Considering moving to New York City as a 27 year old man in an attempt to have one last chance at experience a normal social life. I want friends, to hook up with some girls, to go to stuff and do things and be places. I currently live in a small town, have no drivers license, all my coworkers are in their 40s or older, etc. My life feels so over here. I dont know if I will be able to afford the city but I cant think of any other moves at this point in my life. Its a hail mary.
>>83847397im almost twenty eight and i sleep in a tent at my parents land im working on my own business and when i make five thousand dollars which is like five hundred sales im going to catch up on my loans and buy a car to go car camping
new york city is a desolate shithole and if you cant make it as a normalfag in your city you wont make it in nyc
>>83847515My "city" has 15k people and it is mostly old people. Maybe there is a better city to move to, I dont know where else I could be that I wont seem like a freak for not having a car though
hey op I actually live in nyc, all my friends moved out to other states, wanna drop me your email in case you do move? Im hard up for friends, im a bit older than you though Im not an autistic sperge I promise just looking for somebody to occasionally have a drink with
>>83847598Yeah sure im jrdroad07@gmail - while you are here do you have any tips for moving to the city or where to look for employment/apartments and where I should look to move specifically?
>>83847397Why would a girl hook up with some hick tourist when they can babytrap some Goldman Sachs investment banker with 400 years of family old money behind him?
>>83847598Op here, I'm looking for a gay lover. Hmu at gaysrx@hotmail.com
>>83847788Idk. I guess I just figure there is a billion young people there and new ones moving there everyday. Has to be easier to find a couple girls down on their luck or weird ones that resonate with you in that environment. Could be foolish though. Maybe the hypergamy there is beyond belief. I tend to be more optimistic though than a lot of the blackpill types though
>>83847848What part of Chad Only was unclear? Take a weeklong vacation there and see what happens (nothing ever happens).
there are no white people in NYC anymore, you will have to try something completely different not what you see on TV, do some research
>>83847902Its still like 1/3rd white. I dont mind being friends with or dating nonwhite people though
>>83847872Sure but I would imagine playing the numbers game in an infinite number generator leads to more success than being elsewhere
A few years ago I briefly moved to nyc, the only women there are boomers walking their dogs and fugly couples. Maybe there are women in some of the clubs but be prepared to pay a months salary just to find out. Makes way more sense to just go to vegas and fuck a hooker or something.
>>83848210Where do young people even live then
>>83847457They wont let you sleep inside?
>>83847397Do you have a plan if your life in nyc fails? If you have the opportunity then you should 100% take it and try something new. There's nothing worse than being dead before you have time to live. You dont get these years back. Please use them in a way that seems fulfilling to you
>>83848776Im not really sure that the next step would be if NYC didnt lead to the kinda life ive always craved. Id probably be in my 30s by then. I think id probably give up and just focus on having the most comfortable cozy life possible at that point. Maybe get somewhere far away from everything.
>>83847397That sounds pretty dumb NGL. That city has swallowed people with way more resources and support systems plus it's kind of a shit hole. If I were you Id move to the biggest city in a 150 mile radius that's fairly walkable. Theres no point to being in NY unless for the arts.
>>83848860Well im in Connecticut so its kinda the biggest city like that near me. I suppose Boston is also an option, maybe like providence? Idk. I just assume NYC has the most youth an energy and a culture that doesnt see a single guy in his late 20s/early 30s as a freak
>>83848884No city is seeing a single 30 yo a freak and why you looking for youth energy that's kind of sus.
>>83849033Why is that sus. In my town people my age might as well be 50 I mean. They are settled down and incredibly basic in every way. I want things to be fun
>>83848267They do live in NYC and LA and other big cities but you will literally never encounter them because you can't afford to.
>>83849424Bro thinks young people have money. We all go to dive bars
>>83849670In an Uber from the $5k/mo apartment your parents pay for.
>>83849778Its called getting a job nigger
If it wasn't for NYC i would still be a virgin, anyway why you don't have a driver license yet?
