hypothetically would you want to date a girl who has a body count of 1 from a past long-term relationship, but knowing she left said relationship because she got an intense crush/oneitis on someone else? (despite that, she chose to never pursue that crush or get close to the crush mainly because of her insecurities + not wanting to feel like a thot. but, she's still not sure if she's 100% over said crush)basically, would you consider this as worse than someone who has had hookups or higher body count ?
>>83674045nope, because if you got an intense crush on someone else while in a relationship then you'll do the same to meyou fucking whorei'd rather date a girl with a body count of 3 but honest
Nobody actually cares about bodycount. This entire board would line up to date you in a heartbeat if allowed.
>>83674045no i will date an asocial virgin instead
>>83674045>girl who has a body count of 1You harlot
>>83674045why dont you go date your crush now that you left the relationship? women make no sense
>>83674066Entire board includes me and I would not. Deboonked
>>83674097this board makes no sense, everyone considers women who do that sort of thing bad people usually . And I guess I am a bad person since I got a crush while in a relationship, but at least I left + didn't pursue the other guy out of respect for myself and ex. but now i'm finding myself wondering, can i ever date again? because i still have a remnant of that crush i think, basically not fully 100% over it despite choosing to never pursue it .I also never imagined I'd have normie issues like this because I used to use this board kinda actively, as an adult khhv. but I became a normoid since then it seems like
>>83674045>body countnot my problem, don't care, cumming in your ass
>>83674045depends. Anything wrong with the original relationship?? or did you just decide you liked the other guy better?if you just randomly decided your bf wasn't attractive enough for you one day, then NO.Fucking NEVER.why? because the same shit could happen to me.
>>83674137pursue your crush. you're single. have fun, enjoy easy mode life.
>>83674097>>83674137No he's right and you're retarded go pursue the crush. If he rejects you then you consider trying to date other people afterwards. You did the right thing by leaving the first relationship instead of cheating on the guy and lying. Now you're unsure if you're over the crush or not in consideration to dating someone new. So go try to date the crush and find out for certain if you're over him before you waste another guys time like the first man. Women are so dumb with this shit it's like your brains are incapable of consistency and linear decision making. If you were really over the crush you wouldn't even be thinking about this.
>>83674177a man might do that, but pursuing the friend of an ex partner is evil. if you get a crush you can at least make the choice to leave and give your partner a chance to find someone who loves them more, but an ex pursuing a friend of yours suddenly would truly destroy almost anyone's self-esteem. and causing that is evil imo.
>>83674045no that's soulless cheating behaviour. do you shave? did you do anal? did you swallow cum and piss? did you cum quick? how often did u fuck? how kinky are you? did he eat you out?
>>83674220You didn't say it was your ex's friend. Then ya you're typical female that wanted to monkey branch to men around you but you stopped yourself. Well done now forget about it and go meet new people then. Eventually you'll forget about the crush you just need to put time on it.
>>83674220you are single. its fair game. go for it. its your ex and your ex's friends responsibility to manage their own friendship and feelings towards each other, not you.
>>83674158fair concern, anon.let's just say it was the first relationship and she made a mistake by deciding to ignore or didn't think too much about the fact that she didn't find the original boyfriend sexually attractive thanks to his weight (but found him aesthetically attractive despite that). the lack of sexual attraction wasn't noticeable at first because she lacked experience interacting with guys *at all*. because it was a very happy relationship with shared views, opinions, and obscure interests and everything, she thought she could ignore or get over the lack of sexual attraction with time.but that was all fixable before the spontaneous crush-oneitis situation basically. i just think that if one gets a serious crush while in a relationship, and it lasts for a while, you 100% should leave or at least tell the partner (which is basically the same thing since telling someone you have a crush on their friend i think would lead to a breakup anyway).
>>83674244yeah to be fair i did not mention that, i forgot and thought i put it in the op. but i guess it makes "sense" it wasn't a random because i never had contact with any other men really .>>83674252i don't think it's fair game but i guess i agree to disagree. to me it's "merely" immoral/bad to get a crush while in a relationship, but it's purposely fully evil to pursue that if it's an ex's friend.
>>83674241never stop posting brothis shit always makes me laugh
>>83674261wow sounds like my last relationship. She was very into me at first, but just slowly got less attracted as she realized I wasn't ideal. Lmao she was fatter than me too, I'm just not fit, and I'm not tall.Yeah, no, I wouldn't date you because that sounds like my ex and I would take my anger out on you that should be directed at my ex.
>>83674291its only purposefully evil if you do it with the intent of hurting someone. you are doing it because those are your feelings. you are allowed to have feelings.
>>83674314yeah i understand, sounds like the worst possible match honestly. i am skinny so it wasn't that kind of unfair accusation in my case but i just didn't know what i was even into at that point yet really, and also thought i could just get over it eventually. and everything would be happy.
