I think about leaving my girlfriend of 5 years constantly. No real reason. She is loyal and lets me have sex whenever and she is pretty and skinny. She can be a bitch but she never shit tests me or makes me insecure. But im just bored and dont feel like being with only her forever. Whats up with this?
>>83673304You are a BPDemon, originally
>>83673304>>83673386Not OP but felt like him in a relationship of 7 years.Eventually I did bit the bullet and dumped her. Turns out we were both fucked up. She was the BPDemon and I was actually craving men.
>>83673304you have no obligation to stay with her, if you are bored and think that you will feel this way indefinitely then just leave
>>83673405>She was the BPDemon and I was actually craving menI actually lol'd at this. Thanks anon.
isn't it the excellent Kant that says deliberation is the mark of human dignity? you're probably trying to re-humanize as a single self-sustaining unit after being coupled for so long
>>83673447yeah leave then troon out like the others eheheheh
>>83673447there's no obligation, but if a guy wrecks a stable relationship only to go looking for a girl just right after then it's just silly
>>83673495not at all, humans are designed to lose interest in partners after a period of time, love is a fleeting thing, there is literally no reason for him to stay in a relationship if he is unhappy
>>83673448I realize it's funny. I sometimes still joke with my bf about it.But that's how it went. A few months after I left her she had a massive psychosis crisis just like I warned her parents that it will happen. She spent months in a closed ward and BPD was just one of the diagnoses.She, and her parents, eventually forgave me after hating me for years because I coupled with my bf. But she still takes pills and is not in a great shape mentally or socially.I literally dodged a bullet.
>>83673304I feel you OPOnly had minor issues with gf (7 years), but developed a massive crush on coworker about 4 months ago. Feels like hell and idk what to do.
>>83673511Marriage and lifelong partnership has been a staple of civilization and 99% of cultures for centuries
>>83673735thats great anon, that doesnt mean they retain the same level of love for each other, you will always love what is new the most
>>83673741Ridiculous. For a healthy adult, the bond you grow over time is irreplaceable. The thought of starting over or losing contact with someone youve been intimate with for 10+ years would mortify the average married person.
>>83674162the average married person is divorced lol, the bond you are describing does of course exist but it is loyalty, carnal desire rules over all humans and we are designed to find as many mates as possible
>>83673304you're foid brained. kys
>>83674185The opposite in every way. Men cheat way more. Men lust way more. Men have dont have to go through pregnancy and arent attached to their kids the same way. Men are designed to be disloyal.
>>83673690Let me guess she just turned 18
>>83673690well. imagine your gf experienced your situation. would you want her tell you/leave you?
>>83674182>we are designed to find as many mates as possibleThat's exactly the opposite of how we are designed. Do you think lying will make your past betrayals OK? Lying is wrong too. Do you think committing enough evil acts it will roll over to zero?
>>83673735Up until 100 years ago you were lucky if you made it to 50Imagine staying with the same roastie for 60+ years, LMAO.
>>83673304>5 yearsif you're not married after 2 years just break up. shit or get off the pot nigga, stop wasting people's time.>inb4 muh I don't believe in marriageshut the fuck up.>inb4 muh she doesn't want to get marriedshe does, just not to you.
>>83673304you are a subhuman nigger and you should kill yourself
>>83675153>>83675063T. retarded wifeguy simps
>>83673304Don't feel bad, most women nowadays are boring and if you're not happy it means she's already disconnected from the relationship and you can instinctively tell even tho the exterior seems okay.It's your guts screaming LEAVE NOW.The girl of your life will NEVER feel boring.This is a warning sign.If you don't leave her, she WILL dump you very soon and it happens very fast. She will cheat on you.It's always best to dump her than to get dumped.Do it quickly. No remorse.
>>83673304Just cheat on her then, why would you leave her? It's way better to have regular ass on tap while you're getting your hookups in. You don't live together, right?
>>83674764>Up until 100 years ago you were lucky if you made it to 50That is a misconception. Most people lived past 50, it's just that the high death rate for those below 5 brought the life expectancy down. Once you got to age 6, your chance of death was much lower
>>83675343To be honest I dont think she would ever leave me. Thats why im struggling with this. I trust her in a way i will probably never trust another girl but for some reason I just feel bored and like my life is over being settled down like this
Normies are like "I'm so bored of food" to starving anons just to hurt them. I hope she accuses you of rape and ruins your fucking life you cunt.
>>83676102Funny thing is I was fully an incel before all of this. Was a kissless virgin at 22 before we met, im 27 now.
>>83673405Thanks for telling us you are a faggot, faggot
