why dont you just get out there, ask out a girl & try to start a relationship? this isnt a rherotical question, most guys on this board dont even try that, and i want to know why.for me, its because i dont feel anything for normalfag girls, and im saving myself for a nice fembot online. praying to god that they actually exist. havent been able to find one yet though
when i was like 15 my brother made me ask out 10 girls in a row back to back and they all said no and then i gave up on asking again
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>>83642877kek your brother sounds based, fucked up they all rejected you. whats your issue then? are you fat or black or something? or did you just ask like a sperg?>>83642883indeed
>>83642869>ask out a girlFUCKINGWHERER
I genuinely care about gender equality and hate gender roles. I fuckinf despise the trad idea that men must be the one to make the first move. Girls should lower their standards and ask out unattractive incels like me. I will die mad as hell about the fact that they will never do this.
>>83642869High risk low reward. Asking out a girl at work could get me fired; at school, I could get expelled. Cold approaching strangers could get me beaten up or arrested. There's really no situation in which asking out a girl is "safe," and I'm not willing to take such a big risk when the odds are so strongly stacked against me.
>>83642888>whats your issue then? are you fat or black or something? or did you just ask like a sperg?nothing. cold approaches dont work
>>83642869Irl girls trigger my fight or flight, and im terrified of the 'so what do you do for work' stuff and its pretty important for me that i share hobbies with the girl. In the moment i always completely freeze up and come across severely neurotic due to the tism. Terrified of rejection too
>>83642892oh good question, maybe like, the mall? i dont socialize irl but i see alot of girls around my age(19) whenever i go to the mall that i'd be asking out if i had any interest in non-fembot girls. theres this one goth girl i see every time i go there that makes me flustered without failaside from that, maybe you can find one at work, or through a friend?>>83642911this is gay and uselessly denying nature, women wanna be asked out because thats how god made them. they wanna feel desired & sought after. they dont get that from asking a guy out>>83642933>get me fired>get me beaten up or arrestedthis never happens, arent you just afraid of rejection itself?>>83642940>im terrified of the 'so what do you do for work'lol im terrified of the small-talk questions too. i have a job so i can answer that one specifically but i always feel like its gonna go horribly wrong when someone is asking me those questions
>>83642954>this never happensyeah it does. Men get fired for asking out coworkers all the time. Admittedly, the likelihood of running into trouble when asking out a stranger in a bar is a lot lower, but it's still present, and a lot greater than the likelihood of being in a relationship with them.
Call me a normalfag because I've been on a few dates but every time a woman tries to get close to me I just get this disgusting feeling of inadequacy and push them away. I guess I'm good enough at seeming normal that women take interest in me but I know that as soon as they find out how I really am then I'll just disgust them. I feel like I'm not mature enough for a relationship and whatever impression women have of me is somehow fake.
>>83642869I've lost count of how many girls I've asked out. They all had boyfriends already. All the effort and confidence and self-improovshit didn't change anything.
>>83642954>this is gay and uselessly denying nature, women wanna be asked out because thats how god made them. they wanna feel desired & sought after. they dont get that from asking a guy outGod isn't real and christcuckery is bullshit that just seeks to oppress men
>>83642869No, women are evil. They're also a money sink with ever increasing standards.
>>83642869I am just very emotionally unstable. Plus idk what I would if I got one it would probably end up going really abd
>>83642869>Why is water wetDo you really ask why women are unapproachable? Think about it a little bit.
>>83642869i had a relationship some time ago, made me realize i dont actually want to be with anyone and i vastly prefer being alone
>>83642869>why dont you just get out there, ask out a girl & try to start a relationship?it took me years of trying to socialize myself, she had a chip on her shoulder from relationships she'd had before me, and then she became verbally and physically abusive
So how do I do it at the mall? Do I see a girl, approach her, compliment her. talk a bit, and then ask for her number?
>>83643678You don't. You shouldn't cold approach women anywhere. You'll just get in trouble
>>83643688well what else do I do? Dating apps don't work
>>83643713The game is rigged against you
>>83642869I kinda lowkirkenuinely don't want a relationship
>>83642869how many times must this be asked? we already tried and failed horribly. or we know we'll fail because women have been VERY clear what their standards are for even approaching>but not every woman wants the triple 6's #notallyeah but enough of them do that it's not worth trying to find the outliers #enoughforittomatter
>>83642888>whats your issue then? are you fat or black or something? or did you just ask like a sperg?women rarely tell why you. usually it's just a cold "i'm not interested" or "I have a bf". ah yes, your bf. who is not here while you hang out at a spot known for hooking up
>>83642869>you just get out there, ask out a girl & try to start a relationship? Out there where? Approaching aka harassing women in the street is creepy and every social event is just men and old people.
>>83642954>mallI am not american, hitting on random women in the mall is litteral harassment>through friendsThey dont know any women>work Theres no woman below 50, also thats an easy way to lose your job should qhe report it
>>83642954>the mall? do NOT approach women at the mall, or the grocery store or literally anywhere where it's not encouraged. Do not go up to random women on the street for sex. That's a social no-no even for chads. >at workWork is even worse. Gone are the days of most people meeting their partner at work. HR has made it clear fraternising at work is grounds for dismisal, and even if it wasnt you should shit where you eat. if that relationships (the majority do) then one of you has to go, usually the guy>through a friend?What friends? Not only are friends terrible matchmakers but how many of us here are friends with a Chad? Chad usually has more than enough women to spare but they'd rather share him than fuck his incel friend>get me fired>get me beaten up or arrestedThis has, and will, happen. Normies and boomers are so out of touch. You dont know how much the rules of engagement when it comes to pussy as changed.
I am a depressed asocial loser so I think a normie girl would not be happy with me even if she fell for my looks. I'd like to meet and fall in love with another mentally ill outcast but no idea where to meet her, psych ward perhaps?
i'm aggressively ugly and badly socially disabled. the thought of even trying seems vain, and if i succeeded somehow i would live in fear of being a disappointment or being taken advantage of. i've foreclosed that kind of thing for this life, i'm working on trying to put it out of my mind for good
I have a thread up talking about this right now actuallyI cannot be handsome, so I don't ever foresee a woman liking me physically. And if she doesnt like me physically, I don't see a point in the relationship
>>83642869I'm almost 38, I'm set in my ways and have no desire to.
>>83642869>im saving myself for a nice fembot online. praying to god that they actually existThey do but their bodycounts are in the hundreds. Alt-/weird girls and tradwife larpers are always secretly more slutty than normie girls or have a shameful past to hide.
>>83642869I own that gengar tshirt, I'm a fat balding 36 year old man
I'm not physically attractive or charismatic, and I'm a mentally ill neet that lives with my parents in my late 20s. I cannot foresee myself approaching a woman, and do anything other than creeping her out, which will just make me feel infinitely worse about myself and make me reluctant to try again. I'm sure many other robots feel similarly. You might as well be asking us to win the lottery, but at least with the lottery you just lose money, not sanity.
>>83642869>why dont you just get out there, ask out a girlwhat do you mean? a girl? Any girl? Like randomly? I'm supposed to date the first girl I see on the street? How is that gonna work?
>>83642869i did when i was in HS and only got embarrassing memories out of it. i'd do it again but i've since neetmaxxed and hate going outside.
>>83642954>this never happensLol. Ok boomer.They're hasn't been a single job I've worked in the last 35 years where at least one guy was fired for dating co workers. One job neither of them were causing problems, there was just a no fraternization rule. Both of them got fired. The rest it was either a sexual harassment complaint for being rejected; or the woman felt slighted that he wanted to act professional at work and wasn't all lovey-dovey in the office; or it was the opposite and she was too affectionate in the office so he got fired for it for it; or they broke up and the women couldn't handle still seeing an ex every day so they fired him.I had a friend get fired for inviting a new female employee if she wanted to come to a company bowling night. She said "uhh.... I have a boyfriend." He confusedly replied "Ok, her can come too?" The HR jew considered that sexual harassment.So his next job he said fuck it, I'm not even going to socialize with a woman unless it is required for my job. The office whore got upset he wasn't falling for her manipulation and complained to HR. He got fired again for making a "hostile work environment."Stereotypes exist for a reason, nigger.
