what would it take to make you happy?
>>83686461A girl who I can start a family with. Everything else is pointless without that.
Probably need to get my mental illness cleared up. Thats about it.
>>83686461Honestly? Probably nothing can fix this depression.
>>83686461By my estimates, I would only need about 11 million dollars to be able to live comfortably doing whatever I wanted without ever having to work for the rest of my life.So 11 million dollars minimum, that's what it would take to make me truly happy.
We know the answer.
>>83686461>make you happy?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9TwmRKK-Cw
>>83686461dying and being reborn as a woman. Ideally a white woman in a first world country. being a man is too hard and there's no guarantee any of this effort will pay off :(
>>83686467what's so great about having a family? personally, i would never forgive myself if i caused another to live.
>>83686461Avoiding at all costs that my dog has to undergo surgery.Right now this would be what would me the happiest, short term.
>>83686530at all costs? shoot the thing.
>>83686461Dopamine, Serotonin, Endorphins, and Oxytocinthats what it would take
>>83686461300 years of idle living and contemplating to prepare for real life, like some kind of waiting room
I don't even know any more. I ask myself the same question regularly, always just come up blank.
>>83686546No anon no.
>>83686638that's where i am too, even when i try to picture a kind of personal paradise, i can't come up with anything i wouldn't tire of. sometimes i'm happy in my dreams.
>>83686461Around two million untaxable dollars so I can live a frugal life without needing working out of necessity but out of my own desire
I get to wake up in 2000 and redo my life.
>>83686461To turn the clock back ten years and change nearly every decision in my life desu.
20 acres in a rural humid subtropical region of the United States with a sweet permaculture setup and an obedient virgin big tiddy redhead hairy pussy wife .
>>83686911>>83686914Basically these 2. I wouldn't say i am miserable or live a bad life but i missed the chances i had when i was younger and its put me in a spot where i feel i am trapped. If i can motivate myself i can work to get out of this spot and move forward but what I've missed can never be replaced.
>>83686461Lots of drugs, an actually good computer, a garden with lots of poppies that require care and a room with a window.
Not having to wageslave. God I hate it so fucking much.
>>83686461a higher paying job that only requires 30 hours of work a week somewhere within two hours drive of a beautiful park.
>>83686461Idk about happy but like a lot of people ITT have said; enough money to not have to work and be able to do whatever I want in life.
>>83686461id be happy for the rest of my life if i got even the littlest, shortest message from the person i love
>>83686911If I'd had the perspective of an adult as a child I could have saved myself a lot of torture.
>>83687078Perhaps I'm overly idealistic, but it seems to me that a child should not have the need to avoid torture
>>83686665Is there a clinical name for this lack of ideation for ones own future?
>>83687093Nazi dogwhistleJust admit you're an antisemite. You "genital mutilation" neurotic obsessives are painfully transparent. Would you rather the ritual sacrifice be made when the child is 8, 10, or 12 years old?
>>83687093>idealisticNo that's baseline human expectations (which many struggle with even so). What can I say, life is hard and people are bad, get used to it.
>>83686461Someone who loved me
Being a different person
>>83687116anhedonia would involve being unable to conceive of a situation in which one would be happy.
>>83686461A bunch of money, like 1-5 million Euros/Dollars. Then I can quit society, live off interest from investments and just relax and exercise and do hobbies. Maybe find a woman who shares my love for a comfy, aimless life and grow old with her.>>83686507Same. Also having a comfy life with a wife and kids is pretty much impossible. I know some guys with families at work and they complain about a lot of stuff every day. It seems like they have very stressful lives with little freedom and little money.
>>83686461Living in a small town with nice people. The sort of town where you can meet and be at least casual friends with everyone. Strangers are probably one of the biggest sources of stress in my life. Sometimes I cry when I get home when strangers are mean to me.
>>83687290Is says a lot that most of these replies are about money, not for the stuff people could get but for the simple purpose of getting the fuck away from society.
i think if i could change everything about my body i might be happy
>>83686911i don't know how young that would make you, but for me, the fantasy of getting to start over falls apart under just a little scrutiny. having to sit through school again would be even worse a second time, trying to make friends with my friends would be beyond awkward, and trying to seduce a girli wish i had dated is not something my conscience would allow. as jerome k. jerome says:>"Let us have done with vain regrets and longings for the days that never will be ours again. Our work lies in front, not behind us; and 'Forward!' is our motto. Let us not sit with folded hands, gazing upon the past as if it were the building; it is but the foundation. Let us not waste heart and life thinking of what might have been and forgetting the may be that lies before us. Opportunities flit by while we sit regretting the chances we have lost, and the happiness that comes to us we heed not, because of the happiness that is gone."
>>83686461>what would it take to make you happy?exactly one cheetah to do this withhttps://youtu.be/e6cWOQ8g328?t=146
>>83687362What can I say? Most people suck and I don't want to flush away all of my able-bodied years working so Shekelstein can buy another mansion or Bentley while I barely scrape by with a nagging wife, annoying child and a bunch of debt. I'm going to skip the debt and stressful family stuff and invest the money I make into my own well-being. Frankly it's insane to me that I'm considered odd for prioritizing my own well-being by people who complain about their dumb choices every day.
>>83687443Its not odd, its just notable that society is such a shitshow that the only thing people are looking for is an exit.
>>83687362Society says they don't owe use anything, so likewise we don't owe society anything. That's my line of thinking at least. I want to escape because society for some reason expects a great number of things from while not allowing me any of the things freely given to those who have done much less than I have.
>>83687457>the only thing people are looking for is an exit.Most people aren't. It's just autists and high IQ people who are. The vast majority of the population seems to accept the shittiness and carry on, despite the inevitable suffering and compromise. They are cattle. They don't carefully plan for irreversible changes in their lives. They just jump in and then wonder why their lives suck, but at that point, it's too late.
>>83687482You may be right but the statement still works depending on your definition of people.
>>83687245who? how are they different from you?
>>83686461Nothing, i am perfectly happy rn. I doubt many people have a better life than me.
>>836864611) a boyfriend in my city, with similar interests, same world view, same style, who loves me unconditionally and we get married and are happy till death does us apart :>2) good sleep schedule, time management
Having a perfect sight. Using glasses fucking sucks
>>83687750>a boyfriend in my cityI don't even live in a city so it's over. Still I'll try: what city?
>>83686461A girl with comically massive tits riding my penis while i suck her tits, whenever i want
>>83686461Just love, really. I have everything else either already covered or on a good trajectory. But it's really hard as a sperg. It takes a very special kind of girl to like the implied traits.
>>83687800yes anon of course I'll post my town on the internet!! my dream boyfriend is surely browsing 4chan right now!! I can't wait to finally meet him here, I've been searching for him for forever! what... you live on a different continent...? we're in different timezones and you're 30 years older than me....? uhhh you're a NEET...? sorry I'm not interested :<
>>83687851You're here too, so you're not better than any of us. If you are, then leave.
>>83686461I honestly don't know. I've never know what I wanted to do in life.
A billion dollars and a peaceful death
The removal of all Indian, Pakistani and geographically-related shitskin peoples within 100km proximity of myself.
>>83687851Bro, literally the only people who have a chance of actually loving you are on 4chan. Which doesn't mean a random robot will love you, but anyone out there is only there to pump and dump you. Of course you don't care, you're chadsexual anyway.
>>83687958they'd only love me because they're not attractive enough to find another girl. so I'm literally their only choice. I'll find a bf irl soon and prove you wrong. men outside and men on the internet are the same.
>>83687994You will absolutely find a bf irl if you want. But he will not love you. He will pump and dump you.But you have already revealed yourself by projecting that you expect a man's love to be conditional on the possibility of 'better'. Men do not think like that at all, monkeybranching is a uniquely female behavior. If anything it's basically the opposite: a man who is not physically attracted to you but likes your personality gets their perception transformed over ~1-2 months and suddenly finds you gorgeous. From a man's perspective, the concept of a woman 'better' than his love is inconceivable.
>>83688019that concept makes it only easier for me to find a bf irl. but wouldn't by your logic I be the one who has problems with loving him? wouldn't i be thinking about better guys instead?I hope it's not like that
>>83688038>wouldn't i be thinking about better guys instead?I believe you will, yes. This is obviously just based on interpreting your post.The thing with the "better" IRL bf you will find is that something like 80% of the male population isn't mature enough for love is more the point. Once they get what they want, they will move on before they can form any attachment. Yes it is possible for a boy like that to change his mind and commit to loving you, too. But it's very unlikely in practice.It's why women complain about being dumped all the time and "all men are like that" and all that crap. Actually it's just selection bias because you always go after the same traits that we tell you are not good for you, they typically form the basis of "better" in your evaluation.Also it remains a fact that it is possible for both parties to forge a working long-term relationship. Just because the odds are bad doesn't mean it's impossible or anything.
>>83688230She's 75 years old.The closest girl next door of an appropriate age I ever had was married with a kid.Nobody my age is still single irl.
>>83688210you sound really pessimistic, I don't think I'll get dumped this time. I believe the other 2 guys I've talked to didn't like me cause of my personality but I'll try to not be as intense this time.I'll post a thread in 3-4 months, hopefully I'll have found one by then.. if it doesn't work out I'll admit you're right.
total victory over the normies, becoming a billionaire, achieving biological immortality
>>83688266I cannot be described as pessimistic. I considered it with the help of other people before and we measured my predictions vs outcomes over a 6 months period. Generally I am a tiny bit optimistic compared to actual outcomes.>I believe the other 2 guys I've talked to didn't like me cause of my personality but I'll try to not be as intense this time.Take this with a grain of salt given that you have estimated that I am pessimistic and whatever other properties you expect from me, but first, if you think your personality is what made the 2 guys you talked to give up, you should see that as a successful filter. It is best to stop relationships as early as possible when you are not compatible with someone. Second, I strongly recommend not to try to mellow out who you are. However it's OK to "ease people into it" or to warn people. But you can't just "fake" who you are all the time, and it's really not what you want to be around your boyfriend.
>>83688277>achieving biological immortalityOnly sane person ITT.This is the only valid answer for non-NPCs.
>>83686461coca cola with ice and, and some steaks with burgirs you know, its like, i'm veri hungry
>>83686461another person that i can share my life withit's really not complicated
Probably if I could get a sex robot that resembled a real human being.I'm done with real women, they're just gonna dump me, and even if they don't (unlikely) they'll get old and fat too
>>83686461Realistically, my ideal woman that I could love forever. I don't really lack anything else in my life. Unfortunately my standards are probably too specific and too high to find someone like that.
>>83688289true it's better that the "dating phases" (only 2 weeks long) ended soon. if they went on longer I would've been more hurt. and I have to conceal my true personality now, I always do that with friends, idk why I wouldn't do it with people I'm interested in. it's not that I'll lie, they'll get to know me completely later on.
>>83688404It's more that (at least that's how I see it) a significant other is THE person you should be able to be your real self with at all times.
>>83688419not in the first weeks of knowing each other. apparently it's weirding them out or I'm too clingy.
Being rich, beautiful and having a handsome bf. It wouldn't matter if I was stupid or not, stupid people live in pure bliss
>>83686461an ugly bf with a huge weirdly shaped cock
All the women in cages with shock collars around their necks, permanently
>>83686461If she talked to me again and we dropped all the bullshit little games and continued building what we had
>>8368646110 million dollars nothing more nothing less.
>I am happy>BUT some things need to change so i can continue to be>I guess some people still care about Saturday work & Howard Roark, my son, & i will carry on that tradition for years to come!:)
>>83688465As I said I think it's OK to 'ease them into it'. If we're talking just a week a two even more so. Previously it sounded like maybe that's something you intended to keep up indefinitely for fear of losing someone again.
>>83688574>i'm so happiar cuz i love my son i had a dream we get to sleep next to him and give him little hugs then i had a dream about da gf's (as se3n on dogfart network)
>>83686461couple million dollars
>>83688843Me but unironically ;_;
