what's the femcel experience like?legit curious about those meek mousy types
>"femcel"Lmao you mean "couldn't get Chad"?>meek, mousyIt's just a filter for the 95% of men she finds unattractive. She'll literally act opposite in the presence of a man she genuinely desires.
>>83661930You meant femchud experience, femcels dont exist.
>>83661930Looks like a normal girl who would get tousands of matches on dating apps and would reject every man who is a sub who would ask her out. Femcel is an oxymoron. The only thing that exists is woman who does not make herself available to non chads.
any chick who looks like Daisy Ridley is getting railed by Chad.
>>83661930Speaking from experience because these girls for some reason are drawn to me like moths:>strict and probably overcontrolling religious upbringing (probably c*tholic)>likely molested by a male family member in their upbringing 50% chance it gave them permanent anxiety/issues and 50% they defined their entire sexuality around it with shit like obvious autopedophilia (sometimes both)>really like the most basic cutecore normieslop stuff used to be mostly MLP nowadays Sanrio seems to be taking over it doesn't matter just alot of pink>hides behind a cute I'm a stupid little girl persona usually extremely distrustful or manipulative in reality>probably some kind of undiagnosed autism 50% chance of BPD those ones are the worst (or the best)
>>83661930Femcels do not exist.Shy girls do exist but even they have multiple boyfriends and friends.
>>83661996sounds like you are describing a manager I had at Dominos. she used to always say hi to me though so i liked her. she always seemed like she was day dreaming even when it got really busy, it was weird. prolly high.
>>83661930i dont think femcels exist but im meek and mousy, what do you want to know
>>83662080How are you different from the average thot?How many friends do you have or have you had in life?How many boyfriends have you had so far?What do you look for in a man?How does a man find you and ask you on a date?
>>83662125>How are you different from the average thot?im a virgin at 20, i have never been to a party, a club or even a concert, i spend 95% of my days working and then staying home by myself in my room. >How many friends do you have or have you had in life?I have one friend right now and have for the last 6 years but she's distant and doesnt talk to me much. I had more friends when I was younger but it was just some group in school I tagged along with and didn't speak outside of school.>How many boyfriends have you had so far?None, I have never talked romantically to a man irl or even had a platonic male friend>What do you look for in a man?someone introverted, inexperienced and patient.>How does a man find you and ask you on a date?I cannot give advice on this because I leave my house to go somewhere beyond my workplace probably every 2-3 months, the only time ive ever met other mousy women was at school or work, basically places where theyre forced to be in public. grocery stores and cafes are where i frequent the most so maybe thats ur best bet
>>83662256>i have never been to a party, a club or even a concert, i spend 95% of my days workingYou need to start living before its too late anon
>>83662256>basically places where theyre forced to be in public. grocery stores and cafes are where i frequent the most so maybe thats ur best betDo you really wish some men would would randomly ask you for your number while you're working or at the cafe? It's funny since most women spent the last 20 years complaind about that shit
i think the femcel term is becoming dangerously close to becoming a wholly appropriated term of endearment for a new radfem subculture centered around extricating oneself entirely from the dating world and viewing female celibacy as a form of ascension, dignity, and pride bordering on female supremacy. just going slightly more mainstream and catching a slightly bigger core demo of women could push it over the edge out of obscurity. i think that would be a good thing.
>>83662256>at 20wow it's fucking nothing>i have never been to a party, a club or even a concert,Because you are scared of going alone or because these things don't interest you or what?>someone introverted, inexperienced and patient.What does this mean, more specifically?> basically places where theyre forced to be in public. grocery stores and cafes are where i frequent the most so maybe thats ur best betHow would you react to being approached in these spaces though? And what kind of approach would even work? In relation to that, what's wrong with trying the internet instead? You are here right now and surely others would be as well, and it is a format that is much more amenable to chatting after all.Also, what do you work with?
>>83661930Femcels usually spend their weekends with their boyfriends.
Females don't exist. Women decide what's accepted socially that's why the sound of these retarded femanons tears will fall deaf ears and blind eyes
>>83661958>>"femcel">Lmao you mean "couldn't get Chad"?more like "pussy wasn't good enough for Chad to make Chad commit"
>>83662324>wow it's fucking nothinglol my thoughts exactly. god damn I hate this board.
>>83661930Pretty sad from what I have seen.I have known one for more than 5 years now since we went to uni together.Meek to the point you can walk over her and she won't say a word. Always anxious that she is making some mistake when speaking to you. When she doesn't understand what you are saying she defaults to some scripted positive response out of fear of asking you to respeat it. Socially mogged all her life, never grew past the phase of being bullied at school.Had one boyfriend that she lost her virginity to when she was like 22 but couldn't keep him. Has not had a relationship since. Too conservative for one night stands. Masculine face, very thin, short, very small breasts, which makes her conventionally unattractive or as a friend of mine said "the rock bottom".But she is not like super ugly or anything. It's the shyness and anxiety that make her pathetic and unattractive. Just like the average robot.
>>83662407Those are all attractive traits in women though all literally all shr needs to do is expose herself more you just described 80% of women lol
>>83662422Literally this.The only potentially unattractive part I can think of is if she turns into a couch potato that expects the man to cater to her every whims, which often happens with these women.
>>83661930Only the week shall inherit my girth. These fembots are my type
>>83662372>>83662324i didnt say it was something amazingly unique, its just different from the norm>>83662302i would if i could tell the guy was being genuine, ive seen so many of those videos of men cold approaching women online with the spy glasses and id never want to be approached in the way they do it >>83662324i dont have any interest in parties or clubs but i would like to go to a concert, havent gone because going to those sort of things alone as a woman is not a good idea.>What does this mean, more specifically? a man with one/two or no friends, who has never dated or had sex before. by patient i mean a lot of things, tempermentally calm, someone who doesnt try to rush into intimacy and someone non judgemental towards me. its hard to fully explain it all >what's wrong with trying the internet instead? nothing is wrong with it, ive tried talking to guys on the internet but its just not ideal, usually online involves them talking to other people, often the people you get along with the best arent close and sometimes the idea of meeting up with someone from online is more anxiety inducing than just meeting organically irl>what kind of approach would even work?i have never been approached by a man ever so a guy respecfully telling me he thinks im cute or something and asking for my number would be enough for me but i know that doesnt always work
>>83661930SSRIs and laziness
>>83662407omg its like you just described me to a tee, apart from the bf part, even the giving scripted responses when not understanding
>>83662521You aren't a femcel or unique at all this is 50% of women just install a dating app and drown in hundreds of matches or maybe one day decide to grow a spine I dunno what to say besides that and what to feel except sharp contempt as a guy you're constantly pressured to not be a manchild or face punishment from parents while many women live a coddled and generally pathetic existence
>>83662503>i didnt say it was something amazingly unique, its just different from the normThat wasn't our point. You're very young, it's pretty normal for both men and women to be virgins at 20 despite what a lot of classical narratives on the subject say.>havent gone because going to those sort of things alone as a woman is not a good idea.Countless normal women do that without any issues, including many of my colleagues.>usually online involves them talking to other people0 difference with real life. If anything online you can find a lot of men who don't believe in doing this, but the only people in person who will randomly approach you are 100% those who do that to 50 other women. Basically your worst nightmare wrt:>those videos of men cold approaching women online with the spy glasses and id never want to be approached in the way they do it>often the people you get along with the best arent closeDefinitely, but if you get along that well, surely it's worth taking the time and effort to fix this issue.>the idea of meeting up with someone from online is more anxiety inducing than just meeting organically irlWhat do you mean? Someone you've chatted with for a while and that you know to some extent is more anxiety-inducing than a random asking for your number while you're trying to do the groceries? Also confused about what you consider "just meeting organically irl" in that sense. Obviously the idea of meeting someone you have taken a liking to for the first time is always stressful, but wouldn't that be the same if the random stranger texted you and invited you to a coffee date or something? Of not worse since you know the guy less?Not trying to find a gotcha or anything, just interested in how you think about these things.Also ask questions yourself if you want.
>>83661930>what's the femcel experience like?its like going to the car dealership and asking for a lamborghini for free. What about a toyota corrolla for 1K (her budget)? Nope, she deserves lamborghini FOR FREE>>83662063>Femcels do not existthis>>83662352>Females don't existalso this>>83662367TRVKE
>>83662595>if you get along that well, surely it's worth taking the time and effort to fix this issueyeah of course but its a long winded process and a little discouraging, especially because you need to find someone equally dedicated to making it work, like actually dedicated and not just someone who talks about the future of moving to your country with no action.>but wouldn't that be the same if the random stranger texted you and invited you to a coffee date or something?im not very secure in myself and have a tendency to want to show the best parts of myself when talking to someone online and get worried they'll be disappointed when they meet me irl. thats obviously self inflicted though and im not saying it gets in the way of it, just that it's part of why id prefer irl because at least then theyve seen me in a natural state right off the bat. theres a lot of pros to meeting someone online initially too, maybe im just speaking as someone who's never had the irl stuff>ask questions yourself if you wanthow old are you? and whats your own experience been like both online and irl?
>>83662856>yeah of course but its a long winded process and a little discouraging, especially because you need to find someone equally dedicated to making it workYes, I understand this. I was on the other side and did the move twice before for a girl, but I was always clear with the steps I was taking and the timeline. The girls themselves had been with other guys before who either had no plan, no ability, or didn't make any action to achieve this and they explained to me what it was like.>im not very secure in myself and have a tendency to want to show the best parts of myself when talking to someone onlineEveryone is more or less like that. But normally as you talk together eventually things relax a little. The worry that the other party will be disappointed IRL never vanishes until you actually meet, but I'm surprised that you aren't thinking similar things about the irl path e.g. "what if he finds me boring" kind of stuff (I'm also of course not mentioning that you have talked a lot about what the guy might think of you, but never about what you might think of the guy, e.g. worry over meeting a creep).>how old are you? and whats your own experience been like both online and irl?I'm 33. I met 2 girls online and 0 irl. One time with a group of new colleagues we realized by coincidence that a lot of us had a common hobby, so I tried to see if I could make a group out of it. In that context, I asked some girls (who were part of this group) what they were doing for the weekend. The next day they fake-chatted to each other "I think it's creepy when guys ask women out at work" "yes I agree"-like. So that was the first and last time I dared do something like that, and that wasn't even yet for romantic purposes.Online was on 4chan so grain of salt on this. We met and dated for several years. Turned out the first was a visa scam, the second liked me but not romantically so we split up on friendly terms. I was 100% serious both times so it really hurt though.
