I was like this until 26. A decade later I've been with 2 girls. The first almost killed me. The 2nd was OK but, obviously, didn't work out. Now I'm getting to the age range where I'm scared I am becoming too old for women still capable of having children.

>>83678679
>Now I'm getting to the age range where I'm scared I am becoming too old for women still capable of having children.
This is the real fear

>>83678486
Lol it ain't so bad.
I finally managed to tick all the boxes at the ripe age of 29 and the girl still left me a week later.
After that it's been hit and miss with women, the worst part is that not a single one wants to stick around.
Right now 33 and back I just shifted my focus away from the chase and going to earn some money and do things that are meaningful to me. (fucking girls is not a meaningful endeavor)

No one is gonna pity fuck you. You want so bad to have your "never give up" moment. stfu and suffer in silence you pathetic pos.

>>83678486
not sure why you'd be having trouble, half the board has virgin gfs.

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>>83678679
>>83678704
I know it's not that bad but I'm just starting my life now at 24 it feels like. I'm gonna finally take my road test and start college but I feel like I'm behind most people my age. I'm scared I'm never going to be able to have sex and find love. Debating just going full waifu route and giving up on real women

>>83678719
I want to tell you to focus on study and forget about being a virgin but I know, from experience, that it's very difficult. Just remember that there is no 'right way' when it comes to life, there's love to experience even when you are older. I met a girl when I was 32 and at that point I didn't even care that I spent my 20's in isolation.
If you really want to be better socially, you better invest time and energy into hobbies and activities that support that, or maybe find interests that you can share with people, it's the easiest way if you are struggling on a social level.
I did this with art, signed up for drawing and painting activities, I was present as much as possible, people start to recognize you, you make friends, maybe even a girl takes a fancy to you.

But most importantly, focus on your OWN goals, I cannot stress this enough. If you walk around campus like a hungry dog, hungry for pussy, people pick up on that quickly and you will be on the same path as I was.

>>83678719
I feel like I'm just starting my life now. I've had jobs for years but repeated financial and sector-specific crises plus 0 government assistance during joblessness means I was penniless 2 years ago. I had a driver's license but basically never used it, and I had to move to a foreign country I don't speak the language of just to avoid homelessness, which is a death sentence where I was. As a result, I have to retake driving classes and the test as if I were a local 16 year old.
Today I am paid more than I ever earned in my life, just got a mortgage on an apartment, and even keep in touch with ex-colleagues (it's been a rocky road even with all this and I walked straight into major reorgs at the first job I got to escape hitting the street). This is the most social I've been in my entire life. Maybe one or a few of them will even become friends with me, which would be my first friend in this life.
Luck with women has not changed, but I actually feel alive now. I am 10 years older than you, so you're alright.

But you're right to be worried. People who say otherwise must be normalfags. What I mean is, if you keep doing what you're doing, there is a legitimate chance (as opposed to feelgood "noooo don't kill urself u hav so much 2 liv 4" bullshit normalfags spout).

>>83678486
>I'm scared I'll never get pussy and die alone
Go fuck an escort if this matters so much to you. As for dying alone, the vast majority of us die alone. Too many people have been deluded by movies showing oldfags dying surrounded by family and grandkids. That's not reality.
>>83678719
>I'm scared I'm never going to be able to have sex and find love.
Just 5yr ago at 26 I was unemployed and failing college, now I have a STEM degree and a good job and no debt. Don't worry about 'falling behind', we all move at our own pace. Prioritize your education and get money, because that will buy you almost everything. Stop giving a shit about what others your age are doing, because it doesn't matter and doesn't affect your life at all.
>>83678679
>>83678696
You guys should talk to men who are parents. Being a parent is extremely difficult and demanding and it will make you poor and you'll age like shit from the stress and lack of sleep. And your wife will not be the same after pregnancy and she won't want to fuck you anymore. It's pretty much a life-destroying decision based entirely on emotions and no rationality.

>>83678783
I have talked to men who are parents. Nearly everyone at my workplace is a parent, mix of women and men. Not only do they all love every minute of it (0 exception) the other day the father of twins (about 1 year olds) just announced he got a new pair of twins on the way. They just keep pumping out kids all around me.
Absolutely none of them have their life destroyed, instead they're glowing everytime a new baby is born. Clearly since they keep having babies, they keep having sex.

You have severe personal problems to work through.

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>>83678771
>f you really want to be better socially, you better invest time and energy into hobbies and activities that support that, or maybe find interests that you can share with people, it's the easiest way if you are struggling on a social level.
I did this with art, signed up for drawing and painting activities, I was present as much as possible, people start to recognize you, you make friends, maybe even a girl takes a fancy to you.
Good advice. I'm gonna try to join some clubs when in college. I also like cosplaying if that matters. Talked to a few girls in the past bc of it.
>>83678777
I'm happy for you anon. Seems like you are in a good place now.
>>83678783
>Just 5yr ago at 26 I was unemployed and failing college, now I have a STEM degree and a good job and no debt. Don't worry about 'falling behind', we all move at our own pace. Prioritize your education and get money, because that will buy you almost everything. Stop giving a shit about what others your age are doing, because it doesn't matter and doesn't affect your life at all.
Thanks anon. That's really good advice. You're right I should only worry about what I'M doing. I'm going to succeed at my own pace
>Go fuck an escort if this matters so much to you. As for dying alone, the vast majority of us die alone. Too many people have been deluded by movies showing oldfags dying surrounded by family and grandkids. That's not reality.
Honestly I have a naked bodypillow of my waifu and I'd rather keep hugging that then hire a whore.

I need to go to work soon anons. Made this as a vent thread expecting 0 replies or people just calling me a faggot but all of you were nice. Probably won't reply anymore. Thanks robots

>>83678810
Do your coworkers make like $300k a year? Mine don't and I hear them every day complaining about nagging wives, cost of living, debt, kids getting sick, kids being annoying. Sure they go "I regret nothing" but it's pure cope.
Me and them make the same wage. They're looking at being wageslaves till their 60s while I'm looking at quitting the rat race in my early 40s.
>You have severe personal problems to work through.
No, I just don't want debt and poverty and not being able to go home after 8h of work to relaxation.

>>83678822
No. They make between average and 1 std above average for the city we're in.
You have problems and you should work on them. Go talk to a psychologist or something. Your delusions are really unhealthy.

>>83678821
>Thanks anon. That's really good advice. You're right I should only worry about what I'M doing. I'm going to succeed at my own pace
I am >>83678679
and I strongly recommend against this. I lived my life that way. My entire career (I went all the way to PhD and I had a few years of work experience including at a top-5 company in my field) vanished overnight. I managed to move to something adjacent but it's terrible and nothing at all like I studied for and worked for professionally. Moreover since my background is adjacent, I get fucked over in the workplace.
If I didn't focus on studies and career, I truly believe I would have had a much better time. First off, I would have stopped after graduating. Second, I would have lived with my parents as a NEET as the job market was dead when I entered academia. This would have been bliss. As the job market slowly recovered, I could have had a no responsibility job making MORE than I earn today while also being in a way more secure role that doesn't risk being chopped any day now.

In conclusion, I very strongly encourage you to not make my mistake and instead to do whatever is fun to you. You will NEVER recover the time you lose on optimizing for education or career. You will ALWAYS remember the times you goofed around and had a good time. You better believe I don't think about my school days in any way but disappointment. But I still long to the days I was a kid playing videogames all summer.

>>83678679
You are a virgin though. Larp

>>83679173
No. But I wish I was. I genuinely feel horrible about having had sex with women who didn't actually love me.
On the flipside of course I learned a hell of a lot (particularly how unbelievably right 90% of what /r9k/ says about women actually is).

>>83678821
It also helps if you do away with your cartoon porn addiction.

>>83678486
>>tfw I will never have a girl tease me about being inexperienced because it's not cute when a guy is 24 and clueless
it's not impossible
i lost my virginity to a 27 year old when i was 23, she was a friend of a friend that fell for me and i fell for her
being friends to lovers, she already knew a lot about my past, we had bonded a lot over shared trauma
so she didn't view my lack of experienced as weird or a red flag, she was understanding of my circumstances
instead she saw it as an opportunity to do something special for me, and was honestly excited to be the one to take my virginity
once she had, she went from playfully teasing me about my lack of experience to teasing me about taking more of my firsts
just gotta find someone you can be comfortable with, someone you actually want to be in a relationship with, not just someone you want to fuck

>>83678706
women will treat some random loner this way but if some somalian child rapist wants to have 10 kids wth his 5 wives they would fight to be one of them

never forget that