Are there any success stories of robots here going from social retards to outgoing? I need to try to be more social, not just get better in how I converse with people but also in how amicable I am
>>83841185I regressed because now I know that socializing is a trap regardless. You shouldn't tell people anything, ever. It is always a mistake.
bro im trying my best. i have the first part down pat, but i wasnt even that bad in high school. but first step - moooove out of your parents house. you will never grow if you keep living with them.
>>83841190To be honest I don't really care for making friends, it's just that I got accepted for a bartending job so it's crucial I learn how to be social. I'm honestly surprised I was accepted considering I probably talked like a monotone retard during the interview.
>>83841200i moved out and my life didn't change at all
It's basically requires you to be inconsiderate and comfortable making other people uncomfortable to "learn" what works. Which is something that doing as a retarded teenager is easy to do, whereas doing it as a grown man is extremely embarrassing and annoying to people.
>>83841185Probably depends on your issues, anon. Just social anxiety? You can improve that. Autism? Probably fucked
>>83842292Definitely not autism, I don't show any signs of autism, I have had people think I was autistic though because of my social skills. I think my main problem is just inexperience, I often don't know what to say during a conversation and end up having a completely empty mind.
I almost went from outcast to a normal person once, it was a transformation through my last year of middle school. It all falled apart when all my friends moved school though. I was lucky because I had sweet friends that accepted me and put an effort to include me in their activicties. I put some effort to talk to them too. Today I'm totally alone though, but I think you should give it a try, improving your situation, that is. My social anxiety is way better than before, probably because of those folks.
>>83841185I have the opposite story. I had friends, one of them I considered close and gf. Then I lost everyone and haven't talk to anyone outside of my family for like 7 years. Cant even have a discord friend. Idk if its autismo or mental illness or both.
