It's become obvious. People who dislike me now just ignore me, and people who were in the middle now talk to me. People who liked me love me more. I can no longer deny this reality. Looks matter. You start to look deeper after hours of thinking about it. What if old people are treated poorly because they're not attractive? What is abused kids we're ugly and that's the reason why their parents hate them? What if loners aren't actually quiet or weird, they're just ugly? It all makes sense now.
Good looking people have immediate value whereas everyone else has to prove their value, and likely may not ever get a chance.
>>83846398Looks 10000% matter and anyone who tells you otherwise is an idiot. HOWEVER they are not all encompasing. Looks are the most importsnt thing for meetings with random people and first impressions, which is the most common form of interaction. Looks are less important for when you have an edtablished relationship with people which is admittedly far easier to get when you look good.This is why women will say "looks dont matter". Its because of the fact that who you are as a person is more important for a long term partner than your physical traits are.However saying looks dont matter discredits the 65-85% of intrractions with people who judge you purely off of your looks.Basically they are a massive factor in socialization, but they arent a silver bullet which is why you see ugly guys with hot girls all the time.Focus on being healthy. staying positive, and being a good non hateful person and you will become someone you can be proud of.
>>83846455>Basically they are a massive factor in socialization, but they arent a silver bulletYes they are. I've observed ugly people being left out or ignored, including my past self. People will assume you're mean or annoying, just based on your looks. You might see a few ugly people hanging out with eachother, but their relationships with average or attractive people don't last long.As for personality, that only encompasses 10%-20% of the way you're treated. There's nothing better than a good-looking person that has a good personality, even if it's a facade. That actually makes a person an automatic 10/10. Ugly person with a good personality? People will forever hold their looks against them. It could be fearing what their real friends or family will say if they caught them hanging out with an uggo. It could be blaming their ugliness on the fact that they messed up once time. If you are ugly, you are replaceable and worthless. No amount of masquerading and "looks aren't everything, personality greatly matters too" will change this. I've see how people treat me now. It's unbelievable.
>>83846741Youre right that an attractive person with an attractive personality is always better than an ugly person with an attractive personality. And also that ugly people are more likely to be ignored However being ugly just means you will have a much harder time getting your foot in the door than someone who is already attractive. If you are ugly you can still be loved. You can still be cherished. Do not give up, but do not delude yourself. It will be hard, and you have to prove you are a decent person as opposed to hot people who are just assumed to be good.Ugly people can still find love and make friends. Being ugly will color all your interactions with strangers and people youve recently met though
