Me and my spouse invited a friend over to hangout, watch movies, drink and play card gamesHalfway through the night she lost interest and remained solely on her phone, which we felt was rudeThroughout the night when one of us walked in the living room, she would rush to put away her phone, later she had fallen asleep, I went out to smoke and being curious and still slightly intoxicated, I checked her phoneIt was completely unlocked, I snooped through her discord messages and I saw she had been esexing multiple eboys online, sending videos to eachother, in one of the videos she showed my backyard and in another she used my toothbrush on herself, I felt sickShe has a bf, also my friend, who has also had a bad history of cheating on her, yelling and acting horrible, even recently he's still had these moments as he is mentally ill, in the last two years he's become crippled with diabetes to the point now his legs are purple and spotty, completely shot and I'm pretty sure he's going to lose them soonMy spouse told me to confront my friend which I did, she at first denied ever doing anything, then said she didn't remember using my toothbrush, eventually saying to pretend this conversation never happened, later texting she was sorry, embarrassed and that she'll make it up to me, that we shouldn't talk for a while, I agreed, we removed all her contactsI still have the the boyfriend in my contacts and I can't decide if I should tell him, I'm scared the situation is so volatile It might lead to something happening, he's extremely sick however but he's also as recent as the last six months still acted horribly knowingly, once remarked as saying along the lines of "I'm glad I cheated on you with those girls online", he's had attempts at bringing other girls into their relationship for a poly thing, and multiple admissions of cheating on herI can't decide to tell him what's happening or to just leave it done as isI feel fucked
>>83656736>I'm scared the situation is so volatile It might lead to something happeningNo. Nothing happens. Ever.
Probably best to stop associating with both of them altogether. Just sounds like pure drama and bullshit. And if she did that with your toothbrush it's obvious they have no boundaries.
