>>83676777
No because joining servers is for retarded faggots

>>83676777
i had my own discord and there was this one guy who made zero attempt to fit in and i didn't like him at all, i was also in a discord where i was an oldcunt and didn't fit in but i wasn't being contrarian or anything. why would you join a curated space if you're not gonna conform anyway?

>>83676783
Even to our standards the average troon on there is a 30 something whose trying to make up for their shit childhood

>>83676777
im not active in public servers at all really
just a few bigger ones relevant to some games i like and am kinda autistic about
i mostly just type in friendcords

>>83676793
>why would you join a curated space if you're not gonna conform anyway?
Sometimes in order to "fit in" you basically have to suck off the mods until they give you a role or some shit like that. Or you'll get othered/isolated

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>>83676777
i was quite disappointed by this too
i actually thought using discord servers could have been fun but everyone in them is trying to be snarky cunts so i gave up quick, haven't tried again in some time
not even a bit of fun at all

>>83676817
a couple of months ago someone made a thread complaining about dating discords and i was convinced it couldn't be that bad so i asked for an invite, and it was that bad. it was mostly youngbluds though

>>83676832
>dating on discord
lol lmao even
must be a giant pile of catfish dogshit, especially if it's just randoms you meet in those

>not not kitten daddy is playing minecraft

>>83676838
they had age groups channels and tags and there was only 2 people in the 30+ channel... it was kind of sad actually, i also did my best to force myself into their conversations by replying to people who seemed the most open but they just refused to let me join in. i know my initial post was kind of contradictory but i think trying to seriously join a large discord is just doomed to fail for a lot of people

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>>83676822
>everyone in them is trying to be snarky cunts
Especially if there's a lot of chicks with the mod role. They become untouchable. Say ONE thing and you're gone

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>>83676817
>>83676847
>joining in
You have to give up your identity for whatever shit pfps they like, talk like them etc. They're worse than reddit cucks when it comes to this crap.

>>83676847
i met a former girlfriend by being extremely autistic at a video game through discord but that's a big outlier i think
was a ldr thing that became in person but didn't last much longer than a year

>>83676832
kek there's like two actual girls willing to date anyone on those shit servers and a thousand whores wanting money off simps

If I go into shitcord servers and act like a fucking freak do you think random girls will add me and try to date me? I can be really fucking weird to an extreme degree.

>>83676880
really doubt it bro
origami

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>>83676777
>join server from /soc/
>chat is going crazy and it seems like there are 5 conversations going on at once
>whatever this is stupid
>leave
>2 months later my discord account gets restricted for two weeks because the server got banned even though I wasn't in it at that point
yeah never again, don't join random discord servers

>>83676793
I always wanted to make my own server and not run it like a spastic control freak loser. Any advice on how to get them popular?

>>83676891
>how to get them popular
by having friends to invite, im in a few like that
if you just invite random people from the internet some schizo is going to start spamming shit if you have no rules

man they told me it'd be easy to find discord egirls
sigh

>>83676883
Does being really fucking weird ever work to get girls? I'm memorable. They'll think of me when they're alone at night. Right?

>>83676864
aside from my og friend group i have spent very little time on the app i guess
>>83676866
i have zero expectations to meet women on places like discord or reddit but i think it's kind of normal
>>83676877
a discord just for dating is more like larping a reality show...

>>83676902
>hey do you remember that one really weird guy that did that weird thing
>yeah, what the fuck
and you are forgotten again
people are desensitized as fuck man

>>83676891
the one i ran had like 4 people in it, so no advice. i prefer a comfy server with dedicated users than 100 fairweather friends though. ask haruka (the og owner of the reiko origin discord) if he still posts here

>>83676777
This is actually all very normal if you stop being a retard and remember that no one owes you anything. Discord severs are just friend groups with a rotating cast of retarda. People like the friends, people dont know you.
Also retards that come here to complain about their discord should get IP banned for being gay and annoying

>>83676906
>that did that weird thing
All those weird things. You have no idea how long I can be weird for. I live it, I breathe it. What if one thinks I'm funny? I have made girls laugh in the past. Were they just nervous?

>>83676917
>Were they just nervous?
probably
have you tried just being normal

>>83676917
People want a funny guy, not a clown. If you aren't sure which one you are that means you are a clown. Or not even funny just embarrassing

Why TF would you want to use discord anyway? Just to chitchat with trannies and weirdoes? Meet people in RL, not this beta shit

>>83676920
Being normal is stifling and if she won't accept me at my weirdest then fuck her I don't need her. I was born to be weird. It's the only thing that gets me through the day.

>>83676926
Clowns do it for other people. I do it for me. I don't even pay attention to how people react. I'm a force of nature baby.

>>83676930
contain your power level bro
it's as simple as that
i like all kinds of weird shit, but im not going to just start ranting at normies about my special interests

>>83676927
>beta shit
Lmao

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>>83676915
>This is actually all very normal
Absolutley not. Shitcord gives off "losers who finally felt a taste of power for once in their lives" energy. Imagine getting full on banned or muted if you don't agree full on with trannies in some video game server. Shipping two characters into some weird gay fanfiction for example. And it doesn't have to be a small tight knit server. It could be a massive one with thousands of users. They simply have to know someone with some role to enforce their nonsense. Happens alot with indie games, pre released games. To the point where a lot of devs don't speak there

>>83676939
I don't rant. It's not an autism thing. I make up semi-believable stories and sell it like it's real. Make them less believable as time goes on. I make weird art based on people's profile pics, act like I know new people who come into servers, act like I know old people when I go into new servers. It's so funny to me. No one else likes it but I don't care. I do it for me. Do want a gf from doing it doe.

>>83676958
>average discord user
Literally as bad as trannies

>>83676958
i do similar retarded shit
me and my friends had an entire arc where we made our pfps business guys and wrote elaborate fake business emails to each other

>>83676969
Have pretended to be trans before, attempted to erotically play with people. Didn't go well.
>>83676970
>friends

>>83676956
>Happens alot with indie games, pre released games
yeah this anon knows
i was following this one really small game i played and joined their discord to see better updates, or what they were working on next
they didn't have very strict rules and it was like one or two devs working on the game who were pretty chill and casual
they didn't make it so you couldn't post in their announcement channel so some freak went in there one day and spammed notifications of slurs and gay porn and stuff

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>>83676902
>will turning into a whole lolcow get me pussy
Let's ask chris-chan that question and see how it went kek. The best way to get a date on discord

>Join a fuck ton of servers, /soc/ and chan shit is fine. But try and branch out to normalfag servers, niches that have a lot of female users
>Find the right size servers. not too big not too dead. you'll figure this out by how many people are chatting so you dont become invisible
>Reply and begin convos with any girls that are talking on it. If you don't get outed for being "that guy" you're not trying hard enough.
>Do this about 10 - 20 times a day. Shouldn't take more than 30 minutes tops.
>If the girls reply to you quickly or with decent enthusiasm, It's a good sign that it might be a dm worthy person
>Out of so many of them there's bound to be a few who are bored enough to speak to you, the grand majority of dudes don't have the balls to ask em for a dm. I've asked almost every girl this and i'm usually the first dude who got to befriend them finally
>Make a lot of female friends. Remember this is practice. It's a good way to get used to random people.
>Out of those friends if there's one that really likes speaking to you / is interested in what you say. prioritize her but never get attached
>Eventually it can turn sexual, not cringe dick pics. A lot of the times foids are jacking off to you during normal convos. funnily enough thats what my first gf from this told me
>Don't show face until a few days later. Try and get a voice message out incase it's a tranny
>Have some e-sex and realize what you just did has been done by a random 14 year old prettyboy unintentionally in a day and realize you're here forever
>Leave this shithole and eventually meetup with your new qt discord gf
>Once she leaves your dumbass, repeat these steps.

>>83677001
Does it count as a lolcow if I have no static identity and no one ever connects my thousands of personas back to me? I think not.
>strategy
I do this on 4chan already lel. I've added so many fembots over the years. I always leave them. I'm a bad boy.

>>83677001
seems like a lot of effort
>niches that have a lot of female users
also what niches do they even like

>>83677023
>also what niches do they even like
gay romance novel shit
fujoslop

have fun reading about femgooner fantasies to sniff a fart through a tube

>>83677029
>>83677023
>niches
It's def a bunch of low common denominator crap but nothing like other anon mentioned. You don't need to turn into a full on yaoi fag to speak to them. I don't even remotely mention the shit things their servers are about. Good niches are certain anime characters cunts gravitate towards. Female oriented games (think gacha games, again you don't have to play them, you're just finding women. talk about other things). certain fashions etc.

>>83677039
>talk about fashion with a bunch of troons and betas

>>83677114
I have seen the sexcore threads on /fa/.
You do not want to talk about fashion with pseudo-alphas.

>>83676956
Your mistake is thinking you somehow deserve to speak there just because you're capable of joining. You're not their friend.
Communication infrastructure sprouts like vines from the seed that is an underlying social network of people that want to talk to each other. If you don't vibe with that network, of course you won't feel like you belong there. It's not meant for you.

>don't agree
>shipping two characters
Well now it makes all the sense in the world why people don't like you. There is nothing to "agree" or disagree with. Every work has numerous interpretations, most of which the author would nod his head at.. someone deciding to fork a work for their enjoyment cannot affect you. Even if there were such a thing as a wrong interpretation, there are 8 billion humans out there with wrong opinions and malformed mental models about literally every topic. There is pretty much never a reason to go around correcting people about things that don't matter.

>>83677332
>there are 8 billion humans out there blah blah woke nonsense
>Your mistake is thinking you somehow deserve to speak there just because you're capable of joining. You're not their friend.
You must be exactly the type of person OP is talking about... And I see why you're so hellbent on the premise of this thread being "annoying". Why would someone joining a public space about a video game need to "deserve" to speak? And have that same ability taken away for simply not sharing an opinion. Now I understand why people call you discordians a bunch of losers. You can't handle variety. There have absolutley been cases in where an author or artist gets pressured / taken offline for things that are purley opinioned based. And when you don't have the "right" premesis you become morally scolded. Video games being forced to exclude "pretty women" because its "objectifying" is a perfect example. or the whole fiasco with anime and "dark skinned" characters. Or the assertion and pressure to make a certain character in mha "trans coded". To the point where the author becomes scolded for not making it confirmed. Go on any big video game or anime server and you'll find the same immature attitude

You think thats bad? Bunker troons encrypt their servers to post child pornography. It gets worse and worse and they function like secret societies when you gain enough of their trust.

>>83677729
Telegram 2019 all over again. sad

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>>83677690
>>83676956
You retards missed what he's trying to say.
>>83677332
Absolutley valid and the most correct opinion on here. When in rome as they say. If you're goal is to fit in and be a normie. You can't think of yourself as that one special fag whose here to "blackpill" everyone. You come off as outlandish and autistic. You're there to befriend people not awaken them with your sperg nonsense.

>Does anyone else get this experience?
No, I don't really join public discords and when I do, it's just for some videogame-related thing where I just get some information and don't post much.
That said, I feel like behind every one of these "bro I said something innocent and the mods banned me" posts, there's always an out of control /pol/ sperg.
Despite being relatively insular, I still met plenty of those. They always think it's someone else's fault when they're starting shit or getting flustered about simply being told they're wrong about something 99% of the time.

>>83677690
>>83677332
>>83676956
>>83676915
All I see is retards that are speaking over each other and not listening because you're too busy pointing at your own flaws and not seeing the bigger picture.

Post any semi normal take on black people on here or any of these boards for example. You'd instantly get spammed with death threats, tranny accusations, all sorts of garbage. Same works for discord/twitter/reddit whatever the fuck. These are all containment spaces for people with certain opinions. Go on /a/ or /v/ right now. And pick any thread about a trending game. and see the opinions. I can bet my left nut that it would be the reverse on your mentioned websites. regardless if it's a game or not. A discord "troon" or an alt-right "nazi" could simply like talking about video games. and go to their respected circle to discuss it. while holding their opinions. You think /v/ isn't the same userbase as /pol/?

Discord servers are like highschool lunch tables, the best severs are the ones with less than 10k people active in them

>>83677836
>say you are a leftist without saying it
Nothing prompted at that. Your entire post was meaningless and only another leftist will get what you are saying.

>>83677854
>b-basedddd BASEDDD cuckk cukkk
>n-nAZZiii reddneckkkkk
You fuckers are so defensive and love to label people. on both sides you're obsessed with it and never hear each other.

I never understood those roles things in discord, it feels a meaningless fight. I miss old chat sites, irc and icq were cool. I miss old forums too

>>83677690
>public space
False premise. Just because you are capable of joining doesn't mean the place is selecting for you. Everything else in your post is a strawman or massive generalization, but you know that.
Simply put, rants about da j00s or blacks are just off topic, and no one finds them interesting since. 2015ish
>>woke nonsense
There is literally nothing wrong with shipping. That a few middle schoolers allegedly harass some author or something is irrelevant.

>join discord server
>everyone forces themselves into shitty conversations with the same guy, even though all they do is hate on him and how stupid he comes off
>actually try to be "nice" (who the fuck would actually do that anyway) to said guy
>he ignores you
i'm trying not to rage

>>83676777
I only bother with servers around stuff I am interested in for the most part, which thankfully filters out a lot of the bing bing wahoo slop now. For discussion servers once I am in I just lurk a bit to get the vibe of the place, if I dont like it I leave. Simple as. A lot of servers do suck but thats because of the sheer amount of terminally online retards, so thats gonna be the default anyways.
>>83676891
Just throw invite links wherever and let it grow organically. Most of the servers I am a regular in are just a couple of us who have been shooting the shit with each other for a while. Better to have a few quality people you can chill with than hundreds of randoms fucking it all up for bullshit, but thats just me.

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>>83676777
ive been in a cycle of joining servers and getting banned or boo'd off for 5 years straight. eventually i recognized the insanity of bothering with this platform was a non normgroid and decided to just stop using it