Women are the same worldwide, they want someone tall and handsome. That applies doubly so for a non-Japanese man because no Japanese woman wants to be seen with a gaijin. It's social suicide (unless it's Chad.) Also, cheating is commonplace among Japanese women, so she will be back blown out by Chad even if you get one.

>>83684341
>what happened
My Japanese was bad.
Her English was bad.
We both were improving far too slowly for communication to work out.
Eventually she found someone local and a few months later I found someone local.

Communication is essential for a relationship to work, ESPECIALLY when it's primarily online/long distance.
So my advice is ether try to get good at the language first or go for westernized Japs who already know your language.

i assume she'll flake

I'm literally fluent in Japanese, it doesn't matter. Jap girls don't want me (except for a couple single moms I talked to, but that's everywhere) I'm not Chad, too med looking, not quite white passing enough and they prefer caucasian whites from meme countries like Sweden and Australia. I'm from muttmerica so only girls from poor countries like Brazil and the Philippines want anything to do with me. Nothing against them but I just haven't been able to find a weeb who likes me, only kpop thots.