Aparentely i am too nice to everyone so can't date. Well i am not going to change my personality for anyone I wish whoever she ends up picking gives here a nice and happy life.
>>83850327BEEEAAAAAAKOOOOOOOO>i am too nice to everyone so can't dateWhy do you think that way?
>>83850345not sure that is what she said. and isn't it nice to be nice and all. apparently she wants someone who is only nice to her.
>>83850408>what she saidDid you try to hit on her?>apparently she wants someone who is only nice to herIt depends. There are different ways of being nice, maybe what she meant is that you're too naive. Do people take advantage of your kindness?
>>83850425I am pretty sure it was not one sided, she used to occasionally hit/flirt with me but most of the time i used to turn her off with my responses(i am too pure to talk dirty)well she is naturally flirty maybe so i dont try to take them personally. I think I did try to make a few advances, asked her on out for 14th feb got turned down. >too naive well i dont think so, i can somewhat say no to people in a sorry way even while bearing guilt for it later. although i cant hate people despite how bad they do/are. they must be acting that way as a coping mechanism from past trauma, i can't really get to hate them, maybe try to move a helping hand in.
>>83850477>she used to occasionally hit/flirt with meMaybe she was just kidding, women are weird>i am too pure to talk dirty>i cant hate people despite how bad they do/areThese are signs of naivety, anon. I met 2 dudes who acted that way and both were ultra-mega-autists, maybe this can be the problem too.I'm not neurotypical btw
people have called me "nice" before.i think it just mean ur really boring and have no personality or something
>>83850505It's not naivety, I've seen hell so i would like to stay nice with others you dont know what the other person is facing when being rude.
>>83850506eh you probably are in the wrong group of people then, you need different/more friends.
>>83850536i..uh..i dont have any. this was coworkers...
>>83850533>I've seen hellIS THAT A FUCKING RE:ZERO REFERENCE?>so i would like to stay nice with othersYou can be nice to rude people, but you can't look nice in front of them. It will make you seem weak and harmless, which is something people usually don't like.
Dating a man that is "too nice" makes me feel like a bad guy for normal things because your agreeability makes any dissent look aggressive in comparison.
>>83850548should pickup a hobby or spare classes to meet fun and nice people.
>>83850551unintentional reference. well i suppose i can understand that, I can be quite cold and give people a stern look if they try to talk shit about me. that keeps them in their place. No one really has been evil with me tho(except jokes with friends). well i suppose they dont have a reason to
>>83850569ouch okay, that makes a lot of sense. I suppose that may be a reason and cant blame anyone(myself) for that. well i think now I understand why she made that decision, and the reason is completely valid. thank you for helping me solve the case.
