Is dating a younger girl a terrible idea?
>>83854869all ideas are terrible
>>83854869Meh, not really. Dating a shitty person is a terrible idea. Be discerning.
>>83854869what happens when you age into gramps and she's still kinda hot?
>>83854907You lament the fact that she's only kinda hot and trade her for a younger, hotter one.
>>83854869Can't remember the exact stats on it but iirc marriages where the guy is a few years older have the lowest divorce rate of any given gap.
>>83854928Which is logical, women are behind most divorces and leave when you're not doing well for yourself because they think they have greater chance of success if they're younger. This says nothing about relationship quality but more about women. Age gap relationships are common among gays for example and those of them who marry even with large age gaps dont divorce as commonly, far less so. Meanwhile even lesbians without any age gaps have very high divorce rates. This is a woman issue, not an age gap one.
>>83854869It is a bad idea if the woman is below 20, after that it is a good idea.
>>83854920meme tier answer, which is why a lot of age gap relationships are doomed. Sure you can be the hot "older guy" at freaking 34, I still get teenage girls develop a crush on me, but imagine dating one and your pretty boy face starts aging rapidly after 40 and she's like 28 then. Do you think she won't think to herself "omg he's an old man while I'm young and sorrounded by virile Chads my age"
Stop posting this picture! Being wrapped up in a blanket with the person you love is extremely comfy!
>>83854962> face starts aging rapidly after 40maybe not let yourself go then, if you want above average outcomes you need to work for that
>>83854962Bill Gates' wife broke up with him. I'm not saying he's a good guy, just very rich which women like. There is nothing you can do that will make a woman keep you, it's entirely her whimsy. Being rich, being fit, being handsome, being young or old or her same age. Being her childhood friend or being great with her family. Being the father of her children or even being willing to 'step up' for her already existing children. None of it matters, and it's made worse by no fault divorces, alimony, and child support. This is what happens with women. It's rolling the dice on an emotional creature's whim.
>>83854869if you are the right guy for it, you need to primarily be able to sutain mean words from older women and incels or losers. Most guys are herd animals, its less a question of how successful you are but how much headwind you can face without blinking.
This is also why you often see weird autists having younger women, people in the media but the CEO of the bank usually doesn't do it since he cannot afford headwind.
>>83855021>Bill Gates' wife broke up with him.1. he cheatead on her2. she has a bad case of Germanic Woman JawThey're both better off without each other.
>>83854869Not inherently. Problem is most 18 year olds are retarded. I prefer 20's but what you choose up to you.If you bond with an 18 year old who wants to be in a relationship with you why not. You can take care of her and teach her things and she can give you love. Just keep in mind she won't be able to do things like go to bars with you and if she turns on you and you bought her alcohol she most likely will overplay into grooming accusations to own her.>I recommend 21 minimum age to prevent this.
>>83855041This is why you should practice Buddhism
>>83855125>Problem is most 18 year olds are retarded.And obnoxious.
>>83855125>Problem is most 18 year olds are retardedExactly why it's often always terrible guys who want them. They are easy to control, have no experience or understanding of what a good male can be
>>83854869It's about who she is as a person and compatibility in love and lust with each other.
>>83855629An 18 year old is at a very different stage in their life than someone in their 30s. Could they still be compatible?
>>83854869Killing yourself is a fantastic idea you should do that
