>be me, a 27 year old fembot with autistic interests and mid looks>find bf who is my age, has even more autistic interests and mid looks also>treats me very nicely but it still bothers me that he has previously had relationships with bpd hoes so he isn't as pure as me who has never had a relationship>sexually attracted to him (i get very horny when we make out) but know i am the better looking one, no romantic feelings yet>have better career prospects than himi am enjoying spending time with him but i don't see myself staying for a long time because i know for a fact i can do better than him so it seems like the right thing to do to break up before he falls in love with me
>>83685995"better" is the sickness, i swear, this is it, the word that eats the world. you'll spend your whole life climbing toward a man who doesn't exist, a face assembled from comparisons, a body made of "not quite" & "almost" & "what if." you can't see what's in front of you because you're too busy measuring it against a ghost. he makes you wet & you're running calculations. he touches you & you're ranking. this is the true disease: the inability to have anything because having requires stopping & you don't know how to stop. you only know how to want the next thing. & the next. & the next. you'll optimize yourself into a grave, still reaching, still comparing, still sure that better is a place you can arrive at instead of a door that opens onto another door onto another door onto a hallway that ends in a mirror showing you exactly what you refused to love when it was standing right there, warm & possible & yours for the taking before you calculated it into nothing.
>>83686096There is a saying: "better is the enemy of good". That is what it refers to.
>>83686096So many words and such eloquence just to say women are neurotic animals who are biologically incapable of ever being content.
>>83685995If you feel like you can do better, then you can do better. Women usually have good intuition when it comes to this. Don't settle, don't cripple your own future by accepting mediocrity.
>>83686150yes never settle, until you settle with cats at 40
>>83685995Define "better"? Are you attracted him or not? That should be the sole criteria for picking a partner if you aren't a shallow parasite.>>83686150>Women usually have good intuition when it comes to this.Elaborate.
>>83686163>le super original incel may mayWomen who settle are SUPER happy, that's why they have dead bedrooms and a 50% divorce rate.
>>83686150>Women have good intuitionThen how do they keep end up dating men they don't like?
>>83686171>Women usually have good intuition when it comes to this.Women know what they can get. If it feels to them as if they're getting a bad deal, then they probably are.
>>83686184Then why do women like you and OP always end up with men you don't like?Have you considered that your entitled attitude and insistence on seeing a relationship as a "deal" is inherently self-sabotaging?
>>83686195I'll take your word for it. I'm sure you have only the best intentions.
>>83686206Very revealing that you don't even attempt to answer the question in good faith.
>>83686114that's not it, her first mistake wasn't wanting better. her first mistake was that she could even imagine better. that's the tell. that's the diagnosis. if you can picture an upgrade, you're not in love, you're in procurement. you're standing in front of a man and seeing a placeholder. you're fucking a draft.when you find him, the real one, "better" becomes a nonsense word. better than what? better how? there's no metric because he's not on a scale. he's a location. he's a specific weather system. you don't compare weather to other weather while you're standing in it. you just get wet.she's measuring him against ghosts? she doesn't like him let alone appreciate him. she loves a shape. and shapes are empty. and she'll chase empty her whole life because she never learned the difference between wanting someone and wanting this one.
>>83686213My position is that every woman deserves the best that she can get, your opinion is that this is self-sabotage, which implies that they deserve less. There is nothing to discuss, you're arguing to increase your perceived value by trying to scare women straight with cat lady memes.
>>83686223seeing relationships as transactional means you're incapable of love and I feel sorry for any man who gets involved with you (and the same goes for men who believe in SMV bullshit)
>>83686223>My position is that every woman deserves the best that she can get, your opinion is that this is self-sabotage, which implies that they deserve less.Hilariously disingenuous. My point is that you shouldn't view relationships in a transactional way and obsess over what you allegedly "deserve" in a partner. That's not how normal, healthy people interact with others, and just guarantees that you'll attract exploitative and abusive people instead (so you're more likely to end up with "less" anyway).
>>83686243"Men who believe in SMV bullshit" do so as a way to model female psychology precisely because of the exchange you are having with the whores in this thread. The goal of this modeling is to predict "what is the likelihood that this bitch going to leave me in search of better"
>>83685995Fake propaganda thread, if this was real the autist would be an incel because women don't love, they sell their body but through some shenanigans pretend its not what it is to not make it seem like what it is, a man working himself to the bone for something she just have with no effort.
>>83686177>Women who settle are SUPER happy,Women are never happyThe only time I've seen girls say they are still obsessed with a guy is hes been violent or emotionally manipulating or cheating. Apparently women love that shit.
>>83685995>instantly starts monkey branchingthis is why you will never be happy
>>83685995The first thing you can do better at is loyalty. You're criticizing his lack of purity but if you don't think he's a good match for you, you're staining your own purity by staying with him noncommittally. Your name behavior acted out by the other women he's been with is why he's not locked down and why you're in his life criticizing him for having failed relationships. If you have it in your head that you're gonna dump him later, then quit wasting his time and dump him now.I swear with your mind set you have to business thinking you're better than anyone.
>>83686177>Women who settle are SUPER happy, that's why they have dead bedrooms and a 50% divorce rateWell, women who end up alone without children are not necessarily happy either. What we can see is that there is a link between low birth rates and an increase in symptoms of depression. Some might argue that this is just a correlation and that it stems from factors other than being single, but that doesn't explain why women with children are less likely to use antidepressants.
>>83686353>Well, women who end up alone without children are not necessarily happy either.They are definitely more happy than women who ended up in marriages that they didn't really want.
>>83685995>he isnt as pure as me, i want to leave him for an abusechad because i feel like im hot and deserve a dark triad werewolf billionaireInstead of shooting yourself in the foot, why not just be happy?
>>83686379The opposite but keep coping until you off yourself at 30 like all the alone girls at that age do. Funny how none of the supposed unhappy marriage girls off themselves though. Hmmm..... almost like they like that quite a bit more.
>>83685995>can do betterkysasap
