When I was in uni as a lonely awkward moid, an extroverted friend used to force me to be social and used to take me to his social circles. I used to be hesistant but secretly enjoyed itI moved away several thousand miles and we lost touch. I am so lonely now. I dont even have friends let alone a gf. Some of the social people are alright. webm unrelated
>>83672201i had schizophrenia in uni and was convinced no one actually has sex, and if you do you go to heaven
>>83672201>used to be hesistant but secretly enjoyed itWhenever people do something similar I try to not show it but it always caused resentment I couldn't shake off to accumulate
>>83672201>I used to be hesistant but secretly enjoyed it.me me me that's so me. I never liked meeting people until I did it a lot more often than I was comfortable. when people say that they are introverted they didn't meet the right people yet or haven't socialized enough.
>>83672201i remember from school to now in college ive always had random guys approach me, seeing how much of an autist loner i am, trying to get me to live in the real world by introducing me to a bunch of their friends and making me hang out with them. but im such a hopeless autist that even if i'm handed friendship on a silver platter, nothing really comes out of it. plus most of the time, id rather just be alone.why do they do this? some kind of attempt to fulfill a moral duty by enforcing solidarity?
>had the uni friendgroup I was introduced to via an extrovert >lost them 2 years ago>have not made any new friends since>now work full timeyep truly grim, try going to local gigs and its just not working in trying to make my own because everyone already has friends and if I talk to a dude and have decent convo then say if they wanna grab a beer after its always they have a train to catch. People as adults just have too much going on to make new friends and im fucked as a 25 year old unc, social life's dead and gone, just gonna have to somehow be fine with living to 70+ maybe without a single friend ever.
>>83672407>why do they do this? some kind of attempt to fulfill a moral duty by enforcing solidarityive wondered this as wellI was unable to convert them into any friendships as well because I am very unlikeable. But I appreciated their effort greatly
>>83672466same. some interaction with me later and they'd usually realize why i have no friends:1. i have pretty much nothing to offer in a friendship, i am not very dynamic, i am not very talkative and have troubles communicating. and when i do communicate, my ideas and speech is odd and eccentric at best it sort of weirds them off. i have no concept of what relations with another human is supposed to be, and i have little concept of interpersonal distance. 2. even if i like the atmosphere of people, i much prefer my own company than the intrusion of people most of the time. i like using my free time to just think and reflect inward on my own internal world, something which im forced out of when im constantly awakened by the presence of others.i still wish i had friends, but for a complicated autist as i, i don't think es possible, o algo.
>>83672365you are a volintro retard, shut the fuck up
Every time I get friends they irritate me so much I cut them off until I am alone again. I realized I can only tolerate people I talk to now and again, and if it's day to day it better be family or a hot guy fucking me and kissing my ass. I genuinely don't get how people can have 9000 friends. People make me SO mad
>>83672514I have social anxiety I'm not voluntarily quiet and I actually still struggle a lot with connecting with people you dumbass
>>83672521relax dale
>>83672546My name is Lauren
>>83672521im gonna say that i kind of agree. i can't really tolerate being around people for very long, they exhaust me by sheer virtue of having to talk with them. having trouble with finding words, i have to overexert myself to simply keep up in conversation, and this sort of conditions me to be tenser and unrelaxed around others since i always have to be prepared to exert energy to talk with them.
What could this all mean though?
>>83672365>when people say that they are introverted they didn't meet the right people yet or haven't socialized enoughWhen people say introverts just need to "socialize right", they're outing themselves as an extrovert. Since you are an extrovert on /r9k/ you are considered a failed normie.
