>only likes on dating apps are women who weight more then me>I am 190cm tall and have a normal weight and not balding>get zero likes on the big ones Never knew I was this ugly or are women really this super picky?
>>83636220dating apps are basically a meat menu, you're better off deleting them and attempting to date IRL before you get sucked down the incel pipeline
>>83636306I would not use them if I could, no idea how to date irl>inb4 just go to xy place and ask women out you know nothing about and don't have anything in common so they reject you and you are getting humiliated >inb4 they won't reject you and you can go to a place where women have the same interests as youThey will the few times I tried they all said no because I am shy with women (google love shy men).
>>83636420Just asking women out doesnt exist for regular guys.You get to know a woman through work, school, activity etc. If she expresses interest in you, then you can go ahead. Cold approaching is almost guaranteed to fail.
>>83636220They're just super picky, and even MORE picky on dating apps.
>>83636420>no idea how to date irlThe key is to stop looking to date and just be friendly.There is a lot here I won't take the time to explain, but just assume every woman you see is already taken, and start brief casual conversations with them rather than hitting on them or asking them out.
>>83636420don't look for women to date, look for women to be friends with, especially lesbian women, because lesbian women are the best wingmen you could possibly have, so you need to be a safe space, you listen, you give advice and you nurture friendships, and eventually when you are interested in someone you compliment them, you butter them up, you joke about it with them ("the funniest thing happened the other day, x told me we look like a couple!" is a great way to gauge her feelings about you) and eventually if you think they are ready you ask them on a date, and you ask them out
>>83638126also try not to hit on the lesbian women specifically, instead when you're interested in someone you go: "hey i think this person is really cute and really cool and i want to date her but im not sure how" and you can expect the lesbian to set the field for you so to speak
>>83638126>how to meet women? well its easy, first ofcourse you have to meet this hyperniche 0.5% of society that hates men!where do you retards come up with this shit? the only way i can think of is that you're one of those redditors who goes to a dungeons and dragons club, chats about his funkopops to the fat otherkin who introduced him to her friend that he's now dating and now he's a "chad" expert who knows all the tips for "incels".
>>83637113There are very little women at work and I can not just go up to them and talk with them that would be weird>activity aka just do a hobby dudeHow many times again, hobbies don't work mostly men there and I will not sign up for something I don't like.>>83637172>just start random conversations with strangersShe will instantly assume I try to hit on her and even if I don't she will not make the move to swap contacts, women are not like this.>>83638126Yeah this anon alredy said enough >>83638245Feels like I read a reddit post.
>>83638719the basic gist is that you should be around many women all the time (this can and should include also maximizing dating app effort (good pictures, etc)), and make it a habit of approaching and socializing with them, hylic normalniggers struggle to get this very simple concept across because they go through life wearing 50 masks and have no sense of self, they just randomly find themselves having a GF. the problem is there are very few places to really meet women anymore, mixed sex groups don't really exist anymore and many explicitly try to make "girls only" days and so on, if there are places where you're nearly the only male its considered creepy and hitting on women in this fashion is very risky. contemporary PUA grifters kind of elaborate on these concepts and how to maximize them, but any specific advice (I.E go to dancing class bro!) is useless because everything is so relative to many factors. a lot of this shit-tier advice is given out by low iq normies with fat miserable gfs and wives who are actually as insecure as a currycel, but see another guy online not getting laid so they think themselves chad by telling them shit they've never even done themselves.
>>83638983I am introverted and spending time with people who are not very close to me is very draining for me and even with people I am close with do I need my space from time to time. Being around people all the time is not something I desire.
>>83639265yes, thats another thing i forgot to mention, its all a bunch of humiliation and has varying degrees of unfeasibility for many men, its all very unnatural and shitty if you're introverted. though you can probably get more used to being *around* people, you don't have to pretend to be a social butterfly, these lame human social mating rituals and dynamics go beyond being the loudest retard in the room. the point is you have to find your own way to be in constant proximity to potential mates, and become comfortably and habitually talking to them, which looks different for everybody, different locations and cultures and people have different rules and effects.
>>83639349Idk anon even when I go to places I like it is usualy not something regular so no way for me to make an long term impression. I went to an anime con and could only talk to one girl there this is how bad it is and only for a few min. A lot of it probably inside my head I try to go the con this year again maybe I do better, I doubt it tho.
