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hi /r9k/,
I barely manage to stay connected with other people. My problem isn't even the >no gf, it's closer to >no frens

>irl
1 (one) dude I interact with sometimes
>high school
just 4 guys that I share memes with, don't even discuss them nor do we play /v/idya together
>college
dropped out and kept contact with 0 contacts
>online pisscord "friend" group
left when... I don't remember why I left it, 0 contacts
>another pisscord "friend" group
left it when the chat had an autistic tantrum over cooldowns, 0 contacts
>third online group (4chan-adjacent)
two or three guys I guess, not sure if stick with them for long given my track record

4chan is probably the only place where I interact with people on a regular basis
I don't even know if there's anything I can do to get over this form of 'tism
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>>83848007
Growing up:
>did your mother use to lock you in your bedroom to keep you away from her and never showed any sort of affection?
>did your father use to humiliate you in front of your friends and make fun of you for trying new things instead of helping and teaching you?
>did your brother spend his entire time criticizing everything you did and spreading gossip around town instead of standing by your side?
Let me know, I think this is what made me this way.
>I don't even know if there's anything I can do to get over this form of 'tism
Me neither. Knowing how every relationship ends, nowadays I just avoid everyone so none begins at all.
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>>83848188
>>83848007
Well I know this idea is probably going to get immediately shot down like every other time I've suggested it but I feel like it's a moral duty to mention this. Consider getting a life coach. It's not a psychologist and it's not as expensive and because it's unregulated the quality and results might vary. But one of the best ways to help yourself out of this slump is literally to pay someone to help you out of it.
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>>83848188
>>did your mother use to lock you in your bedroom to keep you away from her and never showed any sort of affection?
no, what the fuck?
>>did your father use to humiliate you in front of your friends and make fun of you for trying new things instead of helping and teaching you?
nope
>>did your brother spend his entire time criticizing everything you did and spreading gossip around town instead of standing by your side?
no brother, only sisters (did spread some gossip I didn't care about)
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>>83848206
who needs a life coach when you have 4channel?
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Usecase of human connection?
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>>83848206
>life coach
I didn't know that was a real thing, thought it was another name for that PUA trend from a few years ago. Turns out it even exists in my shithole country. I will take a look into it.
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>>83848251
>Usecase of human connection?
friendship grants magic powers or some shit
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>>83848007
>irl
noone. Just interactions with coworkers but nothing outside of work
>high school
4-5 guys. Shared memes. Didnt really have much in common. Friendship withered after graduation
>College
Only kept up with one guy from HS. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other by the end of college. no new friends made
>internet
I had some RS friends back in the day but I never made anything longlasting. I comment on shit but I never have any actual conversations now

Now my only interaction is shitposting anonymously on 4ch and X. No actual connections.
Socializing and being likeable is just so unnatural to me I guess.
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>>83848282
>4ch
only newfags call 4chan "4ch"
>X
go back to X then
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>>83848206
>lifecoach

yeah i'll pay some normie who cant even comprehend my existence to give me normie advice when everything comes natural to normies
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>>83848233
>no, what the fuck?
Oh, I thought that sort of stuff would be more common around these parts.
Well, if your family didn't fuck your brain up growing up, why are you like that then?
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>>83848293
I call it what I want nigger.

X is a good pol replacement tho
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I wish my mother had breastfed me
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>>83848298
>why are you like that then?
tism or some other (more complex) reason
I can probably make up some bullshit about my upringing to paint myself a victim, but victim complex is never a good thing
should search for flaws within myself
or something
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>>83848281
What makes you think magic powers is a metric?
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>>83848299
>I call it what I want nigger.
double nigger
>X is a good pol replacement tho
format is objectively worse and disincentivez HQ discussion
if you think that /pol/ should just be shitposting then yeah, Xitter is a great replacement
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>>83848319
magic thinking
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>>83848295
>Help guys my toilet is clogged! What do I do?
>Have you tried hiring a plumber?
>yeah i'll pay some normie who can't even comprehend my pipes to use his normie plunger to unclog my toilet when plumbing comes natural to normies

And this is why so many of you retards stay stuck. Because even when people give you genuinely helpful advice your natural response isn't "Hmm that sounds interesting I'll look into it" or "Hmm I haven't tried that yet I think I will give that a try" you just shoot shit down immediately. Like you don't actually want to fix your problems you just want to hear yourself complain and commiserate with other naysayers in one big circle jerk of self pity.
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>>83848329
Thinking is obsolete. You don't need that.
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>>83848317
Some times we blame others for our own problems, other times we fail to see what others have done to us. But victim complex might get you stuck, sure. So assuming autism, what other traits do you have that could indicate autism?
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>>83848349
Not that guy, but do you have any personal experience with that life coaching thing? I'm checking a few sites, it seems to be video call consultations. Is it like therapy or something? Can they handle a social retard? One of my issues is eye contact and another is saying apparently very offensive or weird stuff, though I'm not aware or understand it being offensive or weird.
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>>83848367
>So assuming autism, what other traits do you have that could indicate autism?
my use of 4chan.org
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>>83848387
Well, that could mean you are just retarded.
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>>83848007
Tell me, you don't happen to be that depressive anon who keeps posting drawing of some pink haired chinese girl and complains about no one wanting to be his friend?
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>>83848391
>Well, that could mean you are just retarded.
Sad! Many such cases!
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>>83848404
now
I don't even frequent /r9k/ that often to know who your fag is
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>>83848007
attachment issues are the greatest incel creator. its not heightcel, its not locationcel, it probably not even lookscel, its literally all just attachmentcel issues

the last "friend group" of any variety i had was when i was 15. im gay im supposed to be plowed down by dicks every wednesday and i cant even manage that because i'm an attachmentcel. if only my mother didnt go cray cray and get sent to the asylum desu
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>>83848422
>im gay
fag



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