>>83848854
You're not Chad and she's Chad Only. What else was she supposed to do? She doesn't see you as a sexually reproductive organism.

>>83849504
B-b-but muh JBW! Muh WMAF! Muh Oxford study! The internets told me all azn womens like white guys! I was told an azn gf would fall in my lap!

>>83849520
Just Be Chad more like.

>>83849504
I don't even care about that, just be my fucking friend

>>83848854
why did you think shitting where you eat is a good idea
why did you think flirting in a room where she cant really avoid you is a good idea
are you retarded

>>83848854
you need to make it about her anon, people just love talking about themselves, ask her about her hobbies and things she like, find a matching interest then ask follow up questions.

It is quite easy to rizz up girls dont you worry.

>>83850820
Where is one even supposed to approach women?
>not at work that's unprofessional
>not in gym because that's creepy
>not in hobby groups because then you are just doing it to get women
>cold approaching people on the street is retarded

>>83850855
>supposed to
not where there's professionalism, i.e. not where someone might have a reasonable expectation of being left alone by people they cant really stay away from
so bars, events, etc are fine
if you had a spec of compassion, youd understand how annoying that is

>>83850820
>flirting
I was making the most average small talk in an attempt to get to know her, I didn't flirt once. At the very least, I was just trying to make a friend. I'm not going to get into what my job is, but that was pretty much going to be the only time we ever speak to each other, so it literally didn't matter.

Also, these rules of where and I can and can't attempt to find intimacy in this world are retarded. Limiting me to only a disgusting bar. Fuck you.

>>83850838
That's what I did actually, but she was not very willing to give anything even when it's about herself. I know this was purely her fault because the married middle-aged women were 10x more easy to talk to after that.

I kinda feel like I'm put on the spot trying to describe and amphersan or weird shit like that. It's not even written phonetically I'm just kinda trying to describe shit that's written I use to think I disliked poetry.

>>83848854
the way you approached her during lunch break you probably were emitting attraction/dating/fuck vibes and she caught on instantly and as a result she's made it clear that you two are just coworkers and will never be anything more than that. women make their decisions on men right away. like i on the other hand get orbiters everywhere i go. it's fucking annoying because i hilariously like a bit of challenge and variety but nope they just want to suck my fucking dick and lick my butthole

>>83850867
>get to know her
>she doesnt want to get to know you
>that makes her the problem
???
im limiting "you" to where there's a reasonable expectation of social interaction.

>>83850882
I don't know how it helps but if you want me to read blackslash amphersan backslash what the fuck am I reading do you alright I'm confused but backslash if it works for you backslash

>>83850904
Her fault in the sense that if she simply reciprocated, this wouldn't be an issue that I experienced, not that she's a "problem". I'm just complaining about my frustration.

>>83850896
We were by ourselves in a quiet lunch break room, with no one else. 99% of people would attempt to make conversation and not sit there in silence staring at the wall for 30 minutes munching on potato chips. It wasn't really me going out of my way to approach her. She was the only person I could reasonably talk to because there was no one else I was in training with.

>>83850926
I mean how am I suppose to describe ( it's somewhat of a bracket kinda more pointed. pointy bracket. not the pointy bracket like[{{

>>83850809
why would she need you as a friend when there are hundreds of simps online?

>>83850948
How am I suppose to remember this off the top of my head fucking I know there is a word for it. It's like I'll remember what to call it after it doesn't fucking matter

>>83850947
that provides a bit more context, thank you. i actually do side with you then in that case. she can at least lean towards the side of being a friend at the very least if you weren't being fucking weird about it which it sounds like you weren't at all, so yeah i can understand a bit more now

>>83850990
Yeah, I wasn't like breathing down her neck, shooting random unprovoked compliments while begging her to feel my muscles while I flex. I just tried to ask about her hobbies, how she got into this job like I did, etc.

Thanks for understanding.

>>83851090
can you lay out the entire conversation from beginning to end?

Many women do not consider non Chad men to be human
I've been an ugly incel and I've been fairly attractive, the difference in the way women treat you is sickening. It's like an entirely different life setting where you unlock female interaction and sex.

>>83851181
they want sex, anon. and they don't want ugly retards blocking their vision when they're trying to find mr handsome man

>>83851157
I would, but unfortunately this happened like 2 years ago, we still work at the same company (and I have never talked to her outside of minimal response emails).

It was just an event I remembered when she popped up on my dating app funny enough.

Best I remember is
>Started talking about our training and asking what she thought of the others' methodology that we shadowed.
>I was humorously making a relatable reference to our certifications and how annoying they are to get, which she did a chuckle at while looking at her phone.
>I learned she likes to "bake and hang out with friends", which I bounced off of, but her only response is "mhm" and at that point I gave up.
I got the most responsiveness from her when we talked specifically about work, but it still wasn't much.

>>83851274
interesting, thank you. you exited at the perfect time, once they say mhm the conversation is over. even if it's your or my mom, once they say mhm it's done. they've exited the interaction from all aspects of life, the spirit/soul/physical/mental lmfao

>>83851285
>you exited at the perfect time
kek agreed
I did a mental image of me throwing my hands in the air saying "fuck it"

>>83849520
>Oxford study
Doesn't exist
>JBW
Only works for getting thirdies

>>83851301
lmfao. that's all you can do. you have to conjure the necessary image to transition off of their abrupt stupid ending

work is fine; don't listen to people imposing dumb imaginary rules. there are no such rules. may need to consider what happens after she rejects your advances, though, and be careful not to overstep the harassment line
but she's obv. not interested so you decision not to smalltalk anymore is right

>>83850855
>Where is one even supposed to approach women?
just be chad

>>83850867
>Make a friend

Lmfao I only talk to women if I have to or if Im trying to fuck. I have friends, all my friends are men.