Have you ever asked out a girl before?
>>83841875yes. i used to be microchad when before the schizophrenia
>>83841875No, I don't want to embarrass women.
>>83841875yes and i got rejected by every single onethen i started talking to a cute enough femcel online and she was so thankful that anyone was giving her a scrap of attention that we got married
>>83841875Yeah, I asked her out and she acted really surprised, she agreed and we decided to go out on saturdayshe went home and took her life
>>83841875I need to do that soon even when i know what will happen. I fought a big fat guy who threw chairs at me last week and felt zero adrenaline but asking out the cute cashier at my local gardening store is too much for me too handle somehow.
>>83841912Are you retarded? Hitting on women at their jobs has a massive faux pas for over a decade now. They're never going to let you back in that store again.
>>83841875No, what for? I already know how is gonna end
>>83841912You asked a girl out while she was working? don't do that anonmy manager at my job tells all the girls that if a customer is ever flirting with one of us that we can tell him and he will kick them out and ban them
>>83841898lmao she absolutely bodied you, fucking freak
>>83841875I think i accidentally asked out a few single friends that were girls and i realized later that they may have thought it was a date. I just wanted to show her a movie and get some food. Whoops. I did ask out a fat girl on tinder or something. We went to a bar and it was nice but she was too fat so i never talked to her again. I only went out with her because i felt bad talking to her for so long and not taking her out at all. Thats it.
>>83841957I don't know WHY she said yes AND killed herself, was she not wanting to be rude? I think killing herself was worse, there's no way in hell asking her out made her kill herself, we kind of new each other, and I was pretty popular in high school>>83841963bro do not fucking get me started on going to the movies with friends, so many guy friends think I'm into them because I like to go see movies together with them
>>83841875No. There's no reason for a man to ask a woman out. If she's actually attracted to you, she'll make the first move and approach you.
>>83841990waiting for somebody specifically attracted to you to ask you out is a bad move, if you're not a complete freak and look decent the woman will probably still say yes and get to know you
>>83841977No like i invited her over to my house to watch a movie. She left like halfway though. Maybe because she expected something and wasnt getting it? Idk. But i hear you. I met up with a different old friend and before i could really even think about telling her i had a crush on her she told me how fucking annoying it was to meet up with old guy friends and have them eventually say they have a crush on her. She just wants to hang out. Girls have to stop being so pretty.
>>83841875I'd need to be friends with her beforehand, and that never happened with a girl I was interested in.
>>83841875Women will fantasize about literally anything other than a heterosexual male human
>>83841875No. Interacting with girls in my youth crushed my self esteem beyond recovery. And every interaction with women I've had since then has only reinforced that. Why would I try to date anybody when I've been convinced I'm unworthy of anybody's time. It seems like some sick humiliation ritual.
>>83841998Women aren't like men, anon. They don't fall in love over time, they're either immediately attracted to you the moment they lay eyes on you, or they'll never be attracted to you. And if she's attracted to you, she'll approach.
>>83841875I had a gf in high school but I asked her out via text so it doesn't count.
>>83841945>if a customer is ever flirting with one of us that we can tell him and he will kick them out and ban themBeing a man is so fucked. My sympathy for women is becoming less and less the longer I'm alive
>>83841875Nope never have and never will
>>83841875no but i accidentally rejected 5 girls in highschool
>>83842146we're literally there to work, not get harassed, if you want to go flirt with somebody go to a social place, not a retail store
>>83842012>ask girl over to watch movie>just want to watch movie>she's upset>ask other girl to watch movie>want to confess>she's upsetgg
>>83842107>Women aren't like men anon.Sorry to break it to you anon, but I'm a woman, and I'm speaking from experience, I slowly fell in love with my best friend over the years while he had always been in love with me
>>83842360Trannies are not really the same thing as women.
>>83842352I just don't think banning someone for flirting with anyone is an appropriate response. That's just insane. Sure, if they're not taking the hint and continue bothering someone's, sure go ahead and ban them. But what you're suggesting just sounds extreme.>go to a social placeThere's no safe places for men to approach women anymore
>>83842352I think a single asking out is "fine". It's the price of human society. Of course anything after a single "no" is no longer fine.It's the role of the man to ask out women, and it's the role of the woman to accept or reject. You would be made much more uncomfortable if you found him waiting for you to get off work to ask you out and adhere to your mystical "no asking out while at work" thing after all.
>>83842360Tell that to every guy who wasted a decade of his life in the friendzone only to finally get it through his head that it won't ever progress to anything more. No guy should be putting themselves in such a situation. You can't negotiate attraction. A woman has two buckets in her head: the fuck bucket and the friend bucket. If you're not instantly put into the fuck bucket, you'll never be in it, no matter how many good boy points you think you're earning.
>>83842360>what is survivor biasFor every 1 guy who makes it out of the friend zone, 100 more are stuck there forever
>>83842382It's worse than you think. Because it's not some weird Target face scanning auto-ban thing.She gets the ick, goes and tattles to the bossman manager who does the dirty work for her. I paid a girl a compliment several months ago. First time I've done so in -years-. It was a simple "you're the cutest girl I've seen today" or something to that effect. That was all, there wasn't a follow up, there wasn't an asking out, it wasn't even really flirting just a compliment.The next time I went to the store (grocery store) she obviously avoided me. And to be clear, I mean she avoided me in an obvious way, not that her avoiding me was the obvious result (though that's true too lol).That hurt, but it's "fine" as it ended there. I didn't try to approach her obviously as I wasn't there for flirting in the first place.It seems like fucking small talk itself is banned now. <- Not as a response to my story but the manager banning them from the store.
>>83842041This chick >>83842124 is looksmatched with the minotaur.
>>83841875They all look exactly like what imagined these people would look like.
>>83842439>you're the cutest girl I've seen todayTo be fair, that was a bad compliment. A good rule of thumb is just to compliment them on things they chose. Like their hair style or fashion sense or whatever. Best to avoid telling a woman that they're cute, beautiful, hot, etc unless you're more involved with them.
>>83842360>I'm a woman, and I'm speaking from experience, I slowly fell in love with my best friend over the years while he had always been in love with meATTENTION MEN, this is your captain speaking. To each and every single one of you who is reading this, it's a poison pill. This will -not- happen to you. Don't ever fucking let yourself think it will. This is the siren's song luring you to a painful death being tossed off the S.S. Misogyny. Stay on board where it's safe with your bros.
>>83842431Yeah but they were speaking objectively on the fact that no woman ever slowly falls in love, which was false
>>83841875Never in person no
Fuck yeah man that's why roller skate rinks exist. I can't find roller skate rinks on google maps I'd have to rent one of those things I'm there are no dyke roller derbes anymore here. This is fucking atrocious. Roller skate riniks are suppose to exist to make you look stupid and do stupid things when the dj makes fun of you. What the fuck happened to this local fuck you you suck and we're laughing at you place
>>83841875*it's the formula for a hit porn
>>83841875 (OP)BEYOND BRUTAL
>>83842477T-thanks cap. Man, fuck them hoes and their delusions.
>>83842399I'm introverted and don't go out of my way to talk to people if I don't have to. Which means I will never ask a girl out. This retarded societal rule that men need to make the first move needs to be fucking changed
>>83842478>the claim is 99% true but 1% falseGod I truly hate debatards. Always focused on debunking le claims instead of coming to the correct position
>>83842602You're the phone holding a false position you fucking retarded.
>>83842615>well not ALL men end up like that, just 99%Right.>you fucking retardedYou fucking don't speak English
>>83841875No. There's nothing in it for me
>>83841875probably almost 100 times now. I'm nearly 30 and have been rejected every time
>>83841875A couple times, with confidence too, but still no success.
noi didnt know it was weird but both of my gfs asked me
>>83841875Yeah and the only time I ever did it in real life it worked, we dated for 5 months, nothing beyond kissing though not even regular making out and she dumped me right before valentines.
many times. never succeeded. they don't love me, they only want money. I checked my messages, they never reply.
