhh we need asian pussy for our white wieners, sorry
>>83636133ALL LOOK SAME huh