>35>khv no gf ever etc etc>own my own home, completely paid off>own a brand new sensible car, completely paid off>pretty much completely financially stable>nothing but disposable income going into interest earning accounts from this point forward>become incredibly paranoid and worried that if i ever did meet a girl, she'd only be interested in me because of the above, and would effectively use me for free housing/transport/living, especially as everything gets more and more expensive
>>83676983just date a girl who has what you have alreadyhow did you get so far and have such a basic issue?
>>83676988If she had what I had she wouldn't be interested in me. You understand my problem here?
>>83676990no, because you're making it up as you've already decided what to believe and you've clearly furnished an idea of the easiest route to pussy, and what that means for you. again, i don't see how you've made it this far and are struggling with THIS of all things
>>83676998Ok so basically I view myself as worthless and unlovable, and the only positives I have are monetary ones.So the only way for me to attract a woman, is buy using that as leverage, but by doing so I make everything about that, and not about me as a person.
>>83677014>Ok so basically I view myself as worthless and unlovable>society completely accepts you and even rewards you>still can't muster up any self-esteem
>>83677019>society completely accepts you and even rewards you>still can't muster up any self-esteemMoney is easy, meeting girls is hard.
>>83677026money isn't easy, owning a house isn't easy, etc. and if you can do all that you can definitely date a well-adjusted woman. you clearly have no experience so you have no fucking clue how easy it can be.
>>83677041>you clearly have no experience so you have no fucking clue how easy it can be.Correct. Zero experience.
>>83676983Go fuck escorts man.No really.Your mind is twisted you need to demystify sex and women.
>>83677051But I want love, not lust.
>>83676983>she'd only be interested in me because of the above, and would effectively use me for free housing/transport/living, especially as everything gets more and more expensiveJust don't tell her how much wealth you have accumulated. Without insight, she cannot tell.
>>83677058this is a troll thread right? you already have the girl and just want to see what people would say to you right?
>>83677063No, I'm alone, and always have been.
>>83677058How can you be in your mid thirties and still believe the love meme?
>>83677082Probably because I've never experienced it?
>>83677084That's exactly my point famalam. It doesn't exist. Ffs I came to this conclusion more then two decades ago.
>>83677071probably because you think it's this arduous task when really it's the exact same formula that brought you career success
>>83677058You have no experience and twisted theoretical expectations. Things in practice aren't exactly what you expect, some things like you think, some are completely off. Do this thing and reevaluate your desires after. You may not believe but this is how it is.Another argument just for theoretical mind. Considering your age it is very needed for you to have experience. Many girls would be off putted by your virginity at such age, that is not normal, and girls are suckers for normalcy. And this WOULD be showing. So even if luck would be on your side and woman lands on your lap you may fail this chance because your aren't prepared.So chop chop, go fuck girls. If it's dangerous thing in your country do sex tourism trips to places where it isn't.Another argument jaur
>>83676983are you super ugly or socially retarded opwhat's the catch heresince you're just piling up money i assume you do nothing but work and jerk off
>>83676983I don't know what you're working with, physicallybut I'd suggest practicing the routines necessary to make yourself as attractive as possible and approach women with a "take it or leave it" attitude (internally) - which is not to say you are sparing with listening or affectionBe prepared to cheat, avoid, evade and skirt every non-critical expense to the life/family you want to create. And have a non-negational prenup already prepared.Good luck.
>>83677041Both of those things are orders of magnitude easier than even making a female friend, much less getting a girlfriend. I miss when /r9k/ actually had real robots who understood this life, you normalfags really don't get it
>>83677278if you own a house and have a good job, you're the fucking normalcunt. put. in. the. work.
>>83677293that's not even what normalfag means. none of you newfags even remember what the terms we use originally meant back then. I doubt you even know the meaning behind the word robot
>>83677293Normalfag = you have a gf/wifeSimple as
>>83677307you're desperate to be a fucking normcunt then, do you not see the irony? just leave the board
>>83677312Who said I was the one asking for either of those you fucking dipshit
>>83677317I mean OP, not his "robot" defense force who is only replying because they're normalcunts with cushy jobs too
I'm sorry. At 35 all the non-insane women are either married or about to get married, and if you were good looking enough to get a 20 year old GF you would not be in this situation so you're clearly ugly. I'm not saying its impossible for you, in fact it's the opposite, but if you do get a GF, she will destroy your personal finances. It happened to me. She moved herself into my home after 3 months and by the 5th month my monthly expenses were roughly equal to 115% of my monthly income. My savings were wiped out in less than a year. The average woman is terrible with money, has no savings, NEEDS to go out at least 7x a week, NEEDS vacations abroad 3 times a year, NEEDS a new wardrobe every month, and a lot of other things. Also they have no hobbies, no interests beyond scrolling through ads on instagram and tik tok and watching the latest netflix movie that their favorite instagram "influencer" recommended (which they watch while scrolling through ads on instagram, without paying any attention to the story) they have no career, no long term plans, nothing. They're a waste of space and money. OBVIOUSLY not all women are like this but like I said earlier, at 35, all the women available to you are.
>>83677325Yeah OP is an annoying wannabe normalfag
>>83677278It depends who you are, your looks, starting positions. Misery othen goes hand to hand. Incels are also socially stunted and this sabotages their careers and income, many such cases. But yeah modern world has opportunity for social stunted to make money.
>>83677350>But yeah modern world has opportunity for social stunted to make money.Exactly, it just requires that you're a nerd who sits inside learning. Most normalfags are really stupid so you can provide value to them by knowing how to do technical things. This in no way translates into being able to get a girlfriend.
>>83677362Gilmartin in his book observed that incels heavily underperform in income relatively to their school scores and high education scores (less for high education they start to fall behind there). Lack of social skills fucks them on promotions and ability negotiate wages. They aslo othen do a mistake by going into social related and/or female dominated career to get more access to female company, nothing good comes out of it.His advice for incels is going STEM and set moderate, practical and achievable career goals. At least get their income covered.It feels somewhat counterintuitive, "don't you need exposure to social interaction to learn it?" But his opinion stunted socially incels going for social job just ruin their job prospects too.
>>83677396Modern times coding and computer related science is God's gift for incels, unfortunately today this area became oversaturated and enshitificated.
