does love bombing works? i just want a girlfriend.i guess it's working for me, but i want to read your experiences.
>>83680039if you think love bombing is a good strategy, wait until you learn about future faking
>>83680055I've done that to girls by accident just because I've really liked them.
>>83680055how do i do that with someone whom i'm still friends with? just wondering
>>83680039>>83680055None of you retards know what love bombing is. You think it's when you go in the letter thread and schizo bait by posting "MEGAN, I LOVE YOU. SINCERELY, JOHN".
>>83680098>MEGAN, I LOVE YOU. SINCERELY, JOHNkek
>>83680039It "works" to manipulate someone who's unprepared but not really to create a functional relationship.
>>83680098cum on me Ferguson
>>83680039If you know you're lovebombing, no it's not gonna work. You can be lovey-dovey, but if you're carrying cynicism and narcissism in your heart, then it'll be felt in the love you give out. I don't think your narcissistic or cynical at heart though, I think you're desperate, but you shouldn't be. Nothing wrong with blooming late.
>>83680150>If you know you're lovebombing, no it's not gonna workWell he may not have the innate instinct to do it but he can always train himself until it burns in and becomes second nature, don't be such a debbie downer. Everyone can be manipulative asshole with enough time and dedication.
>>83680175Ohh, yeah. If you want to be manipulative - of course, that's something you can do. Something everyone does to some extent. But I assumed OP meant he wanted to fake it until he made by using lovebombing. You can fake love and get fake love, but you can't get real love with just fake love. It takes two to tango.
>>83680039It works on BPD girls but it has to be genuine also you will get hurt you have to be a true simp
>>83680131>>83680150i honestly fell in love and say stupid stuff all the time but she always says she feels the same and such.most women would find it annoying or creepy, but it's somehow working this time.perhaps she's just very sweet but i'll keep going
i feel like an old man on the internet and you young'uns are on such adventures. you're all running around, gas-lighting this and love-bombing that.
>>83680219>BPD girlsThey're the ones who love-bomb you. Whether you love bomb them or treat them callously hardly matters once they've locked onto you, they'll always complain and feel unloved no matter what because they're insatiable black holes.
>>83680305>They're the ones who love-bomb you. Whether you love bomb them or treat them callously hardly matters once they've locked onto you, they'll always complain and feel unloved no matter what because they're insatiable black holes.You're supposed to feed the black hole also BPD girls do not work like that whatsoever if you don't know what you're doing
>>83680276>Gaslight this, Lovebomb that>How about you Gaslight a Lovebomb in a government building?
>>83680324BPD is characterized by an intense fear of abandonment and severe emotional dysregulation. You can't "feed" the black hole because the fear of abandonment precedes whatever justification comes next, and the emotional dysregulation sets up shifting goalposts for perceived slights because once again the feeling that something is wrong comes first and the justification comes later.
>>83680039No it doesn't, it's retarded discord/online relationship crap
>>83680039It's some bpdemon shit.Most people who aren't completely retarded won't fall for it.Same energy as weird simp faggots.Imagine some random girl just starts sending you walls of text that she loves you but there's no substance behind it no meaning. Like having a chat bot spam you. >Inb4 some sad loser is like "God I wish that were me."
>>83680219>>83680305>>83680345i want a BPD girl so much it's unreal
>>83680228A girl did me like this too online and I fucking loved it. Like I was LITERALLY rolling on the floor grabbing my chest at her every message. She literally had me wrapped around her finger. Really it could have been a man for all I knew.I did NOT return the favor since I an inept at showing affection that isn't genuine. But oh well I enjoyed it.
>>83680391the woman I'm talking to seems to just want love in generalshe's extremely kind, and I'm being extremely kind toowe've been talking for less than a week, but I already feel a strong connection
>>83680469No you don't lol that shit lasts for like a month and then you get blocked
>>83680631Okay, if it's been a week you're in this thing called the honeymoon phase lil bro.Just be genuine with them.Have some self criticism, is this love you're feeling or just excitement and joy.
>>83680055>future fakingFoids do this to me all the time, never knew it had a name.
