>dumped in my early 40s>house paid for, no kids, (low) 6 fig savings and counting>midwest so apps blow balls; fats, hags, moms, the occasional young/hot one giving me a glimmer of hope but fading into the horizon>look young but the number's too high: 35-39 is hot but 40+ is weird to zoomzoomsAlright, moderately successful bots, how many of you have experiences with arrangements or sugar dating in the States? I think it's nearly over, or becoming exponentially unreasonable that I'll match up with someone I'm capable of loving online. I just want to buy the live-in age gap gf experience for a little while. I have nothing else to spend it on and working feels more like a joke every day.
>>83848753>women love older men!!!Meanwhile in reality >how do I find a young woman to pay to pretend to love meKek. I hope you suffer
>>83848769They do. It was never easier for me in my 30s. I thought I'd be married to my ex. 40s is definitely the 'wall', of sorts. I definitely could lie, but I know that'll go terribly.
>>83848783They only "like" older men because of their money you retarded walled scrote.
>>83848798Great. Anyway, about my question...?
>>83848806Go to the Philippines and get a young virgin tradwife
>>83848822>virginKek! Obviously, any girl willing to get bought is going to be street smart and not a virgin. East asian ones especially start prostituting as literal children.
>>83848837Okay well they will give you children and cook for you as long as it means they dont live in a metal shed Also it keeps saying non ascii letters allowed when I post
>>83848837>i find problems with everything to justify my constant self-sabotage and valid my chronically negative worldview starter packkeep up the good work anon
I used seeking back when it was seekingarrangement, the pool of girls were way hotter than tinder thots and unlike other apps they would generally interact with you as long as you could prove you had the cash to floss. I was banned so don't know what it's like now. Apparently the whole site got cucked by regulations
>>83848942How did you get banned from seeking?
>>83848954I was asking girls up front if they would have sex with me on a yacht (an idea I had but never went through with it), some said yes or maybe but there was this one stuck-up thot who said she would only do it for "$1500 a day" and I think she reported me after I told her to fuck off
>>83848872>projecting this hardThat's why your wife left you, bitch ass nigga
>>83848753Why did she dump you though?
>>83849109She monkey branched. As for what was lacking in me: I wasn't a christfag, I didn't want kids (though I would have made an exception for her if that was truly it) and I simply think she got bored with me after several years. I was her first boyfriend.
>>83849156>40>first boyfriend>got bored after several yearsHuh? Was she like 15 years younger than you?
>>83849156>got boredGood for her, I hope she dramatically upgraded ^^
>>83849166Nearly, yes.
>>83849171Well, I can see why you're mad then, but also this was basically inevitable. Should have been planning for it.
>>83848753Don't pay for some weird bdsm shit. Just get your passport together and go visit less well off countries and pick whichever woman seems the least bad.Paying for a woman is pointless since it's the same as dating except she explicitly doesn't like you and will take even more money from you than a regular gf or wife would.
holy shit anon you've upset the fat and roastie hags that just realized a successful 40 year old man will never ever date a woman his age.
>>83848798I only "like" younger women for their body, so it's a good match. I don't think anyone is under any other illusions. Older man younger women is always more of a prostitution arrangement than a love arrangement. It's a blessing for older men that younger women are whores who love money.
>>83849432>It's a blessing for older men that younger women are whores who love money.Yet you are struggling to find said whores to pay, the state of you
>>83849442The (United) State(s) of me, rather.
>>83848753i live in the midwest too n like old guys. im 18 add but only if you wanna help me fix my garbage lifebutwhatifithrowup
It worked great for me until they started killing the site 1-2 years ago. I'm in my 40s and in Europe.
Ah yes, schrodinger's older men preference. Men have it the easiest in their 30s-40s while simultaneously being unable to find someone because they have gotten too old. Cope harder.
Divorced guys are so desperate and run through. Sorry you are only good for a fling at best. Should've been a better husband
>>8385101530s are indeed easy mode. I found my ex-fiance who was 14 years younger than me in that decade and had success beyond my wildest dreams with women in those years as a fairly weird dude. I was never deluded into thinking my 40s would be easy. >>83851027I was never married, though.lmao so many angry zooms and roastsRoasts: it is what it is. You're no one's pick and you certainly aren't mine unless you maintained your body and didn't drink yourself into lot lizard leather face. I would pick one my age if she looked young like me, but for most of you your visage betrays your lack of accountability and upkeep. I'd rather be alone or eventually outright pay for better. It's not necessarily over yet, either. Just harder and I'm getting impatient.Zooms: It'll happen to you.
