i do not have a dick and i never had sex. can moids explain what we are actually supposed to do while handling cocks? i see men jerking off very differently in porn. how do you get it hard, is it uncomfortable to touch directly, do you have to find lubrication, where do you touch, what do you do when he is about to coom etc
>>83852361>/r9k/ - Cock stroking tutorials
My penis is only 4 inches so I just rub it.
For me, it's the lip of the head. Imagine the gills of a mushroom, you want gentle friction against that part
>>83852361i dont like lube and what u want to see is that im semi hard like a hot dog not like a deflated balloon and then when im like a frozen hotdog i want to go in ur mouth
>>83852361Lubrication is good. You want substantial lubrication. Also, don't death grip it. Most girls do this wrong, they hold it too hard. I get that you wanna feel the stiffness, but that's too much friction. You want a very loose hold so everything glides. Like if you were repelling down a rope and you need to release your grip to slide down it: that type of hold should be your baseline, sliding down the rope. A little squeeze now and then at the base is fine, but not too hard. It's really a quite sensitive organ (imagine your clit, but big. Would you just squeeze your clit like that?). Spin and twist with the loose grip on the head.
>>83852361There's a big difference between cut and uncut cocks so treat them as completely separate endeavors. I don't know much about cut cocks but I gather you need sandpaper and powertools.For uncut cocks, avoid direct friction on the glans, grab it 1-2 cm under the tip making sure you have a small stack of foreskin at the top, and use the firmness of your grip to slide up and down with the foreskin covering the top. The hand should not move from its position against the skin, if it slips let go and do it again. You are just moving the foreskin over the stiff penis. You can do it quite hard, fast, and firm, as long as you don't slip.>how to get it hardJust touch softly and sensually, it is like kissing, the softer the better. If a moid doesn't get hard it's pretty much always his own issue and fault, the only exception is if the woman is commenting on it or being too non-sexual, joking or goofing too much or generally just not being sensual.
>>83852361Save yourself for marriage and let your husband teach you.
>>83852361Do you need a practice dick?I have one. Users review (only me) say it's ok, can do the deed and cums good. I'll extra wash it for you, uncut.
>>83852361I'm not going to explain how to stroke cock to a middle schooler. No thanks.
>>83852361The most sensitive spot is the frenulum on the bottom side of the dick right under the head. If you want to drive a man crazy start rubbing that spot. You can even cum from frenulum stimulation alone.
>>83852361I can only write as someone whos uncut: grab the base, under the head, like you would any other cylinder (like a thin bottle or a thick office marker). Dont death grip it, just a gentle grip. What you are trying to accomplish is to massage the inside of the penis through the skin. So while gripping it just gently move your hand up and down. Do not death grip and begin stroking it hard at the start. If you don't know what you're doing, you could hurt your friend. Slow and steady is hot to begin, then you can go harder as it gets more intense.
>>83852361>how do you get it hardIt happens when you get horny. But it also will generally happen just from touching it for a bit even if you're not initially horny.>is it uncomfortable to touch directlyNo not at all. Cocks can take a lot of punishment so I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just don't try to break it in half and you can basically do anything to it. Honestly you can think of it as not that different from an arm or leg just with more sensation.>do you have to find lubricationuncut so no I never use lubrication. Just not necessary and it doesn't do much.>where do you touchEverywhere but the most sensitive part to know about is the underside of the head AKA the glans. Basically this is similar to the clitoris. It is the easiest way to make a cock cum but don't overuse it or it will go numb with overstimulation. >what do you do when he is about to coomWhile cumming go slow sort of like you're wringing it out or milking an udder. Don't keep pumping fast while cumming. If you get a bf I would say just tell him to show you how he masturbates. I think every guy likes something a little bit different. Me personally I like a lot of foreskin play in a specific way. Honestly this subject can get quite complex. You can do a lot with a cock.
>>83852422>>83852424>>83852466>>83852499t never had their dicks touched probably dont even jerk off cause none of this shit sounds good to me
>>83852361Just grab it as hard as you can like you're trying to squish it and smack it around like it owes you money.
>>83852544ruby, have you ever had a woman try to give you a handjob?
>>83852544its not rocket science. you grab it, you rub it, it feels good.
>>83852361>how do you get it hardIt'll probably harden as soon as you offer to stroke it, but if it doesn't, don't take it as an insult. We don't have that much control over it.>is it uncomfortable to touch directlyNot really. >do you have to find lubricationI've never had to, I hear circumcised guys often do though.>where do you touchIf you're facing him, hold it like a lever. If you're behind him, hold it like your phone. In either case, rapidly move your hand up and down with a little bit of grip.>what do you do when he is about to coomWhatever you want. Easing up and being relentless each have their own appeal. If it were me, I'd like you to whisper in my ear.
>>83852587a woman rubbed my dick through my pants but thats as far ive gone
>>83852361If ur hot I could probably cum just by you putting your hand down my pants
>>83852690We need to get you some pussy
>>83852422You dont need lubrication, it just enables deathgripping which leads to reduced dick sensitivity. Just grab the dickskin and pull it forwards over the glans.
>>83852361That depends on whether you want to just jerk them off or make it something sensual for actual exceptional experience. I made some webms in which I was showing very specific techniques for some /atoga/ threads on /soc/ in the past, so they may still be somewhere in the archives. I explain there most sensitive spots and what kind of touch feels good.
>>83852914found ithttps://archiveofsins.com/soc/thread/33877335/#33880267Starts with this post and then you have whole chain of linked posts and webms. Or you can just look up Klixen vids. They have amazing handjob/blowjob techniques.
>>83852690Okay then your opinion on handjobs is moot
