>>83836460
Doing nothing and letting the other party come after you is obviously the superior power position, but trying it as a man will likely result in nothing happening because most women will simply continue doing nothing and expect you to come forth.
Women basically date through a prediction market. They make a bet that no one will qualify to be her boyfriend, and they cash out the winnings from most suckers who invest into "yes".

It's not better to chase because everyone else dose it. Low key women who say that they like the way some men chase them isn't actually a good thing they like the attention once it becomes abit much they start calling them stalkers lol

chasing is the real power move but it screams "i can get what i want"

>be single man and do nothing
>nothing happens
>be man in relationship and do nothing while your gf is with you
>women start giving you tons of attention because they're spiteful lil gremlins who can't handle other people having what they don't have
Many such cases.

>>83836460
Chad attracts a woman to them and then they want him to chase after her to fulfill her delusions.

>>83836524
So you've attracted a woman, now what?
How are you to know what the perfect balance is between chasing and attracting? I can never understand the hot and cold method some guys advocate so hard for

>>83836460
Me in the West
> women dont want me but are willing to go out with me if they "dont have anything better to do", one said me straight to my face that I am boring despite her having literally no live

Me abroad
> women 10+ years my junior are into me

Among them
> black flight assistant (didnt ask where she was from)
> Chinese backpacker
> Chinese influencer
> African American backpacker
> Syrian refugee woman in Bursa
> Gyspy scammer
> Turkish student in Istanbul

I ended up with the student from Istanbul who treats me like a king

Dont have to chase because the demand beats the supply (me).