>finally gather the courage to talk with the girl I like >nervous af>manage to say to her that I like her and find her cute and beautiful, like her style>she says she's fine now, not looking to date>I said ok, can we just talk and know each other>she asked for my contact number>I gave it to her>she never sent a message>been one week already Why? I don't look creepy, I look normal, me and her look kinda the same vibe, we're always minding our own business, alone and quiet,what I did wrongly. I keep thinking about how many times I could've done it right. I'm going insane. Why not just chat on the phone? Can't hurt anyone. What am I supposed to do ? I don't want to force her to talk or like me. Why does it have to be so difficult.
>>83684843The only thing you can do is to stop interacting with her. You're looking for a way out of that option right now but it does not exist. You can't fix this. I'm sorry.
>>83684843>me and her look kinda the sameThat's the issue, thinking women aren't hypergamous, all I can say is she won't talk to you, but if I were in the same situation, I'd still be hoping for just a chance, but there isn't one, there won't be one. Try to find another female
>>83684843Why would she send you a message?It's you who likes her, not her that likes you. Just try out your luck, "Hey there, how have you been?" is plenty. If it works nice, if it doesn't, that's just how things go, at least you tried. But as a piece of advice from someone who went through this before you: don't be so stuck up on 1 person. Life works in a strange way, I had multiple girls who I thought of as "my future wife", only for our talking stage to last less than 2 weeks. Somehow the person that will match you the best will usually pop out of nowhere. I'm saying this from experience. My ex was a girl I thought was too hot to even message, yet she messaged me first. And my current girlfriend seemed uninterested at first, but once we started talking we matched like gloves. Be open and keep trying to talk with girls, but don't base your worth on how some bs interaction goes
>>83685155What's wrong with someone wanting to talk with you? If someone wants that, just do it. That's what I don't understand. If someone us being friendly, go on with them. I tried to be friendly and respectful idk what I can do now, it's frustrating.
>>83684843>I keep thinking about how many times I could've done it right>what I did wronglyThis kind of mindset will make you kill yourself when applied to womenYou can do everything perfectly and still lose because she doesn't like the bones in your face or your limb length. Or maybe she's been alpha widowed by a guy significantly better than you in the past and you get absolutely no reaction out of her.Don't overthink it
>>83686294People who know her say we'd be a perfect couple, we're both quiet and on our own worlds. Maybe I just should just leave her alone and don't bother her anymore. Or try at least one last time to talk to her. Maybe be friends at least, and with time it develops. But if she still doesn't show any interest, I'll just give up and move one. I pretty sure she's all alone and somewhat depressed, I just wanted to make her happy and see her smile. I think she also likes animes and games too, idk
>>83684843I'm sorry but she sees you as a backup. she might call if she breaks up with her current bf.
