why are you submissive as a man like was it because of some incident or porn or are you just generally submissive irl too because as a man i just cant imagine being a sub at all like why would i ever be a sub to my girlfriend or wife
>>83842424>why are you submissive as a manMy mom beat me too much>are you just generally submissive irl tooI get to boss around people irl tho
my dad beat me and also i have a lithe body and am only 5'10
>>83842424Im not even submissive but I would try it. I dont know why people are so close minded and think you have to be either dominant or submissive 100% of the time with no inbetween
I wasn't beaten so I dunno, I think I was just born with it, like my brain chemistry is wired weirdly or some shit. Obviously I didn't know I had this kink when I was 1~10, but even then there were plenty of signs, for example, I remember seeing a kid get bullied and envying them. I remember watching some sfw cartoons where villains get tied up getting that stuck in my head, fantasizing about being in that same situation. Imo a normal kid would just watch the same cartoon and laugh about things like this, thinking nothing of it.It's like any kink, like say feet, you either find it hot or not.
I'm pretty sure I was molested on a sailboat trip desu.
>>83842984Hot. Please greentext your sailboat molestation
>>83842424because my chudiness has caused me to associate submissiveness in women with being whores with rape fetishes that will fuck the first guy that makes her feel small and weak. like I just feel like they will be unfaithful and will have some deranged ick (yes I know that I must appear to have one too from the female PoV) that makes her dump me for some shit like not raising my voice when I'm mad, like oh I'm sorry for preferring to speak at a comfortable volume.
>>83842424I'm generally very submissive in all facets of life. If the economy were good enough my optimal life would be as a househusband. I want to do chores and run errands and take care of kids instead of going to work, that sounds like dream life. Sometimes when my boss yells at me or talks down to me I get a boner. Idk why I turned out this way but I try to stuff these feelings down because it feels faggy and pathetic but still I feel it.
it's fun to not be tough 24/7 and let go of the defenses. That's it.
