I just want someone who will look at me, with my depression, with my ADD, with my childhood trauma, and say "You are good enough for me to treat you the way you treat me."I'm tired. I'm tired of being called racist or misogynistic or otherwise hateful, because I did not respond to people in the way someone with a normal brain would. Someone with a normal brain can handle loud noises, I don't hate you because I flinched, I flinched because I can't handle loud noises.Normal people do not hate people like me because of the value judgements they've made about our character. Normal people make value judgements about people like me that enable them to hate us.