Do you think men and women are capable of understanding one another? I don't understand women at all
>>83853735Yes, if you stop thinking of women as inherently "other". It's like asking "Can a short person and a tall person understand one another?". They just have a different body. Of course there will be some women you don't understand, same as some men.
>>83853735I feel I understand men, but it took years of practice and experience including boymoding to pass.
>>83853783>They just have a different body. Of course there will be some women you don't understandI don't really think that's true. They act a lot different and I haven't really found any that I understand. Though I think the fact that I don't understand most men either, probably doesn't help things.
Yes, because each is a person. If you have empathy, it is not that hard to understand how another person feels.
>>83853735Men are capable of understanding women because every man was a child once.
>>83853831>Yes, because each is a personThen why do they act different and seem to have different expectations than I do?
>>83853783>Can a short person and a tall person understand one another?".But short people and tall people can't understand one another, at least among males.
>>83853794Do you get along well with both men and women?
>>83853914>short people and tall people can't understand one anotheAgain, every man was a child once
>>83853735>I don't understand women at allit's really not hard. they are retarded dogs who operate purely on emotional impulse and get away with it because most men cant resist pussy
>>83853871You are equating understanding to adopting belief. You can empathize and see where they are coming from without adopting anythi g including their behaviors. This is what actual normal human beings can do. You don't understand because you are not normal. However, I can understand where you are coming from because of reasons like you were raised in an unloving home or you have some kind of psychological disorder that prevented you from experiencing normal emotioal growth. These help you develop empathy. Empathy is the key word in all of this.
>>83853979Not every man was a manlet.It's one thing being a kid sized-kid. It's another thing being a kid-sized adult.Are you arrogant enough to presume you know what it's like to live as someone with dwarfism because you were once their size?
>>83853735I don't get it, what is there to understand?
>>83854007>unloving home or you have some kind of psychological disorder that prevented you from experiencing normal emotioal growthIt's both. And I wouldn't say that I'm unempathetic necessarily. I can understand if someone is upset and why. There just seems to be a disconnect for me a lot of the time. I guess it's really just a difference in experiences. Most women seem to have completely different lived experiences than I do, which makes it difficult to relate to them. Like one of the last times I tried talking to a woman. She was complaining about being lonely. So I tried talking to her about it. She started opening up about how she had this fwb relationship with this guy but he didn't want to commit and just wanted sex. Like I can understand that's a shitty situation but it's one that is completely alien to me.
>>83853794>I, as a dress wearing man, have somehow managed to understand a man's mind
>>83853735I understand her more than she knows It seems. But I think she does know but is in denial
>>83854180You gotta let it go, Mike.
>>83854116How is it fundamentally different other than delusions of grandeur and the fact legally manlets have the same rights as real men?
>>83854148The disconnect comes from not being able to take the other's view point into consideration. That doesn't mean you have accept it though because it's stupid, like the girl in your example. It's a shitty situation because of her beliefs. But you can understand and thus empathize. That can be powerful in developing relations with people. Sometimes, they'll open up and ask for what you think. This is your opportunity to give input. Now after that, you may have to develop that skill like I did because I'm an autist so it didn't come naturally.
>>83853936I do yes. Well normally. Boymoding it's different towards other women, but then I feel that's probably the case with most men>>83854160retard
>>83854268In my experience as someone that went from being considered short to being considered tall(I hit my growth spurt late). You get treated a lot better if you're tall. Like I won't say people treat you better but they definitely don't go out of their way to disrespect you like if you're short.
>>83853735No. It's possible, but it isn't something to chase after. It's too uncommon, and it also isn't all that satisfying. It's not a fair expectation to place on the opposite sex.What you really have to do is learn how to live without understanding them, and without being understood by them.
>>83853735F-types are in general much better in understanding people than T-types. Women operate more on feeling mode than men, so the more you understand human emotions, the more you understand female behavior.
>>83854381Bruh, you just proved the point I've been making this whole time lmao
>>83853735>I don't understand women at allIf you recontextualize how they think and act through the lens of them being a child, everything makes sense.
>>83854544nta>women act like childrenMost don't. Adult women have obviously much more complex ways to follow their emotions. And they can lie better than children.
>>83854593>Most don'tThis is female delusional cope from someone who hasn't interacted with children nor with women. They are identical, because the way the world treats them remains constant after they go through puberty.
>>83854593You're just going to make shit up this entire thread aren't you?
>>83854268>How is it fundamentally different other than delusions of grandeur Women treat you differently, depending on your height. Men do too, but not as much. >the fact legally manlets have the same rights as real men?What does that have to do with the price of tea in china?>>83854535>Bruh, you just proved the point I've been making this whole time lmaoIt really doesn't. My guy spent at most 2 years a short adult before simply just being tall and looking down on everyone.He doesn't know what it's like from merely a taste.
>>83854711>Women treat you differently, depending on your heightOk and? The question is how is a manlet and a child who are same height treated differently.
>>83855028Children are treated nicely because they're children. The short man is treated badly because shortness isn't a desirable trait in grown men.
>>83853735Men are capable of understanding women, it's just that understanding them is incredibly disappointing. Women can't understand men because men's understanding of what it means 'to understand' is logical and utility-oriented, not based purely on feelings. Hence why when a man understands women, he is left with only disappointment, as there is no utility in understanding something fundamentally illogical.
