Starting to realize my parents aren't emotionally mature whatsoever and that spending my entire adult life with them thus far has irreparably damaged my psyche.
>>83681040nobody is forcing you to stay with your parents. you are meant to break the emotional bond at some point, thats what becoming an adult is all about
>>83681075They sold my car and took all my savings.
>>83681040I can never be a parent cuz of thisI will always be a manchildIf my son asks me what to do if he likes a girl I would have no idea what to say
>>83681093sounds like a bunch of assholes. you dont owe them anything, and how can they even take your savings and sell assets that YOU own without your consent?
>>83681040>blaming your parents for you being a faggot loser who still hasn't moved out yetbravo anon bravo, however have you considered not being a faggot loser and moving out?>>83681093no you LET THEM sell your car and take all your savings. they don't just magically have access to all these things.
>>83681155not OP but the people you should trust the most are you parentsyoure a weird american individualist for thinking you should be weary of the people who raised you 18, or more, years
>>83681173you're supposed to be out on your own when you are an adult or your parents will either consciously or subconsciously start to resent you and pull malicious shit like >>83681093 described if you dont
>>83681191I wanted to move out but they guilt tripped me until I psyched myself out of it. Call me a loser faggot or whatever, that's the mistake I made and I am pretty much stuck now.
>>83681173should've could've would've. there are people whose parents literally abandoned on the side of the road or some shit. in a perfect world what you're saying is true yes but that isn't the case.let's be real, i'm pretty sure op's parents didn't magically have access to sell his shit or steal his savings. more importantly, i'm pretty sure they didn't just do this out of the blue. i imagine they've been steadily pushing boundaries this entire time...that's how actual abuse people work. they slowly push boundaries to see just how far they can go and what exactly they can get away with. if them ramping up like this wasn't a good enough sign for him to move the fuck out, then them selling your car should've been....but then you still didn't move out...and then they took your savings...or vice versa point is the signs were there and op did nothing. you deserve it you're going to be a fat loser like this.and that's just us pretending that op is the right. for all we know he can be a faggot neet loser living off his savings and not contributing to the household at all, like majority of the niggers on this board. but that's an entirely different conversation. for the sake of argument i choose to pretend like that isn't the case for op when i know it probably is.
>>83681224at least you have the self awareness to realize this is partially your fault. not stop being a faggot and move out. otherwise continue to be at the mercy of your parents.
>>83681224NTA that called you that, and i dont blame you either, but you should honestly stop giving a shit about what your parents are saying when it comes to stuff like this. its hard to put your foot down the first time, but its still necessary to do at some point. obviously your not stuck, but you should probably try to move out as quick as possible because your parents sound like they are actively holding you back for whatever reason
>>83681191for most of history 3 or 4 generations would share a householdand seeing where things are going we may return to that very soon
>>83681093Don't you have a bank account?
>>83681274it will never return to that unless you're some turd worlder with no resources. in the west it has been customary to move out and start a life of your own when you reach adulthood at least since the industrial revolution and it will stay that way
>>83681040Get a job. Start saving.
