Well, it finally happened. The thing every guy who's been in a relationship warned me about. My gf took my deepest insecurity (dick size, I'm noticeably below average) and weaponized it against me.Little bit of context. My gf and I go to different universities about an hour drive away from each other. My roommate is an average looking, but chad personality guy who's been a little down on his luck with the women here (70% male university). My gf's roommate is an unironic NEET femcel. Well, me and my gf matchmake them and they fuck bc they both wanted to get laid. Awesome, great for them. Well, women being women, my gf's roommate (calling her Amanda) tells my gf alllll the details. Typical, I expected it. I ask my gf not to tell me out of respect for both of them. She complies.That is, until recently when we got into an argument. Unprompted, she tells me that my roomate made Amanda nearly cry because of how thick his dick is. I knew it was a shit test, and yet I failed bros. I genuinely lost my shit at her for it because there was literally no reason for her to say that except to mock me for my dick when she had no way to argue against me. I'd say I'm debating breaking up over this, but I know this shit is the same for all fucking women. I just have to keep anything I'm insecure about to myself now going forward. God, being in a relationship genuinely has made me more fucking misogynistic as time has gone on.
>>83840784you have a gf? that's based. why post here?
>>83840784>I'd say I'm debating breaking up over thismale to male, heart to heart, as objective as I can be, this isn't a woman you want to marry. you will never go back to that level of trust you had before she weaponized your insecurity against you.i wouldn't stick around long if i were you
>>83840789because i was a khhv until like a year ago and have been socially stunted my whole life and sought refuge on this board with likeminded outcasts, same as the rest of us. no place like home which is why i keep coming back
>>83840825well, fake story aside, that's not a good alibi. log off.
>>83840821Apart from this, she's genuinely never done anything to weaponize my insecurities or been a combative person in the entire year we've been together. So far there's no pattern of behavior, but it has eroded my trust in her significantly and I don't even feel like having sex with her that much anymore if she's judging my dick like that.
>>83840839The correct play here is to just cheat on her
>>83840784dump her, but start doing penis enlargement or you gonna suffer this all the time btw
>>83840857One step ahead of you. I'm the little bitch that made the thread complaining about his dick size a while back and how I had a girl ghost me after sexting once she saw my dick, and another admit to me after sex that she's used to bigger. Everywhere I go I'm either mocked for it (gf) or quietly and kindly turned down by other women for it.
>>83840873In this case you may as well just accept it or get a sph fetish. Women will insult your dick even if it's fine and all it takes is another bitch on it to make you feel better. If they all hate it it's over
>>83840873the thread in question https://boards.4chan.org/r9k/thread/8381479783840879
>>83840879I don't think I can accept it man. I want to be desired, not just "accepted". I have so many redeeming qualities. Good face, good physique, average height, engineering major and well read, and I'd like to believe I'm funny too. I just can't fucking stand that this ONE aspect, this one immutable flaw on my body is what's holding me back from women respecting me. My gf has flat ugly tits and is a bit overweight and I still love her and find her attractive. How can women not overlook the fact I'm below average while men are willing to plap their overweight gfs all the time? It drives me fucking insane.
>>83840908>My gf has flat ugly titsYou deserve eachother.
Can you elaborate on the moment of it being unprompted? It really does sound cruel. What were you arguing about?
>>83840933Said in anger to be honest due to her hypocrisy. They're fine looking, they're just small. I prefer bigger tits but honestly when it comes to body tits are bottom tier of importance for me. I have never insinuated that I wish her tits were bigger to her because I know she's insecure about them, and to do so would be cruel. >>83840943My mom doesn't know about me and my gf because she's hardcore religious and would strongly disapprove of us being together. Whenever I visit my mom on some weekends, contact is therefore limited. She was mad that I wouldn't take an hour or so out of my day to chat with her on the phone (to be fair she isn't entirely wrong, I just didn't feel like explaining to my mom what I would be doing stepping out bc she ALWAYS pesters me). I shut her down a bit harsher than I intended, she stops texting for ~2 min and then hits me with that unprompted.
>>83840908whats your mbti then?
>>83840968Had to dig through the archives for the last time I took the test, but it was consistently INTP.
>>83840784just fap bro, bitches aint shit
>>83840991we can't shoot another ben folds, ben
>hey can you wash the dishes tonight honey>WELL AMANDA'S BOYFRIEND CAUSES HER PAIN TO THE POINT OF TEARS EVERY TIME THEY TRY TO BE INTIMATE WITH EACH OTHER ANONI don't know if she's more retarded for thinking this was a gut punch or if you're more retarded for actually getting upset by it. You should both kill yourselves, I think.
>>83840784You should just break up with her anon, these shouldn't be problems in a relationship, I have a boyfriend and I don't care about the size of his dick, that's not what matters
>>83841027Hate to demoralize myself, but how big is he? This is genuinely relevant. If he's average frankly get the fuck out of this thread
>>83841027It's a cuck fetish thread. The story isn't real and never happened, which is why it doesn't make any sense.
>>8384104012.5cm.happy?
just downgrade her to a fuckbuddy and gradually reduce your attachment to nothingno need to declare anything
>>83840784woman here, she genuinely did nothing wrong. hope she dumps you for being a giant baby over nothing. no offense but small dick energy
>>83841063Yes actually, my curiosity is satisfied. You often hear "size doesn't matter" from people whose partners are average, so someone walking the walk is a refreshing change of pace. Thank you>>83841071I'll confront her about it and if she doesn't seem remorseful enough this is probably what I'm going to end up doing.
>>83841081>woman hereIndian male detected
>>83840784Immediately break up. I'm not saying this because I want the worst for you (fuck you anyway) but because you are not doing yourself a favor by staying. You have been disrespected, your insecurity and fear has been used against you and that is a massive boundary breach that cannot be reversed. Someone who wants YOU for who you are, including your small(er) dick, will never under any circumstances use something you are having troubles with in an argument against you. Not only is it clear that she isn't satisfied with you sexually by bringing this up but also does not respect you. She should compliment you saying it's big and she likes it just like you'd hopefully do about her body because that is part of being in love, you love the person entirely including their shortcomings.At no point will you look at her ever again and feel genuine and unlimited love simply because she hurt you at a weakspot you were not guarding due to the trust you had in her. Furthermore, from now on whenever you two are sexual you will always question if she does it to keep you happy or because she's genuinely into it since apparently she considers you to be small. This will plague and torment you for as long as you stay with her.Imagine if you pointed out, in an argument, that her friend has big(ger) tits than her. This is the exact same just reversed.
>>83840995wat. just fap bro its good and fine for me, and theres no travel/effort involved, just pick a few good porns and fapp
>>83841081I know you're a troll, but I'll bite and pretend you're serious. Imagine you get cellulite and make a few comments on it to your partner. They say they don't care, they're attracted to you for you, blah blah. Then one day they mention how he saw this woman in public with some nasty cellulite while he's annoyed with you.Assuming you're not a troll, you're probably retarded enough that analogies are lost on you, but c'est la vie. I have nothing better to do tonight besides rot on this website.
>>83841099I'm willing to give it one good conversation to work through things, because as I said, no history of her ever acting like this. If anything like it ever happens again though I'm bouncing.
>>83841086you don't confront you retard she won't tell the truth anywayjust let your actions do the talking that she doesn't matter anymore and things won't be the same
>>83840784>pain from dick sizeThis was one of the bullet points a small zoomette gave me when she gave me my walking papers. There were others, sure, but it sometimes ain't great anon.She had other valid reasons, too. I some day hope she texts me back wanting me to break her inside again. It's never, ever, everrrr happening, though.
>>83840784Genuinely shitty move on her part. You're right to be this hurt but I guess you already know that anyway.Important question is, can your trust be repaired? If yes, talk to her about it. If she invalidates you, break up. If no, well then no use in staying. Break up. It's really something you need to ask yourself, can you look past this even if she is sorry?Weaponising your partners insecurity is genuinely extremely shitty and imo she should've approached you immediately and apologised. There is no way she isn't aware it hurt you. This should also tell you something about her and how she is. Don't take shit from someone who is supposed to love you but seems to have no issue in disrespecting you. There are more ways to appreciate sex than plain penetration and there are more ways to appreciate you beyond your dick size, you deserve someone who wants you for you.
>>83841146In basically every instance being too big for sex is a deal breaker for women whereas they're almost all perfectly content to deal with guys that are below average. But this is another one of OP's fake cuck fetish spam threads so it doesn't really make a difference what reality is like.
>>83841169She did apologize after I blew up on her, but the bitterness is still lingering as we've not really addressed it. I gave a half-assed accepting of it because I was busy (again, engineering major) and didn't have the bandwidth to open that can of worms. I think only a real face to face sit down talk is going to get anything resolved.As for the sex, apart from two positions (spooning penetration cause she has a fat ass and reverse cowgirl) it's genuinely great. Neither of us ever end without orgasm, and I *do* make her cum from penetration a good 90% of the time. I don't think it was genuine dislike of my dick, just a very effective attempt at hurting my ego.
>>83841197Then you're all set. Talk it out, give it some time. Shit move of her, probably won't ever happen again. Enjoy your relationship, I'm sure this will be fixed.
>>83840784>my roomate made Amanda nearly cry because of how thick his dick is.Fucking JEALOUS of amanda, thick dicks are the best
>>83840784It's okay. All relationships with foids are temporary anyway. Unless you're both Jesus freaks and keep her constantly shitting out kids and her family also applies pressure on her not to whore out (basically larping yourselves into this Little House On The Prairie 1800s bubble) you're just borrowing her. Always remember: you're just borrowing her. All these conditions. If you're missing just *one* of those ingredients, it won't work. I had the homeschooled christfreak gf but I didn't give her kids, didn't marry her, and didn't believe in sand stories and she ran off with a spic. I failed her. She's gonna marry this retard and have brown kids, completely downgrading her lifestyle and genes, because I was a shitty weak man.
>>83841209Thank you anon. I'm hoping that it all does work out. I've just been in a funk today thinking about it and I wanted to vent.
>>83841217An adult made wrote this post
OP I am sowwy but it's true. Once you've felt a real penis inside of you, you can never go back to a micropenis. Again, I am sowwy :(
>>83841242demoralization post and namefag, kys oregano-lly
>hang out with group of women>basically become invisible>they start chatting in girl modei know a lot of journalists like to pretend men talk about sex or whatever, we really don't. if i was with a group of dudes and one said>bro my last gf's vagina was so LOOSE hahaha!i'd think he's some huge asshole. and very strange.every girl who's seen your dick has talked to her friends about it. sorry to say.
>>83841263I am telling him the truth and showing him empathy. That's better than what you did, you fucking retard.
>>83841278>empathy>sowwwwwyyyy :^)fuck off, nigger
>>83841318I didn't say "sowwy" with that many Ws and how am I not empathetic?
Butthole is nature's magnifying glass. Go in dry and she'll shed tears over your girth too. If all that matters is making sex hurt you should have little difficulty if you put even the tiniest bit of effort. You'll feel better after hurting her too.
>>83841408based woman hurter and anus expander
>>83840784I mean you just gotta break up with her rn theres no other option like i dont have a dick insecurity but if my girl used something that im deeply insecure about and something that i cant change no matter what in an argument against purely for the purpose of making me feel bad about myself i would just instantly break up with that woman like respect yourself bro wth what an actual abhorrent disgusting girl
